2006-08-09 11:00:47 · 31 answers · asked by quad_luvin_chic33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely, everyone deserves a second chance and their are great couples services out there to look into.
On both sides keep in constant mind of what made the relationship collapse the first time. Knowledge, communication, patience and understanding is the key.
If you decide to give it a go again, Good Luck!!!
2006-08-09 11:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up in the first place? An ex is an ex for a reason. Time has a way of letting you remember the good things and sweeping the bad under the carpet, but the bad is all still there right under the surface and once you spend some time together it will all come right back out. You WILL have the same problems you had before and do you really want to ride that ride again? Basically going back to an ex is like putting spoiled milk back in the fridge and thinking it will be better next week, the memory of the smell may fade some but as soon as you take it out and open it up the smell suddenly comes rushing back to you and you remember why you put it away in the first place. Better off just getting yourself some new, fresh milk!
2006-08-09 18:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always that possibility that it would work out. If the problems are no longer there and you both know how to deal with whatever they were in the past then in time you will get stronger. People mature and just because you tried once, does not mean that if you worked it through that it would not work again. Just don't keep breaking up and getting back together cause that is really not good for the both of you. I would say that if it doesn't work the second time around then don't ever bother again but a second time is worth the try if you really love and care about each other.
2006-08-09 18:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by sassy_italia4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes but the chances are slim. It may depend on why you broke up in the first place.
My best friend just remarried her ex. The reason the marriage collapsed the first time was that they were just too young and neither had good coping skills to handle the pressures. But as time went by and they both grew as people they realized they were meant for each other which made their son immensely happy.
2006-08-09 18:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by genaddt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not usually. Not to say that it never happens, but very rarely. You cannot change a person, ever. Change within a person has to be a result of their own choice. As others have said, things may be good again for a little while, but more often than not you begin to fall back into old habits.
2006-08-09 18:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the break up. It depends on the individuals involved. A lot of the time I think there is too much hurt, and too much baggage to have a second go around with an ex.
2006-08-09 18:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure things can work out, but only if the newly reformed couple focuses honestly on the issues that led to the separation in the first place.
2006-08-09 18:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by DomC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. They are an ex for a reason. Dont break up to make up. Leave it alone. There are so many people out there to meet.
2006-08-09 18:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is no way to answer this questions without knowing why you broke up, what has happened since then to change the circumstances under which you broke up, and how sincerely both of you want to reconcile.
Good luck.
2006-08-09 18:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by museumdoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The classic Magic 8 Ball answer-
It is doubtful.
2006-08-09 18:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by catarina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋