Marriage & Divorce - 9 August 2006

2006-08-09 01:54:09 · 9 answers · asked by Kurt 1

i have been living with my fiance for 2 yrs...last night was the last straw, he has been abusive verbally, mentally, and physically (pushed me down many times, held me down, and slapped me once). the names and insults and put downs caused me to attempt suicide last night, i guess you call it that, i took 15 over the counter sleeping pills, when i showed him the empty box he left me. he says the cruelest things to me and he may be looking at jail time for a dui and last week he got 5 more tickets, i do not have any children with him, told me i was the worst thing to ever happen to him and he always said the best i even put a truck in MY name for HIM, I i have no family or really any friends, i need to take myself and my 2 children to a shelter, i have a full time job, will they let me stay? even my 16 yr old son has a job, will they turn us away? i have 2 vehicles in my name ( i need to sell one) will they turn me away, i need help, i want to die due to this man, i live in alabama.

2006-08-09 01:52:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 01:52:06 · 18 answers · asked by amymarie 1

If you realized one day that you couldn't both be with the person you love and make the rest of your dreams come true, would you sacrifice your dreams to be with your spouse or would you leave him/her in order to fulfill your other dreams? I mean if there was really no way you could have both.

I find myself in that dilemma and I feel like whichever I choose I will never be happy. I know I have to do something about my life and it looks like I'll have to choose one of those, but neither choice feels right and I think that no matter what I choose there will always be this emptiness.

2006-08-09 01:41:30 · 14 answers · asked by @*o*@ 4

2006-08-09 01:40:37 · 25 answers · asked by adze g 1

2006-08-09 01:22:10 · 11 answers · asked by littlescreechowl 2

i have changed since we split up, and this is good because before we would argue night and day.and i have made myself calm down. im so angry with myself for letting my marriage break up for this time and i dont know how to stop myself feeling so bad. i love my husband and we are back together. but my guilt is torturing me to the point where i am in despair all the time. its just knowing my husband was there without me and im struggling to accept he may have spoken to other women. he would cry himself to sleep when we were apart so i know he didnt sleep with anyone but he may have spoken to women and that really really hurts. i spoke to other men but one day i suddenly realised how stupid we or i had been. i want to be with him forever and never go through this again. how can i stop feeling so bad and this pain inside?

2006-08-09 01:18:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

You know what I mean. I love the smell of my lady, it is a soft sensual fragrance called ESCAPE.

2006-08-09 01:09:47 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3

i cook, i clean, i take care of the kids, i go to school, i give him sex when he wants it. he still treats me like another one of his kids. here's a $1 honey, don't spend it all in one place!

2006-08-09 01:01:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband has a full time job and he thinks that since i get the same eight hours plus more at home with the baby i shud b doing evrything like cleaning , cooking, grocery, taking care of baby, entertaining guests,plus painting scrapbookin, gym and he just wont help....what should i do? he thinks that since i was working before the baby and doing most of the above metioned work with some help from him, now i should be doing all this on my own just bcoz im home......he does not realize that being a new mom with no help since we dont have any family around is more than a full time job.

2006-08-09 00:57:42 · 15 answers · asked by lost 1

Me and my fiancée have been together for years, have kids toghether, thought that we were always meant to be..then it turns out that he´s fallen for some girl at work(don´t know how long this has been going on), apparently nothing has happened in terms of kissing and so on, but still, just the idea of him "looking" for something else when I thought we had "it all"..he says he is NOT in love with her(even though i´ve seen e-mails sent to her stating this) but i just can´t believe or trust him anymore...i am a very jealous person, we´ve also always had the "porn-sites" issue, him looking saying it doesn´t mean anything..which I think it does, i feel that it´s a comparison and what "normal" person could live up to those standards? Anyone been in my situation?

2006-08-09 00:39:15 · 15 answers · asked by SWE-girl 2

Does size of Penis matter when you perform oral sex for your husband?

2006-08-09 00:21:50 · 7 answers · asked by Trying to be spiritual 1

2006-08-09 00:17:26 · 22 answers · asked by Your fantasy 1

I delete junk mails but this person knew things from my adolesence.
I am a doctor married to a doctor, we have 3 teenage boys. My husband js a serial philanderer which I turned a blind eye to not because of lack of self respect but hopes that he will cure.
I assumed that it was my husband trying to check on my thoughts but recently it looks like a person before my marriage may be responsible.
I really need to know who this person is for it has destroyed my peace.

2006-08-09 00:00:06 · 15 answers · asked by ashley 1