So, hes out of the country and I have put in my 30 day notice to vacate in! When he comes back he won't have any place to live. I have been asking him every other month for the last year to leave and he won't. I am just so much happier with out him around! He is very jealous and possesive and has gotton violent on occasion. Our cultures are very different and he wants me to comprimise 100%. I really don't want to call him but I know thats better than an email and I don't want to ruin the rest of his extended visit!
2006-08-09 04:12:14 · 7 answers · asked by Jillian G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to let him know, you owe him that much. Send him a telegram saying that you moved out of your place and that you are leaving him. It shouldn't come as a surprise to him since you have asked him for the last year to leave. Let him know, that you are afraid of him, because he is violent and that's the reason he is getting a telegram rather than a phonecall. Wish him good luck and let him know, that your lawyer will contact him with the divorce material.
2006-08-13 10:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the breaking-up part would be the toughest one. the rest would be a smooth ride.
2006-08-09 11:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by Hunk J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What God has joined together let no man put assunder!
2006-08-09 11:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by floxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has been a jerk to you in the past, then your only getting even! don't worry about a place for him to stay...thats his issue!
2006-08-09 11:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he becomes nasty make sure you get a restraining order.
2006-08-09 11:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep yourself safe. I wish you happiness and him, I hope he turns his thinking around.
Take care...
2006-08-09 11:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im afraid you've already done that.
Prepare for a nasty time.
2006-08-09 11:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋