we have talked about marriage, but he says he wont wear a ring, how can I get him to ask me anyway??
2006-08-09 11:45:33 · 9 answers · asked by luv him 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he sounds like hes too shy to ask, so maybe you should ask him. it also sounds like hes not ready for marrage yet, so have fun together and he'll eventually feel more comfortable about the thought.
2006-08-09 12:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by dreamer_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why must he ask you ? your a modern woman and are strong minded and strong willed as well .. Get down on your knee and ask for him to share your life with you . If he says no then perhaps he has an issue that he needs to address with you .
I must say though... the piece of paper isn't that important if you are in a full time loving relationship with him already .
But my lady is the same she needed the security and peer approval of not living in sin ,as some narrow minded friends and relatives kept hinting at her that marriage is the greatest bond.
the greatest bond in reality is the feelings you share when you are together .so don't let this issue break your heart he may come around in time .
2006-08-09 12:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is a very difficult question to answer. On the one hand, you feel like you have given your heart, soul and time into this person and deserve a proposal, but on the other hand you want him to be happy with the decision to get married to you and not feel pushed into it.
I went through this same problem 4 years ago. My advice is to ask him if there is a specific timeframe that he wants you to wait before he feels ready to get engaged. You may want to consider also asking him or yourself: does he really want to get engaged? The hardest but most important one is: Is he not ready to get engaged, or is he just not ready to get engaged to you.
Unfortunately, having cold feet now can be a sign that there is a problem with the relationship. If there is, it is much better to address it now than when you are married.
2006-08-09 12:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by C'thulhu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't wear a ring? A wedding ring? You need to leave it alone the more you push him the more resistant he will become but you need to ask yourself how long are you willing to wait for him?
2006-08-09 11:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a time limit of 2 years . After that, either get married within a month or break off.
2006-08-10 05:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ask dumb questions like these and focus on just keeping the relationship going by doing subtle things and making him feel that he needs you for the rest of his life.
2006-08-09 11:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by Eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just wait, why would u want to hurry him up on something so important.Or maybe he's having seconds thoughts.
2006-08-09 11:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by lorena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he is not ready. And he won't ask until he is ready.
2006-08-09 12:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eli is right
2006-08-09 12:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋