Is it really so wrong that I want my husband to have sexual experiences with another woman, and he wants me to do the same with other men? My understanding of a marriage is that you want the other to be happy and feel loved. We have that and I know I think he's the greatest man on earth. He makes me feel safe and very much like a queen. So if we both feel the same about these type of sexual issues, just how is it wrong?
2006-08-09 05:19:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't see anything wrong in it you both love and respect each other and both have no problems with it and are completely honest about it. It's you marriage and you can both fill it in the way you both like it .
2006-08-09 05:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by aysha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you both are into it it's fine. I have fantasys about my husband doing that but I would never want to do it. You both have to think about what you'll feel afterwards. You may think it's really great now, but if one of you does it there may become jealousy. I wouldn't do it but that doesn't mean anyone else shouldn't.
2006-08-09 12:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by dlfoster67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It goes against the intent of a marriage being between a man and a women...to establish their commitment to themselves and their families...your breaking that vow...break one and how blessed is your marriage...if your partner can not satisfy you...don't make a mockery out of marriage because of it.
2006-08-09 12:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's an interesting way of thinking. I would love to answer you but I can't because my 16 yr old daughter likes to read my answers, and I don't want her to know what I think and have done about this. Good Luck marks3kids@yahoo.com
2006-08-09 12:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morally it is wrong, but if you are both comfortable with SWINGING, than do your thing! You have one life to live, so live it the way that makes you happy.
2006-08-09 12:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you married you committed to that person and him only.Bringing others into a marriage will cause problems and doors to be opened that you don't need.
2006-08-09 13:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is your commitment to another person. it's suppose to unselfish and if this is the way of you making him happy and your ok with it...then go for it.
2006-08-09 12:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Brown Eyed Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the "need" to experience someone else?
Good grief, just be happy with each other.
2006-08-09 12:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, tell me again why you married each other? Judging from your post, I really don't understand why you both bothered.
2006-08-09 12:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by loveblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say if wanna do it go for it,but if your not happy with doing it dont do it.
2006-08-09 12:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋