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I have joint custudy of my children but the problem is when it is his time with the kids he is always coming back to my house for one thing or another. And its always dumb stuff he says he needs to talk to me about. I pay for the food even at his house cause I fill the kids will not get feed if I don't.He works but uses his money on beer.He pays childsupport but between food,kids cloths for school and everything else I pay for the kids have no money for fun stuff.
I talk to the attorneys about it and they say nothing I can do.I am remarried and my husband is tired of my ex using me and trying to give me guilt trips.I even told him when he has the kids he needs to make sure he buys there food and stuff but he always comes back to me. Help he does not know what the word divorce means.

2006-08-09 10:55:05 · 6 answers · asked by starlight203_2000 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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This is simple - why do you allow it. If he has the kids he has the kids - do not allow him to keep returning to the house - try dropping them off at his house and say you will be gone until the day they are suppose to return. As far as the food and stuff - I'm pretty sure you children will not starve during the time he has them. Bottom line stop enabling him.

2006-08-09 11:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0 0

I would talk to child services. See if him spending all his money on beer and not food for the kids can get you full custody. Don't buy the stuff he should be because he's not taking responsibly of his actions.

2006-08-09 11:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by jacymay2508 1 · 0 0

I wish i could tell you something that would help. Your situation is very hard. If you think that you Ex is not a good farther you could try to get full custody. I wish you Luck : ) sorry i couldn't let you anything better.

2006-08-09 11:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by -l-Unknow-l- 2 · 0 0

do you already know of a outstanding hit-guy? Ha. in basic terms kidding. do no longer examine his text textile messages and if hes no longer interior the comparable place you're, do no longer concern approximately it. in basic terms forget approximately him or record Harrassment quotes against him. which could resign him. positioned a restraining order on him additionally.

2016-11-04 05:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

repetittion the original court for a restraining order which forbids him to come near you except when dropping off or picking up the kids

2006-08-09 23:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

tell him to buy food, watch the kids, and leave you be when he has them unless they are sick... tell him i am sorry, but i am NOT your mom, and he doesnt need to have the kids if he is drinking!

2006-08-09 11:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0 0

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