I've been married for 3 wks, & with him for almost 2 yrs. We're inseperable, except for his incarcerations. We have problems with sex & porn. We have sex 2x's a week. He performs like an 18 yr. old. Problems staying hard. He's selfish. Does what it takes 4 him with no 4play. He likes to watch ana@ sex. We've done it a couple times, but he refuses 2 now. He said we are married. I'm his wife. He's afraid it will turn me into a wwhore. I love sex & want it at least daily. I don't initiate, because he puts me down alot & it's always the same act. I also know I won't get an orgasm, so what's the point? Twice he has rocked my world, other than that it's terrible. Porn addict. jacks to it & won't do me. He promised over and over he would stop. Since we got married he hasn't done it. We got into an arguement yesterday. I checked the comp. this morning and there was porn everywhere. I asked him why? He said "Yes, I did it, so what?" He was w/ men in prison. I love him. Help!
2006-08-09 05:58:33 · 6 answers · asked by Amelia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A LOT of sexual issues....a LOT!!!
You need to seek some kind of help....this is not good for the two of you. I wish I had some answers, but I do not know what you should do other than find some outside help.....
2006-08-09 06:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
start watching porn with him maybe that will turn him on with you there by his side.....if he wants to be treated like he was in prision by a strapon and do him in the a.s.s. if that is what he likes and then he will be more than willing to take you to climax but good luck to you and i hop eyour sex life gets better
2006-08-09 13:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly32976 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. It seems like these are all things that you were aware of before you got married. If there were a concern then; why did you marry him. I do not think he is going to change. Sorry and Good Luck.
2006-08-09 13:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by Looking 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you picked a real winner!! Nice Job
2006-08-09 14:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dave M 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You and your husband both need professional help.
2006-08-09 14:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Susan O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men and porn.. stay away... if he doesn't give it to you.. he's got sex somewhere else... sad but true...
2006-08-09 13:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋