Marriage & Divorce - 9 August 2006

I'm happily married and want to rock my wife's world (even more). I am doing this to get new ideas in ways to please her. I don't want it to get boring for her. I have to spice it up every now and then. Any ideas will be greatly appreciated. Only rules are - no extra people and not in my butt. Everything else is fair game.

2006-08-09 04:36:42 · 12 answers · asked by s_bodhi 3

I love my husband to death and couldn't imagine cheating on him or being without him. We have a wonderful relationship. What about everyone else?

2006-08-09 04:36:01 · 18 answers · asked by heatherdrake2005 3

What are the best break up movies and songs?

What are the best "feel good" movies and songs?

2006-08-09 04:35:32 · 2 answers · asked by torn 3

2006-08-09 04:34:25 · 2 answers · asked by hana_kream 1

this is true ,it was on the health channel yesterdy, a young lady worked for a plastic surgeon,she had just had a baby a few months earlier,she wanted,the surgeon to put the fat from her stomach,which there was not much of,in her vagina lips because after child birth one was sunkin inward,would you do this #2 if your husband could have this done to his penis would you let him,also would this cure mans obesity

2006-08-09 04:32:28 · 8 answers · asked by har 3

I love this man to death and I am excited to be marrying him. The problem is that he seems to have some very deeply programmed things in his head. When he was growing up (unfortunately his father passed away when he was 14) his father was the final word on all things. His mother, who is a very sweet woman, could 'petition' for things she wanted but his father's final word was law. I was raised in a very open liberal family and I am offended that my fiance seems to think that I should, in the end, do as he says. I'm a grown woman and a hardcore feminist...suggestions on how I can solve this like an adult?

2006-08-09 04:31:51 · 22 answers · asked by Kitten 4

2006-08-09 04:28:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me & my hubby are seperating and I'm not sure of how to tell my parents or his or anybody else? I know I shouldn't have to explain myself, but I know they are still going to ask why?

2006-08-09 04:27:43 · 15 answers · asked by Mrs. G 1

2006-08-09 04:22:41 · 9 answers · asked by smutulator 1

A friend of mine is going through a tough time at the moment with his divorce.His ex wife is making life very difficult for him and he's doing the best he can.There are children involved and he's still supporting them emotionally and financially as he should be.I care about him alot in a romantic sense and we have talked about our feelings.He likes me alot but is unsure of what he should do?He's talking about moving away and i just want to help him and make life easier for him.What can i do?He already knows that im here for him whenever he needs me but how can i get him to see that life will get better in time??

2006-08-09 04:22:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 04:20:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

* if they are truly sorry and are not a repeat offender.

2006-08-09 04:18:02 · 44 answers · asked by Dominika 3

I was half asleep, and my fiancee started trying to have anal sex, which is too painful for me. I pretended to be asleep to see how far he would go. He stopped but then started to switch to regular vaginal sex. I immediately let him know I was awake and stopped him because I am prone to bladder infections, and that could have given me one. He knows this, and has seen me suffer with painful bladder infections. I kind of yelled at him and said, "You should have washed yourself. Don't you care about me? You know that causes bladder infections." He didn't say anything, but just seemed embarrassed and kind of laughed. This is really bothering me.

2006-08-09 04:13:31 · 11 answers · asked by stevie ann 2

They've broken up about 5 to 6 times over the 25 years. They're both in their early 40's and have never been married.. Whenever he was seeing someone else, she'd always try to be around, content to be the outside woman. When he was in between relationships, she'd step up and be the main girl. She probably was hoping that over time, he'd get fed up and just marry her.

Now he's met someone and truly fallen in love and plan's to marry this new girl. What do you think of the woman? And the man?

2006-08-09 04:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by shugs 1

So, hes out of the country and I have put in my 30 day notice to vacate in! When he comes back he won't have any place to live. I have been asking him every other month for the last year to leave and he won't. I am just so much happier with out him around! He is very jealous and possesive and has gotton violent on occasion. Our cultures are very different and he wants me to comprimise 100%. I really don't want to call him but I know thats better than an email and I don't want to ruin the rest of his extended visit!

2006-08-09 04:12:14 · 7 answers · asked by Jillian G 1

2006-08-09 04:08:19 · 6 answers · asked by hana_kream 1

My ex husband and I divorced last year and although it has been very hard I have tried everything in my power to make sure that we have a good relationship now for our children. We were best friends before we got married and I want to be best friends again. I do know now that we should have never been married, he has too many issues and could not be faithful to save his life. I am in a new relationship with another man and although the two of them talk and seem to get along wonderfully and neither one has ever said anything bad about the other, my girl friends have me worried that my friendship with the ex is keeping my current boyfriend from getting close. Every now and then (mostly if he's been drinking) he will make reference to me still having feelings for my ex but when we talk about it he says he knows its not like that. I do still LIKE my ex husband, aside from being a cheat he's a good person and he is a wonderful father, he is just not husband material and never will be.

2006-08-09 04:06:28 · 16 answers · asked by Red 2

My husband and I spoke about having at least 2 children before we were married. He has 2 from previous relationships and I have been a good stepmother to them, they don't not live with us, but when they visit during the summer they love being around me and I'm pretty attached to them myself. After I got pregnant my husband was upset, wanted to leave, then changed his mind, now he's saying he doesn't want anymore children. How am I supposed to cope with that knowing what we discussed. He knows I would have politely bowed out of the relationship with him if I knew this was going to happen. I feel like he's trying to take away MY dreams and plans instead of him being honest in the first place. I am not accepting his decision to change things just becasue we are married and I know I want to have children with someone who (honestly) wants the same things. Would I be wrong to leave the relationship behind this?

2006-08-09 03:57:21 · 6 answers · asked by Skypride 2

wetsuit that I had underneath to make it look wet, then I sprung the surprise. I told her to take off the blindfold, she was so happy. We are finally going diving off the Mexican coast. We've wanted to go for years and we can finally afford it. Do you ever set up any elaborate surprises for your significant other?

2006-08-09 03:57:19 · 12 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

mine is when I saw my love

2006-08-09 03:52:29 · 16 answers · asked by frzd_hssn 1

am wanting to leave. I have wanted to for years but have been scared to. Although I think he would be too chicken to really do anything, the threats are there and I dont want to take them lightly. Its been a few months since he hit me but emotional abuse and the mind games are there constantly. We have 2 beautiful kids who dont deserve to live in this. I have a woman I am close to that tells me that when you get divorced you just trade for a whole new set of problems. Well, I dont agree with that.

What I am looking for is someone who actually had these scared to death feelings like I do but finally got out. What did you do? How did you do it? How did you tell him and how did he react? I have a place to go. I have a job. he doesn't. I have searched hi and low for someone to tell me how they did it. It would help me tremendously.

2006-08-09 03:48:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to spice it up for my wife. I want to set it off for her. I like variety and she does too. There isns't much I won't do for her, but there are a few rules - Here are the rules:
1) One-on-One only. No outsiders.
2) Not in my butt.
Everything else is fair game.

2006-08-09 03:45:29 · 5 answers · asked by s_bodhi 3

Ladies,
Be very honest here…. Would you rather date a guy who is always to the point… or a guy who plays a little bit of games (Not like he is married or has a GF on the side kind of games … just playful ones)…. And please don’t say a little of both…. Cause then you wouldn’t be choosing… :-)

2006-08-09 03:45:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 03:43:32 · 15 answers · asked by poppy vox 4

I enjoy being with girls on occassion, with or without my husband being involved. I don't know what to say to a girl to find out if she is into that.. Any suggestions? Girls have always approached me, but it has been a while, and I want to do it again. I know, i am going to hell and my marriage will suffer..blah, blah, blah.. Can I possible get some serious answers?

2006-08-09 03:43:14 · 1 answers · asked by tear streaked angel 2

because of my mother in law

2006-08-09 03:43:09 · 28 answers · asked by bob 1

What did I do wrong? She had a huge sheet of Lime jello on the counter. Man, I just don't get her sometimes.

2006-08-09 03:41:00 · 18 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-08-09 03:39:09 · 16 answers · asked by Pembrokesmythe 1

2006-08-09 03:38:45 · 9 answers · asked by outremer7 1

and not get involved again? My husband is a partner at an investment firm. He had a 3 month affair with another partner. Of course he had to move out. He wants to get back together. I am willing to forgive him. This is real life, not TV.
He says that he has broken off the affair, that it was a stupid mid-life crisis, and wants to come home. Should I let him? ( Of course I would be more of a siren when he returns. He has to make up for lost time. Ha!) Anyway, the true question for you guys is can you still work with a woman everyday that you broke off an affair with and not get involved again? My sister says that men have "great capacity for such coldness" so I shouldn't make him give up his partnership. Tell me, guys. Thanks.

2006-08-09 03:37:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous