Married men or guys in relationships only!?

Question

What can your spouse or girl friend do to prevent you from cheating on them? and why do you guys look at other girls? is it possible for a man to never cheat?

Answer 1

As a guy, I've got to admit, it seems like there's this caveman inside me that still forces some basic instincts to the surface now and then. So I do look when I see a pretty girl on the street. But no, I don't have any nude mags in the sock drawer. But never have I, and never will I touch another woman besides my wife for two reasons.
1. Even before we got married my girl told me that she's available to me pretty much whenever, and however I want within the boundaries of common sense. Experiment, live out your fantasies on me, she told me. Just don't hurt or embarrass me.
2. Anybody with the ability to think knows that the time and commitment put into a marriage are way too precious to even think about messing up on. We've been married 29+ years now. 4 kids, only one still left at home. 2 grand kids, one more on the way. What? I'm supposed to give up an entire life for some fling in a motel? How could I even think about facing my sons or their families if I did something like that?
Yes it's possible for a man to never cheat. When he knows how special what he has at home is, he has no desire to cheat. Love your man, be there for him, show him how special your lives together is. No need to stray, no desire to stray, home where he belongs.

Answer 2

There is nothing anyone can do to prevent anyone, man or woman, from cheating.

It is certainly possible for a man to never cheat. I am a man, and I would never cheat in a million years. Once again, this is not a gender issue, because women are just as bad as men.

The truth is, people, men and women, are either capable of cheating or they are not. Yep, I know, people come up with all sorts of excuses as to why they cheated, most of which are ridiculous statements that place the blame on their spouses. However, it is never a spouses fault, no matter what, that their partners cheated on them. Abuse, neglect, hard times, whatever is never an excuse for cheating.

Cheating is never acceptable no matter what. No one deserves it. If one feels the need to pursue another relationship, then he or she, if they have any heart at all, will do the right thing and leave the person they are with. I know it hardly ever happens this way, but that doesn't make it right! People are so selfish and miserable these days. A person with a real heart could never live with the burden of knowing how much pain cheating causes another.

As far as looking goes, people will always look. Looking means nothing. It is only natural. It happens. It is unrealistic for a man or woman to expect their partner to never look at another person.

I wish you the best.

Answer 3

If you are scared that your partner would cheat on you, there is probably something wrong with your relationship. Being scared would would make you paranoid and you would confront your partner each time he goes out or talks to a woman. That would drive him away and maybe even cause him to cheat. Trust, there should be trust and no jealousy. Men will be men and will always look, its fine just as long as he only looks at the menu and don't order.

A man would never cheat if there is mutual respect in a relationship. Give him some space to to live his life, without suspecting him of cheating. If he really loves you he wouldn't cheat on you.

Answer 4

First off there is nothing anyone can do to stop there spouse from cheating, either they will or they wont. Men and women both look at the opposite sex it is our human nature, what we have to learn is how to be respectful about it. Yes it is possible for a man to never cheat on his spouse as long as u make the same promise and commitment to him.

Answer 5

This is the most important bit of information that a woman can have but few wish to accept it: Men will always look at, fantasize about and desire other women but an even more important bit of information is that we are all a bit lazy and as a result we do not chase every woman we are attracted to. Once you accept the dirty magazines in the sock drawer and the Internet pop-ups of oral and anal sex, you will be ready to to really understand your man and take the relationship to another level. At that point you will have made a bond and secured your relationship for years to come. Embrace his desires and he will always be by your side.

Also note that marriage is not a result of nature but rather a result of culture. It is a survival strategy that has helped millions for millenia care for their children and help ensure survival of another generation. The reason there are deadbeat dads is because there can be. Someone else or society at large will chip in and lend a hand to help children make it to adult hood. In societies where there are fewer resources to help mothers raise children there is also a lower incidence of single mothers because it takes two to raise a family.

Answer 6

Yes. I dont cheat and I dont think you should assume that all men do. I think that you have probably been hurt and are angry. I think there are a lot of men who like the relationship they are in and dont cheat. Some bad men cheat and some women cheat. It isnt a crime to see other people visually but if you are working on your marriage it should be the focus of your life.

Good Luck to You and God Bless!!

Answer 7

I have no idea, but I can tell you this. When I was younger I did cheat, now that I am older, I have no desire to cheat. I don't think that a women could do anything to stop a man from cheating. It is all a matter of maturity.

Good Luck,

Answer 8

Sex. Act like you enjoy it. A BJ once in a while helps too. He's your man - act like you want to make him happy. If there's something you won't do in bed, chances are theres some chick out there who will and he realizes that and will do what he can to find her.

Guys look at other girls because we find them attractive.

It is possible for a man to never cheat.

Answer 9

Just stay the same way as you were when we married you, of couse you are going to gain a few pounds with age, but not 20 or 30, stay exciting like your wedding was yesterday, don't become boring and hide in a bottle or with the soap opera's every day, uggahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, next case

Answer 10

We like to have our ego pumped up for one. Try making him feel powerful by the way u speak to and treat him. And, you can't stop ur man from looking but you can stop him from cheating. Spice up ur sex life. Do something completely out of the box(something he would never expect from you) like meet him at the door naked when he comes home from work. Keep him guessing. Don't fall into a boring rut.