my hubby of 1 year has been small talkin with women at work I ask him about what he says just work related but a few months back he made a comment to a woman he saw at the front desk ......"you look happy are you in love" My quess is she was cute so he approched her.......I say it is wrong and way too personal ..........We could be over because of this so what is up?
2006-08-09 07:41:45 · 4 answers · asked by halo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOu are married, you can not be over because of 1 comment like that, unless there has been previous incidents besides this, obviously some distrust on your end. Has he ever give you reason to not trust him. Please have more faith in your marrriage, confront him & you will have your answer. The face/no eye contact always reveals the truth. Good Luck!
2006-08-09 07:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by AL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The assumption is " love makes you happy, therefore if you are happy you must be in love." Its a bit sappy and maybe an inappropriate comment for the modern workplace but you would break up over it? Did he like, yell at you for days or call you names over it. Or worse, he hit you, right. Did he spend the rent money on drugs and alcohol? How about hookers? None of that?
Then what are you thinking? There is NOTHING there to be that angry over. Get over it and while you are at it grow up some. If this MINOR offense is cause for you to be over, you should never have been married in the first place. You are totally unprepared to deal with some of the real problems headed your way.
2006-08-09 14:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH man is that it. My man would be done a long time ago. He was just being friendly and making a person feel good. If he isn't touching then I wouldn't worry about it. Don't you feel good about your marriage? Don't let yourself be so self centered I mean it is your arm he is hanging on to. Be proud you have a man that everyone likes. What you want people to say rude comments about him. I just don't understand some woman. Relax he's yours.
2006-08-09 14:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby was friends with a woman he works with. Then they would stay up late at night and chat online. I found out this past June that he slept with her in March. I know that my husband is no good and he is a liar. What do you know about your husband? Has he ever done anything like this before? All I can say is watch out and please be careful.
2006-08-09 14:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by vitamin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋