Me & my hubby are seperating and I'm not sure of how to tell my parents or his or anybody else? I know I shouldn't have to explain myself, but I know they are still going to ask why?
2006-08-09 04:27:43 · 15 answers · asked by Mrs. G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well to make long story short. I cheated on my hubby 4 yrs ago when we were seperated. Now we stayed together but now he's not wanting to work it out anymore because he still doesn't trust me. We love each other but I'm thinking he's needing some space I guess to see if staying married is worth it.
2006-08-09 04:48:07 · update #1
And no I'm not telling everybody that.
2006-08-09 04:48:49 · update #2
I would just simply explain that this is the best right now. Just say that there has been some problems between the two fyou that you don't really care to elaborate on right now and that you both feel that this is the best. That is really all that they need to know. Besides I think that if you tell them all everything then it only gives them reasons to dislike if you decide to stay married. don't give them more information that they need and don't give them anything to use against either of you. Just simply saying that you are having problems and need to spend some time apart to work things out should be more than enough information for them. good Luck
2006-08-09 05:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you seperating? Why ? Why? Stop being a baby and work it out. Use your head not your feelings. Smart sexy, sneaky wifes win and bit*cy, honest, straight forward wifes loose. Time for a make over on your apperance (make up, color your hair) and positive happy attitude. You didnt tell me, why are you seperating? Its hard out here to date. No good man left. Keep the one you have.
2006-08-09 04:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone asks, tell them that you and he need time apart to sort things out. No need to go into details if you don't want. If your family presses you, just say it's too painful and confusing to talk about right now but you really appreciate their concern.
2006-08-09 06:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by married2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be honest just tell them that things are not working out and you decided to give it a break and see if you want to still be together or wether you want to call it quits but you are the only one who can make the choice on what to tell them but tell them the truth and do not try to sugar coat things you will have a better chance on getting moral suppot from your family them by being a liar so tell them the truth
2006-08-09 05:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by skyppolar_green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just how you told us right now....All you have to really say is that things didn't work out and you two are separating...You don't have to tell them anything else in less you want to get into details
2006-08-09 04:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right - people *will* ask (they usually want to help you fix it or they're just really surprised) but you don't have to go into any details that make you feel uncomfortable.
Just say you've both decided it's best for now.
2006-08-09 04:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell them why. It is not there buisness anyway. You can tell them there are personal problems with the marriage or you can tell them conflict in interest. Tell them you just don't feel like talking about it. Good Luck
2006-08-09 04:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Wilma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they ask and you feel obligated to tell them that both of you need time to reevaluate what it is that you want in a marriage, and if that doesn't suit them then tell them that it is between the two of you and you really don't want to concern them with the issues of your marriage.
2006-08-09 04:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by jad26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them you are separating and that's it. If they ask further questions, let them know that you're not ready to talk about it and you're not going to talk about it. YOU have to realize deep down inside that this is your business and no one has the right to know unless you want to tell them. Don't feel like you should have to explain yourself, just don't talk.
2006-08-09 04:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them its painful for you and its personal differences its really hard to do but if they care they will not pry until you are ready to talk about it,gl
2006-08-09 04:38:26 · answer #10 · answered by me_unique2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋