Marriage & Divorce - 9 August 2006

heres the scoop. me and my wife have been married going on 4 yrs now in dec. we both are 22yrs old. yeah kinda young to be married that long, right. but i wanna know if it is natural for a young womans sex drive to drop drastically. i mean i know after 4 yrs i kinda gets old. i agree to that. but our sex life is pretty much non-existing now. no joke, we're lucky to do it twice in a week. actually twice is pushing it. its got to the point where im thinking maybe its ME that just wants it too much. but hell naw. its not like i ask for it every nite, im pretty resonable. i have got to the point where i wont even make any attempts just to see how long we will go without it. i remember there were times i couldnt come home for a lunch break without us getting it on. i know for a fact that she's not getting it somewhere else. i wouldnt get on here and ask if that was a possiblity. so that's out the window. but is it normal for a 22yr old woman to not want sex or is it me????

2006-08-09 09:12:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 09:03:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes seeing someone else because he says ive hurt him to much,but he still finds time to tell me to hold on you never know.

2006-08-09 09:02:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I raised my children by myself and never recieved more than a $1000 total from their father.I worked two jobs at times plus went to college. I left the father when my daughter was 6 and my son was 2.Recently, I had a health crisis and had surgery on both legs for abnormal blood flow.Their father recieved disability recently.He owed approx.$15,000 in back child support.He had an attorney and I had DHR so I only got$9000.My daughter is now 21, my son is 16.They said nothing about current support because my son was and is now recieving a check from disability.I was told that when his disability stops at age of 18, he would have to start paying again.A friend said, no, He is still suppose to pay if it is only $100 a month.DHR says I no longer have a case with them because he cleared up his back pay.I think I got jipped.What I recieved was not even $1000 per year for both children.I am in Alabama.

2006-08-09 09:02:04 · 11 answers · asked by tamjivey 1

2006-08-09 08:52:49 · 16 answers · asked by lilastevenson42 2

My hubby and I hadnt had sex for like 6 weeks due to his job being out of town- well he came home and when we did have sex I actually bled and it hurt like the devil! Now I know its not a period cuz I had a total hysterectomy 3 years ago! SOOOO why did it feel like he grew 3 inches and I shrunk 2 inches?????? HELP!

2006-08-09 08:46:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 08:45:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

When we were dating she said she thought hey were a hot idea (mff), and I thought it was cool coz I'm very open. We were begining to talk about who we might invite to join us but put it on the back burner because we had lots going on. Then we got married. Now she says she doesn't want one. She's terrified that I'll leave her now - which I won't. But I'm really hurt over the fact that she acted open about those kinds of things before we were married, and now that we are she's not open at all. What do other people do when their partner changes after marriage?

2006-08-09 08:43:03 · 32 answers · asked by curius r 1

2006-08-09 08:42:04 · 12 answers · asked by Andy S 3

2006-08-09 08:28:58 · 20 answers · asked by ronny k 3

i have a five year old daughetr and am not with her father we recentlky got a court order for support and coustody but he only follows the support part of it cause he is forsed to what can i do to get him to fallow the rest of it ?

2006-08-09 08:28:47 · 11 answers · asked by shortygurl2shy 1

I have been married for 2 yrs now. It seems like he's not interestead in me like he used to be. We datd for 7 years before we got married and we were always really interestead in each other. Now, since we've been married the fire seems to have died. What can I do to re light that fire?

2006-08-09 08:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by cc 1

I went to take him something to eat yesterday and he said he just ate. I said "ate what" and he said pizza, that the guys next door bought it for him. Well, later after he got home from work he said the girl next door bought it for him while talking about something else and I said "excuse me" and he said he didn't tell me cause he knew I would get mad, he went on to say he did some "free" work on her car which is not him, he usually won't do nuthin' for free??????????? So, I am wondering why he lied? Do people not lie because they feel guilty and are doing something wrong?

2006-08-09 08:26:35 · 14 answers · asked by Rikki M 2

This is a 5 year long relationship, we started as friends and feelings became stronger and stronger...i have never ever dont this before nor will I ever again. I just need help in breaking it off. I dont think I have the strength to do it and it's killing me inside. I love him to death and I cant picture life without him, he says the same thing, yet he also cant see life without his kids, which he thinks his wife will keep away and make things difficult for. I cant do this alone, I desperately want help in getting out....

2006-08-09 08:20:06 · 26 answers · asked by needtogetout 2

I don't know what to anymore. I have tried everything i can think of. I want more affection, he says come and get it. The other night I had a very bad flu (when I stood up, I felt like I was going to pass out and then I would puke). Right now i am on mat leave, so I was with the kids all day while I was sick and made him supper and then he goes off to his mom and dads for a visit. So I had to put the kids to bed. I left him a romantic and raunch burned cd and some "pictures" for him for are anniversary in his truck all I got was a txt saying nice ****. I got a babysitter for the saturday so we could go out and celebrate If I want anything romantic I have to plan it or do it myself. Does he want to be here anymore. I am running out of ideas. Plz help.

2006-08-09 08:19:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 08:19:14 · 5 answers · asked by Linda S 2

not so sure what he was looking for, but i found postings near a city where he used to live. should i confront him, or continue to "snoop" until i find something more disturbing. i dont like that word but i found this in the computers history, so i guess that was what i was doing.

2006-08-09 08:15:11 · 11 answers · asked by Cherie 4

in just 38 years. She knows everything and I mean everything. Most women that I talk to are the same way. Is there a secret university you girls go too? How do you do it????

2006-08-09 08:14:24 · 12 answers · asked by Andy S 3

It will be a year in November that my parents are divorced. They were married for 31 years! They each have a "friend" now. My fiance' and I are getting married in November. Through all of the wedding planning, my Mom's really not there like she could be. She's always giving her full attention to her new "friend." Our whole family has noticed it, well I got the balls to stand up to her and confront her about it. She started crying and accused me of not being happy for her. It's not that I'm not happy for her, I just wish she would still step in for the "mother" position and be there-especially at this point-. I'm the baby of the family...to me she would want to be there all the time, shopping, picking out things, decorations, etc. She barely makes time for it. When we had our little spat, she told her "friend" about it and he suggested not coming to the wedding if it was going to cause a mess like this. It hurt my feelings...was I wrong for confronting her about it?

2006-08-09 08:04:21 · 8 answers · asked by Imthelittlesis 2

(and cleaned the house)

2006-08-09 08:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by thebuffettour 2

2006-08-09 07:58:08 · 1 answers · asked by chozin11 1

and why do you regret getting married to them.

2006-08-09 07:53:11 · 8 answers · asked by Cobra 5

Of course, if you are unmarried and your girlfriend doesn't put out, you can always dump her without having to deal with divorce hassles. But what if you are married, and your wife fails to uphold her end of the bargain?

Luckily for me, my current girlfriend puts out and even initiates sex. But if I get married and my wife withholds the sex that I rightfully deserve, I will pursue new sexual partners behind her back. I will also force her to cook and clean, like any traditional woman should.

2006-08-09 07:50:22 · 25 answers · asked by Bedroom Celebrity 3

Im supposed to get married next month, I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with this man. Here's my problem, we have lived together for a year and our relationship wasnt laking anything we had what everybody dreams of. But here latley weve been fighting all the time we speand time together yes, but Im not 100% sure that we are ready to do this. We dont have a sex life anymore he wont even touch me.He gets his goods without me(masterbating) We dont cheat and ive already told him how I feel. He says that I dont strip for him so I dont turn him on. I want a happy relationship emotionally, phically, and sexually before I take the big I do to heart. What should i do?

2006-08-09 07:46:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-09 07:44:42 · 12 answers · asked by Andy S 3

iam married 11 months and 20 days ago ,,,my husband was in mexico ( cancun ) in his friend bachelor party for 3 days,,i took all his clothes when he came back to the machine,,i washed them and get them out ,,i found a condom between this clothes,,i asked him while iw as crying ,,,coz we never used condom in our sex,,he said it must be old one was in any pocket in old short before our marriage...i don't beileve him,,,i can't stop crying since last night,,,our universial after 10 days ,,,,our first one,,,what should i do...?

2006-08-09 07:42:09 · 67 answers · asked by sarah_boba 1

My husband is the one that bought me the phone when we were dating and wants to know why he has my number. I talked to him once almost 3 years ago and I guess my ex kept my number. Now my husband is unsure now if I've been talking to my ex - but I have not. I'm getting the total cold shoulder. What should I do? I've been honest with my husband and told him that I don't know why he called or why he still has my number.

2006-08-09 07:41:47 · 11 answers · asked by Stumped 1

my hubby of 1 year has been small talkin with women at work I ask him about what he says just work related but a few months back he made a comment to a woman he saw at the front desk ......"you look happy are you in love" My quess is she was cute so he approched her.......I say it is wrong and way too personal ..........We could be over because of this so what is up?

2006-08-09 07:41:45 · 4 answers · asked by halo 2

separated 3 and half years

2006-08-09 07:37:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you could honestly take back that one big mistake you made in your life what would be, and why would you take it back.?

2006-08-09 07:34:44 · 28 answers · asked by Cobra 5