i got married on the 29th july and im 19 what should expect from marriage???

Answer 1

I got married when I was 19, and the biggest thing is you have to remember you are both still kids. Your friends are still young and if they are not married then they don't need to be giving you advice. Don't get mad at him for being immature or doing stupid things (well some) Let each other have space and do your best to hold off on the kids. Like I said before you are still kids.

Answer 2

You should expect exactly what you put into it. I know that there are going to be alot of people down on you because you married young, but nobody can say that was best or worst thing for you EXCEPT you. Remember to love and honor your husband and kids. Expect the unexpected. Talk, communicate. Remember all the reasons you fell in love in the first place.

Answer 3

Marriage is very complex . Making it to work perfectly on your own accord is not achievable . It is a give and take thing. The best thing to do is to dedicate and commit it to the hands of the Almighty GOD... It doesn't matter how old one may be what matters is how best one makes out of it.. I got involved with my husband at the ripe age of 15( no kidding) got married at the age of 17 and today am still married to him and we have the best marriage in the universe because of our faith in GOD relationship in

Answer 4

carla is wise. i was married at 21 , which is also young though i thought i was really grown up. i think if you can survive the first few years ,which are very difficult no matter what your age , that you will be fine. don't be too proud to get advice and help when you hit a rocky patch. as long as you still love and respect each other, you will be able to ride those times out.
but it is not all doom and gloom, if you are both emotionally mature , you can have the time of your life.

best wishes to you both:~)

Answer 5

sweetie, expect it to be the complete opposite of what u thought it would be. at your age you don't even know what u want or expect from yourself let alone a husband. as someone who has been in a bad situation at least take this advise, at the first sign of trouble GET INTO COUNSELING! DO NOT wait and think problems will go away or take care of themselves. They dont. always keep communication open and be honest with each other.
good luck and god bless

Answer 6

A lot of give and take, love, respect, honesty ... kids, an interfering mother-in-law, probably a man who in time drinks, lies and cheats, and thousands of good memories to see you through to old age - or the divorce court whichever comes first!

Good luck ... don't forget it's a two-way relationship and you have to put as much in as you expect to get out!

Answer 7

Good marriages don't just happen, there's lots of work involved. Treat your partner with respect and kindness and expect the same in return. I know it sounds trite, but the "Golden Rule" is really your best guideline.

Answer 8

Guess you married the first person that came along. Don't start moaning when you can't travel the world....... Mind you, you can always do a Heather McCartney special.

Chin-up. Joking apart wishing you all the best

Answer 9

Marriage is hard work, you'll have ups and downs, but if you pull together, you'll make it. I've been married over 36 years and many times wanted out, but today I'm glad I stayed married, he's my best friend.

Answer 10

money issues, intimacy issues, being able to let a argument go, even if ur right, I think 19 is too young, because ur not the same person at 30, that u were at 19, I would have allowed myself to grow more, what was ur rush?