Marriage & Divorce - 1 August 2006

I am 23 engaged to a man who's 36 we both work however before I was in a relationship with him he was financially strapped due to 2 children which he pays child support, 2 children which he is sole responsible for and they reside with us! As well as the overhead costs to live in the area HE desires to live in (expensive)! I am always unable to go out due to the fact that he never can find a babysitter for his children, he never has any extra money to go out with, also he is not outgoing! He and I have a child together which I pay 150 a week for babysitting him only pays for her diaper $20 bucks a month and medical insurance (he's maxed out so it's the same price as it was before her birth)! My I also add although I don't pay any bills at the home I shell out $600 bask a month for childcare! He and I haven't been anywhere out side the city limits and we very rarely go out together! He has Avery demanding job which can demand 12 hours or more a day from him! I am very sexually frustrated

2006-08-01 10:17:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-01 10:05:45 · 9 answers · asked by loungebrother 2

my husband says that he never talks to women, but every time we go out,and women that he works with or works around, just stair at him like they want to talk to him, but they don't cause i'm there so they just give him a little smerk.
is he telling me the truth, or is he lying ,cause he thinks i'm going to get mad.

2006-08-01 10:04:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Facts are:
Married female U.S. citizen who resides in the U.S.; currently separated from husband but not legally divorced yet.
Male (originally from Phillipines) is living with this female in the U.S.
Male has resided in the U.S. for at least 10 years.
Male is also separated from wife (who was also from Phillipines).
Not sure if male is a U.S. citizen or the Phillipines or both.

Could these two people marry during a trip to the Phillipines? - even if it's done illegally?

2006-08-01 10:02:52 · 9 answers · asked by M M 1

It's a second marriage for both of us. No fancy wedding has been planned. It's not an angry breakup, but because of mutual love and affection will be very sorrowful for both of us.

2006-08-01 10:01:07 · 11 answers · asked by Elvis77 1

When I say living with a man, I mean married or not, with children or not (but especially with children).
I know scorekeeping shouldn't be part of a happy relationship, but we all know it's part of every relationship where a man and woman live together.
Work, money, chores, gifts, where time is spent, chauffeuring kids, home/car repair, etc.
I'm not talking about apples to oranges comparisons here. It's very hard to compare a high-stress job to keeping a home with kids. I'm talking about apples to apples conversations where the only logical, accountable conclusion would be for the woman to say: "You will do more work than me and that's just the way it is."
But.....can these logical, accountable conversations happen with women who percieve things this way?

2006-08-01 09:58:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who this happened to. His wife now says she won't sleep with him because she is "sure" he's been unfaithful. I am fairly certain she's wrong, and I think she's saying it to cover her own tracks. She travels on business constantly, usually with the same male coworker, with whom she's thinking of going into business. She's been very COLD towards her husband for years.

2006-08-01 09:56:26 · 7 answers · asked by homebuyer 3

2006-08-01 09:54:27 · 16 answers · asked by loungebrother 2

2006-08-01 09:52:36 · 10 answers · asked by butch 1

2006-08-01 09:51:29 · 8 answers · asked by butch 1

Or does it take more than that to make a marriage work? I am really struggling right now in my marriage, and would just like some opinions. Do you think if two people love each other that is enough to make it work, or do you need more?

2006-08-01 09:48:59 · 46 answers · asked by manda61905 4

2006-08-01 09:47:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiances brother gave me oral sex one drunk night and now we meet almost everyday. I really love my fiance and women but not I can't get enough of him. Am I gay now?

2006-08-01 09:46:59 · 45 answers · asked by estew3rt7 1

Step dads, do you love your wife's children like they're your own? If so, is this something that developed over time? Did you/Are you struggling with that? Did it just seem natural? does it make a difference if you had no children of your own? do you just "like them"? Explain your situation.
I asked this already and got wonderful responses....looking for more.

2006-08-01 09:45:57 · 8 answers · asked by paintgirl 4

i thinkwe should wait,its less than 2 weeks away but he doesnt want to wait,i need some tips,some pointers,anything!!!!

2006-08-01 09:42:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If people love each other so much, then why do half the marriages end in divorce and is usually because of financial distress? So does love really bring ever lasting marraige? Let me hear what you think.

2006-08-01 09:40:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-01 09:38:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-01 09:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by tony160201 1

bout splittin up household items when hes always bitching at evrythin u talk bout how would any1 talk 2 a man that is like that how 2 bring up the subject of that ?? im not sure how 2 strt talkin bout this any suggestions?

2006-08-01 09:31:06 · 11 answers · asked by kidrock_rules68 3

At first it was wonderful and now things have changed he has a temper that want quit. We argue alot. Before he left he was a Deacon of our church and now he want even go to church with me any more. The other night he got mad cause I asked him to spend more time at home and not at the local golf course. I just don't understand why he doesn't want to be with me more. You would think that after being apart from one another you couldn't get enough of each other. I need help in trying to save my marriage if there is anyone out there that has been in my shoes with their husband please let me know how to handle it.. Thanks and God Bless Oh and we have been married for 9 years..

2006-08-01 09:30:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband left for an off-district (he's a wildland firefighter) on Friday. His best friend (who happens to be my ex-boyfriend from high school) lives about 3 blocks away. His wife left to go visit her family on Friday. I was at home, minding my own business, sleeping, when my phone rings at 3:30 AM! It was my husband's friend...he's drunk. He's telling me that he just called to hear my voice, that he was just thinking about me...then he tells me he "really wants to see me right now." What do I do??? What did he want?? I told my husband...so now he's fuming mad and afraid he's lost his best friend. I am friends with his wife, but we're not that close...I'm assuming since she hasn't called me - that he hasn't told her what he did. He left my husband a voicemail apologizing...that he just wanted someone to talk to, playing it off like it was nothing. I was mad and really uncomfortable. Am I overreacting? Is this going to be blown out of proportion when my husband gets home?

2006-08-01 09:24:47 · 16 answers · asked by L 1

Do you get turned on seeing women in sexy panties or teddy's my husband goes nuts when I wear them he loves going and buying me this kind of stuff sometimes he feels weird like people think he's strange. I don't it makes me feel good.

2006-08-01 09:22:24 · 7 answers · asked by tryme 1

I think she is a veggie. Is it OK to sleep with, say, hookers or something? Thanks!

2006-08-01 09:18:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married for 6 years. 4 yr old son, 9 mo old daughter. He went through treatment and would've been sober 3 years on Aug 9. He started drinking again last week. Got in a huge fight and acted like he was mad at me! Total alcoholic, I don't think I can go through this again.

2006-08-01 08:58:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-01 08:54:49 · 22 answers · asked by devika h 2

My hub and another married woman had kissed and made out 2 years ago. The woman and her hub are common friends with my hub and I and another 5 couples, we have always hung out and been good friends. Anyhow I found out from my elder sis about my hub and the Woman's encounter. I also know that it was once, but everytime they met at parties and all, they would stare in each others eyes, hug each other, dance closely when they could, and talk. My hub had told her that he could not see her anymore and they could be friends, but that he still liked her. Well that was still a year ago he confessed feelings. then over time we moved away from her because of hub's job. I got prego, had a baby girl who is 3 months. However even when my hub is here, and the woman is 7 hours away, they email about daily how are you’s, what are you doing, what are weekend plans, and they want to know daily, weekly details from each other. Well the woman is the one who writes my hub the emails in yahoo and myspace

2006-08-01 08:51:43 · 9 answers · asked by toralm1 1

my husband has Bipolar and Add. I am having a hard time with him latley. He tells me all of our fights are my fault and if I would not be the way I am he would not blow off the handle? (example. yesterday I asked him to show me where the switch was on the ceiling fan and he got mad at me telling me that the blades are wear they should be and that I am an idiot. Because he knows what he is doing) I told him not to yell at me like that in front of my child ever again and he said it was all my fault that he acted that way. Is there something I am doing wrong. Or is this typical bipolar disorder stuff. We are seeing a marriage counsler and she told him if he thinks he needs it he should see his counsler again. Well he does not think he needs it and told me I was the problem not him. How can I save my marriage and keep him going to see his counsler. I do love him a lot. i just dont love the way he has been acting please help me understand!

2006-08-01 08:49:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

About three months ago, I rented a nasty movie for my wife and I to watch together, to spice things up. When a scene came on with this black stud humping a pretty white chick, my wife said, "This is getting hot. They are both really into it!" Later, we had fantastic sex. Now, after all this time, I offered to get another movie for some more fun. My wife said, "Can you get one like last time, with a hot black guy?" I wasn't jeolous (a guy is not gonna come through the tv and **** my wife), but I asked her why it was such a turn-on for her. She told me that I kept her more than happy, and she would never cheat on me, I was her one and only man, etc. She just said that black ***** look the best in the movies and they were a HUGE turn-on. No pun intended. She explained that it was a common fantasy. She countered that she isn't worried that Halle Berry turns me on. Am I wrong to be concerned? What about this "they look the best on TV" stuff--is that just a BS line? Is this weird or common?

2006-08-01 08:42:05 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you could have one night of sex with anyone in the world you desired-but only if you got a note of permission from your partner-would you ask for it?

2006-08-01 08:28:35 · 33 answers · asked by tomiyo 4

Basically I just want to ask thier blessing for thier daugther's hand in marriage. What is the best way to approach it? In person, on the phone? And how exactly to say it? Just wondering?

2006-08-01 08:23:14 · 8 answers · asked by tannedknight45 5