2006-08-09 01:52:06 · 18 answers · asked by amymarie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My sex drive went away for a good two years. I still had sex with my husband but never had the desire to. During it, it was great but I just never felt like having sex. Now, all of a sudden it came back and our sex life is better than ever. I find that masturbating once in a while helps my sex drive.
2006-08-09 02:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexy video's are out bcoz you fantasize about the person on film and how they perform.
write down a list of the persons good points
get the other to do same
take a short holiday together, look for odd places that you can,,,,,,,, ,,,,,,, ,,,,,,,maybe even leave your clothes in one spot walk a couple of hundred yards, have your fun and go back to retreive clothes later
use your imagination, I'm not going to come over and show you how it's done, concentrate on giving (both of you) rather than receive, give the other a 45min massage, then change roles
2006-08-09 09:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find a way to spice things up and get things going again.i have just been through this with my G/F of 5 years and now we are starting to get back on track with things.it is always nice to find something new and exciting to try as long as it doesn't hurt either one of you.Try starting out with massaging each other and then a bit of mutual sexual play try not to get caught up in just having sex as it leeds to boredom in the bedroom.
2006-08-09 08:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I'll be watching to see what kind of responses you get. I've been wondering if there's a way to "get it back".
I've tried videos, toys, etc. If they don't do it for ya..then what?
2006-08-09 08:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
re-kindle it. try some new things including different times, toys or places. Try things that you liked in the beginning.
2006-08-09 08:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by lida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either u spice it up some way or let it die..sipice it up many ways-do some new,fun,interesting,exciting,dangerous even. let it die-get a divorce.
2006-08-09 09:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs Hermione Potter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a girlfriend on the side
2006-08-09 08:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some really hot nighties, and some kinky toys and have fun...if that don't work, try watching some soft porn...and if that don't work....then I guess you really have a problem.........
2006-08-09 08:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by mom2kats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A NEW RUTEEN,,OR SEE A DOCTOR
2006-08-09 09:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by lickit4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get someone who will satisfy you
2006-08-09 08:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by peterrod@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋