not so sure what he was looking for, but i found postings near a city where he used to live. should i confront him, or continue to "snoop" until i find something more disturbing. i dont like that word but i found this in the computers history, so i guess that was what i was doing.
2006-08-09 08:15:11 · 11 answers · asked by Cherie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He might be looking for something or he just might be using it to get a cheap thrill.
A man's ego is raised when he gets a response from a women( stranger) on the internet, he can be somebody that he wouldn't dare be in real life, and if it starts to get to heavy or he gets nervous he can effectively block that person or terminate the e-mail address. Lots of ways to carry it as far or as little as he wants
2006-08-10 12:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by gearhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have not and would not jeopardize my marriage. Occasionally though I find a look through the personals interesting if only to see if I know anyone. It might be innocent curiosity or planning for that trip home. Only he can answer. At this point you've found something and weren't snooping. Deal with it now and honestly.
If it bothers you tell him. In reality he did nothing wrong so don't let it build and become something its not. Its always a good idea to clear the memory and delete history frequently especially if you do online banking.
2006-08-09 08:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG my EX used that site ("just for fun") and I told him to stop. So naturally he kept using it. So I played the game with him. Girl, I set up an account (I know him just like you know your man) for someone who I knew he would want to talk to. I talked online to him as this "other" women for at least a week or two (sometime while I was on the phone woth him!). I even gave him a phone number (because I told him I was in the area) and he called it (a friend's number). THEN to make matters worse, he even arranged to MEET this person!!!!!
It may seem like what I did was deceitfull etc. but he went to meet this "girl"!!! He would have done something with this woman if it wasn't me. That is why he is an EX!!!
Girl this technology can really cause problems!!! Get to the bottom of things before it is too late!!!
2006-08-09 09:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Diamonds_4Ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should continue to snoop. I found similar stuff and confronted him the next day when I tried getting back on to all the accounts I had found he had deleted or closed them. I will never know how far it got cause we both know men can't admit the truth when they are on the verge on losing it all.
2006-08-09 08:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by 1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was "looking" on those sites. He had ads on just about every site, including ashley madison. The reason I found out was there was an offline msg on his yahoo msg from this chick saying that she misses him and to have a good day. WELL! I confronted him, he said that everything he does online is like a alternate reality, its not real. but on another breath he says that he doesn't lie and means everything he says. He said this woman was just a friend, but she was saying things like come get me pregnant fast, so I got on there and left her a nasty to leave my husband alone, then I started getting msgs that he was only with me for the kids, he can't get it up cause I am a *****. I asked him to stop talking to her, and he said it was like him asking me to stop talking to my best friend. I told him that if my friend had treated him that way that yes I would cause she isn't a friend in the first place then. Well after 5 months and trying to talk to him about it (but he didn't want to talk about it) I finally left him an email saying if you want to continue doing this ****, fine. But I am not going to take it anymore. But if you want to work it out, then to prove it you will uninstall the msgenger and block her from everything. Its been 3.5 months since that email and we are still together.
2006-08-09 08:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront him and ask him what is up. He may only be trying to find a old buddy of his. But ask before you go on.
2006-08-09 08:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by yp_later_kalispell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. There is no reason to let your suspicions keep building. Be open and honest with each other. Talk and listen
2006-08-09 08:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone using those websites is looking for sex on the side. Period
2006-08-09 11:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him.
2006-08-09 08:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by archonette08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for SOMETHING on that site...but I would wait till you have something more solid to fight with....
2006-08-09 08:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by kbjcw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋