I have been married for 2 yrs now. It seems like he's not interestead in me like he used to be. We datd for 7 years before we got married and we were always really interestead in each other. Now, since we've been married the fire seems to have died. What can I do to re light that fire?
2006-08-09 08:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by cc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try something different, go on a trip. Do it in a weird place. Make it fun and exciting.
2006-08-09 08:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first.....is he really not interested or have you ran into some kind of hang up with yourself. You've got to be sure that you have not somehow projected some kind of image to him that has him thinking you are not interested. Communication is always the best place to start. If you go all out (in your opinion) and he doesn't respond then it's only going to leave you feeling even more miserable about the whole situation. To put it simply...talk to him...all relationships change and after 9 years things are going to be different, you're past the newness of the marriage and now what......you two are the only ones who can answer that question.
2006-08-09 15:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you have to do what you know to do....Don't get comfortable...Cook him a nice dinner (for two), put some candles on the table, when he comes home have the bath ready, after the bath eat dinnner, also have the music going, soft, romantic, buy him some flowers....This doesn't have to be all the time, but I tell my husband the way I treat you is what I want in return...Nice walks, movies, something kept you together all these years... Just get in tune with what you like and do it...sometimes we have to show them the way.....
2006-08-09 15:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by "gg" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years is too soon for sex to go down, talk to your husband. Chat about fantazies and, perhaps, some role playing.
Go out and date as when you were dating. Marriage should not stop the dating scenario. Travelling, and looking for exciting stuff to do for you both will help.
Look for adrenaline.
2006-08-09 15:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hotel for a night in a place near by that neither of you have been to.
2006-08-09 16:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always make new exciting ideas, for instance the ambiance, always add spice to ur love making, or either try to use toy this will help not only ur husband but for u too.
2006-08-09 15:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by Amish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try new things, new places, add toys, lingerie, dance for him.....the possibilities are endless. I have been married 10 years and he has never lost interest!
2006-08-09 15:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been together for 9 years - bound to cool down - do you have Kids?
2006-08-09 15:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋