2006-08-09 01:40:37 · 25 answers · asked by adze g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well u should have confronted him bout it. no secrets between u both ur married. so yeah confront him and get ur answer wether its good or bad u need to know why hes doing that.good luck
2006-08-09 01:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do only acts which will ensure that the relation with your hubby is not getting strained on this matter.
Your intentions are not fair and proper in calling it 'caught'! What's wrong for getting in touch with an old college girlfriend to refresh the memories of the pure human relationship?
2006-08-11 01:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and try to understand his interest in her. Is he a man that would do something like this under normal circumastances? Have you all been having problems? If so, then you need to address the underlying issues that may be causing him to seek external fulfillment. If not, I'd say move forward. Just make sure he knows that you won't accept that again.
2006-08-09 08:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by danielle_la_flor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "CAUGHT" him??? What does that mean? I'm married and I've gotten in touch with old friends (yes and old boyfriend) lately myself. I told my husband what I was doing. What's the big deal anyway? You sound like things have to be "sneaky" around you. That is sad. He probably would have TOLD you instead of you being sneaky if you didn't act like that. YOU are married to him --- she's not. You can't tell me there aren't people in your life you'd like to talk to again to see what they've been up to. Doesn't mean anything. You are acting like a child. Remember the people in our lives throughout our lives make us who we are inside.
2006-08-09 08:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just feels like he has some unresolved issues with her.
I would talk to him about it before you think about it too much and become more upset over it. So far he hasn't done anything "wrong" so don't go into it pointing fingers or anything, just let him know that you would like to know what's up, and if there is anything that you could maybe help him with from a woman's point of view. Let him know you are not angry, you just want to know what's going on with him, because you care about him and your relationship.
2006-08-09 08:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say this in a humorous way, "Oooh, trying to get in touch with an old flame? I trust you completely, I know you'd never do anything to jepardize our marriage. After all, if I have to emasculate you, you won't be any fun in bed anymore. Let me know how it goes."
Don't forget to smile.
2006-08-09 08:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him find out the reason before you blow it all out of proportion. Let him know it upsets you, tell him you have no objections to him speaking to her as long as he is honest with you and doesnt sneak around if there just friends you could meet up with her to.
2006-08-09 08:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he does it again, he can pack his bag and go see her personally. Don't back down cause is just a situation that you KNOW about...what about what you don't KNOW about? Put your foot down if you want to keep the man. If you're not sure, put his butt out and stop wasting your time.
2006-08-09 08:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk do not yell ,but talk this one out-see what the reason was for go with your instincts,if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck it is probably a duck
2006-08-09 08:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all man is so is better bring the two together in ur house and ask what they want with each other why they make it secret.then we will know man like that is not good to learning.
2006-08-09 09:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by cute sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋