Of course, if you are unmarried and your girlfriend doesn't put out, you can always dump her without having to deal with divorce hassles. But what if you are married, and your wife fails to uphold her end of the bargain?
Luckily for me, my current girlfriend puts out and even initiates sex. But if I get married and my wife withholds the sex that I rightfully deserve, I will pursue new sexual partners behind her back. I will also force her to cook and clean, like any traditional woman should.
2006-08-09 07:50:22 · 25 answers · asked by Bedroom Celebrity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's nice to see that some people never even bothered to read everything I wrote. Let me spell it out for y'all, in all caps: MY GIRLFRIEND DOES NOT WITHHOLD SEX FROM ME! This is a hypothetical situation, and I know a lot of suckers who have sex less frequently after getting married. It's almost as if marriage is an institution designed to control men's instinctual nature (i.e., having as many sexual partners as possible so as to spread their seed around).
2006-08-09 08:00:16 · update #1
In response to BunnyRun:
"Btw, doesn't graceangeleve turn you on?!"
What part about her? Her potty mouth, or her potty face?
2006-08-09 08:02:44 · update #2
get it where you can and when you can and file for divorce while you are at it. then stay single. life is much easier that way
2006-08-09 08:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by ohmywhatamessimin 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't rightfully deserve sex just because you're married. Marriage on every level is a two way street, and to some degree a series of negotiated compromises. Assuming it's a right versus what is really a privilege will doom any marriage you enter.
2006-08-09 08:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Add Man 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course a wife should want to have sex with their husband. But what if she has a sickness and can't? Will you cheat on her? What if you have a sickness and can't have sex, will you want her to cheat on you?
If your wife is withholding sex early into the marriage then you have a reason to do it and you have all the right to divorce her even.
2006-08-09 16:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a traditional female. No, I think marriage is just that-one man, one woman for lfe. The problem is, females today are not raised in the proper fasion to what marriage "means".....
The feminazis wont like what I have to say but that is OK....woman can go to college, have careers, sleep around, whateve, but in marriage, the woman's role is a "Help Meet" to her husband in ALL things. And a man NEEDS sex. It is his wife's role to make love to her man. It is the wife's primary responsibity to keep a home and raise children to be productive people who can help (at appropriate ages) keep thier bedrooms tidy, help prepare meals, older siblings learn to care for younger siblings....etc.....generally, she is responsible for keeping his home. He is turn is responsible to LOVE his wife, and provide for and protect his family.
Man and women were given specific role to create a harmonious marriage and stable home for a family.......too many people think this is "old fashioned" and that they know better than God does. God created us, he knows whats best, and His way WORKS.
2006-08-09 08:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it behind her back. Tell her exactly what you're going to do, before you do it, and let her know exactly why. If it upsets her, maybe she'll start showing more interest. If it doesn't upset her, then you can be honest about your affairs without guilt. If it really, really upsets her, she might leave you no choice but to deal with the divorce hassles.
2006-08-09 07:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Steven S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you say your vows do you say anything about sex at all? No? Well thats because a marriage isnt based on sex. Its based on love and if you don't love her enough to stay faithful then don't marry her!!!!!! She at least deserves that much honesty from you. By the way I think your a pig for even asking something like that.
2006-08-09 07:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by AMBER K 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ugh! It's guys like you that give all men a bad name! I just hope you learn to grow up by then to realize that marriage is a serious undertaking. Otherwise, stay single.
2006-08-09 08:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a wifely duty, and you shouldn't even consider marriage to a woman who considers it a 'duty' at all. As your wife, she should be expected to care for her appearance and address your sexual needs willingly and with enthusiasm. Btw, doesn't graceangeleve turn you on?!
2006-08-09 08:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is withholding sex from you is because ahe knew that you are cheating and didnt want to catch any disease from you!
2006-08-09 08:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Bionicgirlz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you are informing rather than asking. Besides hahaha I feel like you are currently going through this scenario, but just to make yourself feel good, you are justifying your act.
2006-08-09 08:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by techno_geek 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't cheat on your wife. Don't get married if you can't handle not getting sex.
2006-08-09 07:55:01 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋