Marriage & Divorce - 9 August 2006

How do I get revenge on the girl who stole my husband,other than letting her keep him?!

2006-08-09 12:04:55 · 47 answers · asked by kelly l 2

2006-08-09 11:46:01 · 4 answers · asked by maria 1

we have talked about marriage, but he says he wont wear a ring, how can I get him to ask me anyway??

2006-08-09 11:45:33 · 9 answers · asked by luv him 2

What things do you do with your spouse? What things do you do with your friends? Why don't you do the things you do with your friends with your spouse?

2006-08-09 11:43:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have two beautiful little girls with no plans for any more. I miscarried in May and he said that was for the best since he wants no more kids. But the weenie won't go and get himself fixed! I have endometriosis and my doc strongly recommends against tying my tubes (too much scar tissue) and I don't want to go under the knife again (2 laps and 2 c-sections). His mom told him he should do it. His dad told him he should do it. My dad told him he should do it. He feels that he shouldn't have to be the one to "get fixed" since he isn't actually the one who could get pregnant. Withholding sex hasn't worked either -- he can "take care of himself".

HELP!

2006-08-09 11:36:12 · 16 answers · asked by Barney's Betty 2

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2006-08-09 11:28:37 · 7 answers · asked by heartwhisperer2000 5

Everyone has someone in the past that perhaps they never forgot. Who is that and why are they still lurking?

2006-08-09 11:27:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious as to other people's opinions on this.

2006-08-09 11:25:01 · 15 answers · asked by bgall 1

Now the modern life,people dont believe in marriage or marriage life.They feel bore to live life time with one person. So whats ur openion??

2006-08-09 11:18:41 · 21 answers · asked by ROUSHON ARA 1

my husband has had a vascectomy know for 7 years and now he wants it to be reversed. Can he still get me pregnant even though its been so long?

2006-08-09 11:17:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why can't I find my question (submitted one week ago) on the Q,A
under other, Family relationships.

This is a very serious issue, and Iv'e searched for my question here on the site.

It comes up under my name and profile.?

2006-08-09 11:16:12 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

I am stubborn, lazy, forgetfull and often incosiderate. She is prideful, quick tempered (maybe with some anger issues), impatient and kind of bossy.
In reaction to her reactions to me, I will get sarcastic and defensive- very passive aggressive kind of stuff.
This ultimately results in her getting super pissed, swearing and screaming and occaisionaly throwing stuff at me.
Now, it might be easy to say "why don't you try to change." Easier said than done. These peronality flaws I have are so apart of me that I never even realize what I am doing until after the fact, and be then its too late. Oh and she holds a grudge so my profuse apologizes typically fall upon deaf ears. I rarely get mad at her- only frustrated that she won't stop being mad at me.
I love her very much and it seems to me that we get along very well about 70% of the time. Divorce is not an option to me. We also have a 2 yr old boy who I could not live without. he has ruled out counseling- thinks its stupid.

2006-08-09 11:06:59 · 28 answers · asked by Alex C 1

2006-08-09 11:04:07 · 18 answers · asked by Sheena H 1

Why does it my boyfriend see it as a pressure on him when....?
I tell him that I am afraid of loosing him if he goes to work abroad? He said he hasn't got the job yet and I already see it as a problem. He got upset with me because he thinks I want to influence his decision but that's not the case. I just worry about loosing him? Why do men see it so differently? He said that he regrets he told me all about it. I feel bad now. I never meant to come across as a selfish girlfriend but I wanted to find out if he actually considers me? He said I pressure him about it? I am 28. He is 26. We are both living in Europe in 2 different countries already. He would like to go to New York City just to work for a while to see how it is there like. I live alone in my country, he lives in his.. we visit each other once a month.Nothing is for sure but I have noticed that he talks about it a lot. He got angry with me last night for telling him that I worry about loosing him. What should I do now?

2006-08-09 11:04:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 11:00:47 · 31 answers · asked by quad_luvin_chic33 2

2006-08-09 11:00:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 10:55:23 · 16 answers · asked by mzthomas35 1

I have joint custudy of my children but the problem is when it is his time with the kids he is always coming back to my house for one thing or another. And its always dumb stuff he says he needs to talk to me about. I pay for the food even at his house cause I fill the kids will not get feed if I don't.He works but uses his money on beer.He pays childsupport but between food,kids cloths for school and everything else I pay for the kids have no money for fun stuff.
I talk to the attorneys about it and they say nothing I can do.I am remarried and my husband is tired of my ex using me and trying to give me guilt trips.I even told him when he has the kids he needs to make sure he buys there food and stuff but he always comes back to me. Help he does not know what the word divorce means.

2006-08-09 10:55:05 · 6 answers · asked by starlight203_2000 2

2006-08-09 10:53:07 · 56 answers · asked by iceheartcrystal 1

My divorce is getting started, my x wants us to keep the house but he wants 20k!!! the house isn't worth it - he lied to me about the valuation, its a lot less than what hes asking!! he's playing lots of mind games with me and he thinks I'm a fool! my son loves the house, but I really can't afford it... what do you think I should do?

2006-08-09 10:52:03 · 34 answers · asked by scorpion queen 3

I have been legally seperated for a year and want my divorce. I have filed for it . My x gets alimony. I had to send in a new expense form to her attorney because now my x wants more money. Its been 5and1/2 weeks since i turned in the form. I called my attorney and all he had to say is that he hadnt heard from my x's attorney. I feel like my attorney isnt working for me at all. what do I do to speed this up?

2006-08-09 10:51:50 · 9 answers · asked by im022352 1

You think you let go but it’s in the back of your head. There is a saying; the pass makes us who we are in the present. Could that be why we think of the past at times?

2006-08-09 10:50:01 · 16 answers · asked by Classico 2

My brothers wife left him last week and moved in with another man she met only a few weeks before that. She dropped off their son yesterday and my brother has decided to try and gain custudy.
He has yet to file for a divorce or custudy. What is to keep her from taking the child from school and not returning him. I guess what I'm really trying to ask here is can he and if so how can he keep his son until suit is filed. If it helps, we live in Texas

2006-08-09 10:41:31 · 8 answers · asked by brina 1

Can you imagine? 50 years of putting up with someone?

For both their good work, patience and kindness to eachother. What does one get them as a gift?

2006-08-09 10:38:51 · 4 answers · asked by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5

It's for her birthday, and it had a part about where we are going for that weekend. How do I throw her off the trail or is the proverbial "cat out of the bag"?

2006-08-09 10:33:19 · 19 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

Here's the situation: My husband and I have been married for 22 months, and he has decided that he can't be my husband anymore. He says that he still loves me and always will but we just hasn't felt "married" to me anymore. We have been going through a very rough period in our relationship. He had been working until late and I'd been working early in the morning, we haven't had time to talk or do anything else, really, for about 3-4 months now. And then he decided that the way to fix it was to end our relationship. I think it's way too early to be thinking about divorce, when it hasn't even been 2 years since we got married. And I want to convince him that if he loves me, and I love him, that should be all that matters, and we can use this situation to reverse things in our lives and help our relationship evolve. All he says is that he doesn't know what to do. How can I make him believe in us? Have faith? Try?

2006-08-09 10:30:34 · 22 answers · asked by Nina E 2

Okay, I'm curious about something here.
I've seen a widely varied type of responses about sex on this site.

I've seen people say that you shouldn't depend on a good sex life to make you happy, and then that you shouldn't have sex before marriage, and that sex isn't that important in a relationship.

So going off of that theory.

Why do so many marriages end in divorce because of a spouse cheating on the other. More specifically, having sex with someone other than their spouse.

If sex isn't so important, and isn't one of the defining factors of a good relationship or marriage, then how come so many relationships end because of it?

2006-08-09 10:26:00 · 23 answers · asked by cloaked30m 3

How do you cope?

2006-08-09 10:23:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I havent done nothing to him but be nice and sweet to him, but I get treated badly, please tell me what the problem is if anyone knows.

2006-08-09 10:23:22 · 12 answers · asked by maryanntiller 2

my husband knows i hate strip clubs and porn but yet the other day i caught him online watching porn- what the hell? divorce?

2006-08-09 10:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by jerbear0510 1