2006-08-09 04:28:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i found out he chats online with guys and masturbates on cam with them. he says he isnt gay but what would a normal person think? how can i believe him or trust him. plus i found him wearing panties one day.
2006-08-09 04:57:56 · update #1
Well......it depends. Why do you think he might be gay? Why do you think he might be cheating?
The best way is to do the honest thing, and ask.
Well....he shouldn't be masturbating with ANYONE on camera, male or female. Obviously he has issues and you need to confront him or leave him.
2006-08-09 04:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, My God, My husband had a co-worker who went gay after 10 years of marriage. But we did not really notice it until he actually came out of the closet. But these are the thinks that we saw but did not really think anything of it: clear nail polish - manicure, carry a bag or so called purse instead of a brief case, let his hair grow, then he purchased a motor cycle that looked so much for a female. Plus the previous owner was a female. His wife had said several times during dinner dates that they were trying to get pregnant but had not succeeded but he kept canceling doctor appointments due to his work schedule so he said. But since my husband knew his schedule we later figured out why.
2006-08-09 04:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask him? If so and you don't trust his answer, then it's time to move on. This is a situation that can only get worse. Three things are possible: first, you are afraid of losing him so you don't confront the issue that is eating you alive. Second: you have no trust for him and trust is the basis for any stable relationship. Third: he lied to you and you know it. Good luck and be strong.
2006-08-09 04:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not sit down with him and have a serious heart to heart - don't be confrontational or agressive or pissy - you'll put him on the defensive and you'll never get the truth!
tell him your concerns and ask him to be honest, so you can both move past this, whatever the outcome may be!
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-08-09 04:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's prepared to do the nude p.c... Then he's prepared to bodily cheat on you. no matter if he's not bodily dishonest. Your relationship with him isn't reliable. you should provide him a call. both end being stupid and sending nude selections and flirting with different men, or you'll leave him.
2016-11-23 17:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by merralee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think he was gay - I'd be convinced of it! You need to let him be in my opinion. If he isn't gay, then he has serious issues and he is most likely bi-sexual or bi-curious. You really need to think this trough and decide if you want to set yourself up for being heartbroken or getting diseases from what he is doing behind your back?. Good Luck to you!
2006-08-09 05:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you catch him draping pink feather boas around his neck strutting and singing to a Bette Midler CD, yes, he is probably gay.
2006-08-09 05:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him to have a threesome,bring in another man and if he goes down on him he's gay.and you'll know for sure he's gay and cheating.
2006-08-09 05:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mike S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set him up. Place a vibrator in his bedroom along with a camera. This should answer all your questions.
2006-08-09 04:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him. if he his gay don't freak out because that would be WRONG! if he is cheating on you deal with it, just don't kill him or anything off the wall like that.
2006-08-09 04:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋