2006-08-09 08:52:49 · 16 answers · asked by lilastevenson42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if he doesn't believe you then he has a problem. afterall he married you and not his so called friends.
2006-08-09 08:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he thinks his friends opinoins are the right ones and he doesnt trust or respect you. My husband does this to me all of the time. Its hurts believe me. Good Luck
2006-08-10 10:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by 86Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he doesn't respect you. u better sit him down and talk to him. u are his wife.
if he treats u badly, makes u feel negative in any way, it's not a healthy marriage. there're more things involved, and u have to nip it all in the bud as it happens. he's never going to change if u "let it go". tell him he has to be someone worthy of respect; if he doesn't treat u right, u will not be able to trust and respect him. and that will cause an unhealthy relationship. he needs to be on the same page as you. if he explains to you why he believes his friends over u, he has to allow u to explain. if he is wrong and doesn't validate your feelings, u need to get out and find someone who DOES. cuz i'ts worth it to be w/ someone who encourages u to be a better person, not someone who makes u feel unworthy.
2006-08-09 15:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what's being said, and it's not that he believes them over you, it's just that he don't want you to dis his friends. Men put that front on when it comes to their so call friends, and won't change his mind because it makes him look as stupid.
2006-08-09 19:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing more of the story would help. But maybe hes just being razzed by them about you and he chooses to try to look good in front of them so he goes along with what they say. I would kick his a$$ if he was my husband.
2006-08-09 16:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't...He use trust the woman he gave his life too! Have you gave him any reason to not trust you? If you have then he has reason too, but you have never lied to him and you truely have his best interest in mind-then there no question to who he should believe. YOU HIS WIFE! I would have to ask him why. I am sorry that would hurt me so badly, he trusted with his love to you, but he's afaird you are going to lie to him...Talk to him how hurt you are by this...But you are right on the money here! God bless us all..........
2006-08-09 16:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him who he married. His friends or you? Maybe that will get the point across. It should be you and him, not him and his buddies. Thats sad that he would hold someone else above his own wife.
2006-08-09 15:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he hasn't thought about the day when he finds out his friends were wrong afterall and he's giving you more ammo.
2006-08-09 16:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he chooses to believe his friends over you then he doesn't trust you and without trust you have nothing.
2006-08-09 16:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by latingirl0527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not a good husband. Accept it or leave him.
2006-08-09 23:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋