Marriage & Divorce - 9 August 2006

What u do when a man get excited even when he see advertisement of the girl on news paper, t.v, or anywhere? But he would never get excited abt his wife though people tell him that his wife looks sexy and cute?Serious answers pls............

2006-08-09 05:59:40 · 6 answers · asked by kiran123 2

We have 2 young children, ages 4 & 5. Year 2004, I caught her going to JB with a guy. Don't know got sex or not? But they broke off after a while. Year 2005, I caught her on the bed with another guy. Year 2006, she with a guy younger than her, 3 years. This time she(currently now), not like previous times, after I found out and said if she broke off with her little bf, I will still accept her. But she decided to ask for divorce. I know her new relationship won't last, but do you think I should let her go and harm herself? I keep don't let go is because, I care for her and she give me 2 kids and also for the kids not losing their mum. She is very dependant on me and I don't want anything bad to happen to her. Her parents and I know she are at faults and she don't know how to think. But do you think this time I should let her go?

2006-08-09 05:58:41 · 23 answers · asked by Grace is a liar 3

I've been married for 3 wks, & with him for almost 2 yrs. We're inseperable, except for his incarcerations. We have problems with sex & porn. We have sex 2x's a week. He performs like an 18 yr. old. Problems staying hard. He's selfish. Does what it takes 4 him with no 4play. He likes to watch ana@ sex. We've done it a couple times, but he refuses 2 now. He said we are married. I'm his wife. He's afraid it will turn me into a wwhore. I love sex & want it at least daily. I don't initiate, because he puts me down alot & it's always the same act. I also know I won't get an orgasm, so what's the point? Twice he has rocked my world, other than that it's terrible. Porn addict. jacks to it & won't do me. He promised over and over he would stop. Since we got married he hasn't done it. We got into an arguement yesterday. I checked the comp. this morning and there was porn everywhere. I asked him why? He said "Yes, I did it, so what?" He was w/ men in prison. I love him. Help!

2006-08-09 05:58:33 · 6 answers · asked by Amelia 2

2006-08-09 05:57:52 · 32 answers · asked by edna 1

have you ever been inlove with a person, who you knew you have to leave as they are horrible, abusive and using, although this is the next step that you are going to take and their is no going back, you cant imagine life without them, although they treat you like ****. How did you overcome those feelings? and why do I feel that way? (my other half an me have a child and are married, but dont live together)
thankyou to you all

2006-08-09 05:57:19 · 3 answers · asked by sweetlikehoney_73 5

What if you really love your mate and dont want to leave them but you noticed something lacking in the relationship. Lets say sex. Your married and you only have sex about once or twice a month. You tell your mate that its not enough & your mate just says thats how I am. what is the best way to deal with this and would it be right to cheat? Real Answers plz.

2006-08-09 05:49:47 · 42 answers · asked by Barak M 1

I trust my husband and I do not think he would do anything wrong or cheat on me but he has 3 friends that he likes to go off with every once in a while and 2 of them I do not trust at all! One is single, and the other 2 are married (with one acting like he is single & he don't care what his wife thinks about him going out, he is going regardless). I know that men need their space and there is nothing wrong with him hanging with the guys but I do not like these particular friends. They like to stay gone all day & night. One time my husband went out with them & left at 7am to play golf & didn't come home until 9:30-10:00 pm. Then Saturday night my husband left to play golf at 7am & came home at 6pm. I fussed him out because no one plays golf that long. He said after playing golf they went to another friend's house to drink a few beers. When I acted ugly to him he then got ugly with me & then gave me the silent treatment & wouldn't speak to me for several hrs. Am I over-reacting?

2006-08-09 05:46:31 · 31 answers · asked by beachbum26 2

i dont know if my lawyer is doing such a great job...im feeling a little insecure. my ex is pushing the limits with me. He has already had his wages garnished (for spousal support) and is now witholding some of our other rental income (that we were sharing)for himself. Hewont let me pick up some of my belongings locked in his house. what can i do ?

2006-08-09 05:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by Barbara M 2

i got married in the month of march and it was a intercast marriage and the marriage was held in the temple. After few days of our marriage he was bitting me so much and using abusing language for me and my family members his family also used to abusing me as well as my family members. He was betrying me so much instead all those things day by day he demanding me dowry he said your father mother did no give anything then i said why you are demanding all those things because my parents was not present our wedding time then again he was beating me.i was bearing so much thing but i can not type all those things because it is very long story and right now i can not explain you but i tell you one more thing recently in 2006 in the month of april he and his family members was beating me in the fornt of the public place. and now my question is his date of birth is 26.10.1976 and the birth of time is 11:55am and my date of birth is 03.09.1980 and my time of birth is 06:25pm.is there any chance

2006-08-09 05:43:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to calculate average child support payments factoring income, med ins. etc

2006-08-09 05:40:05 · 2 answers · asked by Justaguy 1

2006-08-09 05:39:48 · 33 answers · asked by MICHAEL 1

I try and forget you and our life together.
My life just moves as a wind blown feather.
I try to control this emotional unrest.
You wanted divorce, I tried to contest.
The reason was clear. You refused to see.
All my desire was to stay married to thee.
You were my life, Our daughter too.
If it were color, A glorious hew.
What did I do. Was there something missing
Tears fall like rain. When I start to reminiscing
When did you change? I do not know.
I thought forever our love would grow.
It's been two years, Since we're apart.
The way I feel. You still in my heart.
I tried and tried to move past the pain.
I prayed to God. But all in vain.
You will meet another. That day I dread.
we promised till death. I'm better off dead.
I can't go on. Without you in my life.
A promise to God. Forever my wife.

2006-08-09 05:38:41 · 4 answers · asked by christsluv4u 1

Why do women have affairs with married men? I want to know what the allure is to go out with a man who has a family and children. Are they looking to fall in love? Or is it simply that they know that the relationship will not last long and therefore engage in something that will eventually end.

2006-08-09 05:32:50 · 24 answers · asked by ? 4

Do I need a Bloodtest?
Do I need to bring a witness?
if so, can i just ask someone who is at the city hall to be our witness?

2006-08-09 05:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by missmiamivice 1

I have just not been in the mood for sex. It is not that i am not attracted to my husband, i just dont want sex. I dont want this to hurt my marraige no more then what it already has. So any advise and please no smart *** answers

2006-08-09 05:31:37 · 18 answers · asked by bdmrplemons 2

Me and my husband have been separated since DEC. of last year.
Since then, he has been involved in many aquaintances w different females(even ones that work at our in the same facility). I admit, I messed with one or two guys, but they don't work with us and have never seen my husband. Anyway, to make a long story short. Recently, I met this other guy, and he' sweet, I invited him over to my house for dinner, and to chill out w me. My husband pulls up to drop my brother off at my house(he's stayin w me), and my husband makes up an excuse to come inside my house(to use the restroom). He see's my friend layin on my couch, proceeds to the bathroom, and then left afterwards. the next day, my husband takes me out to lunch, wants to spend time w me( it's like 24/7), and now wants us to go to counceling. He is still some what involved with this other chic he had been messing with, but claims that he's done with her. Should we try to work things out? Or are we wishing on false hope?

2006-08-09 05:30:01 · 32 answers · asked by yelloerose07 2

2006-08-09 05:29:29 · 6 answers · asked by DENISE 1

He is an ex of mine. He is married but currently separated. They were separated before we ran back into each other. He is getting a divorce ASAP. Are we commiting adultery spending time together?

2006-08-09 05:22:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 05:19:37 · 19 answers · asked by puppy 1

Is it really so wrong that I want my husband to have sexual experiences with another woman, and he wants me to do the same with other men? My understanding of a marriage is that you want the other to be happy and feel loved. We have that and I know I think he's the greatest man on earth. He makes me feel safe and very much like a queen. So if we both feel the same about these type of sexual issues, just how is it wrong?

2006-08-09 05:19:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 05:17:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I caught my husband cheating,Hes now trying everything he can to make it right but i think its a little to late.Why cant he understand he hurt me and i cant play games with him anymore.Dont get me wrong i love him but the trust is not there anymore. HELP

2006-08-09 05:06:09 · 9 answers · asked by greyeyebeauty81 2

My husband and I have been married for 5 years but have been together for 6 years. He used to be real romantic up until about 2 years ago and now he is just kinda like "Come on woman lets go have sex".ummm no I dont think so, that is just not working for me and then when I tell him I need a little more romance then he says it just because I dont love him. How do I get the point across that he aint gettin any until I get some romance?

2006-08-09 05:00:16 · 7 answers · asked by fire_fly0434 3

My husband puts sex on a high pedistool, and it isn't really that big of deal to me. No matter how great everything else is between us, he always mentions how he is unhappy because we are not hgaving enough sex.I can cook dinner every night, clean the house every night, and let him hang out with his buddies when ever he wants. How can I get him to realize there is alot more to a marriage and our relationship then sex?

2006-08-09 04:52:58 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 04:52:49 · 28 answers · asked by sammy 2

2006-08-09 04:52:37 · 3 answers · asked by sammy 2

he claim he got an annulment with his wife in the phillipine but he told me he is going to sponsor her to come to america? I check with a lawyer and he said that is impossible. He can't do it unless it was family member or children. So do you think he's lying?

2006-08-09 04:42:54 · 13 answers · asked by Sexy C 1

2006-08-09 04:40:48 · 23 answers · asked by Larry J 1

2006-08-09 04:39:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 04:38:50 · 1 answers · asked by Des R 1