how do u sit down n talk 2 ur hubby ???????

Question

bout splittin up household items when hes always bitching at evrythin u talk bout how would any1 talk 2 a man that is like that how 2 bring up the subject of that ?? im not sure how 2 strt talkin bout this any suggestions?

kk this man when isnt he cranky

Answer 1

Well if he's impossible to talk to its impossible to have this conversation, either prepare a list for him of items you consider yours and plan to take, request that he highlight anything he has an issue with, or ask him to prepare a list of what he considers his. Tell him he has 24 hours to get it done or you will assume he doesn't care about anything, then take it ALL! Or if you want to try to talk to him tell him he can be as childish as he wants but it needs to be worked out so he could attempt to behave like a man for 10 minutes and get it settled OR it can become some long disgusting drawn out battle, his choice.

Answer 2

I tried answering this before and I will say the same thing I said before that when people type like they talk and no one can understand a word that person is saying or trying to convey because all of the sentences are about 22 words long with no wind or breathing in between and then the monkey wanted to spank the cow because the husband was cranky and didn't want to give up the dishes for the glassware because after all he bought them on discount at the flea market so he should be entitled to them anyway so why not just take the pots and pans and dishwashing detergent break the rest of the dishes in half so you can get one half and he can get the other half and you can all lose weight because eating half a meal will make you take in less calories

Answer 3

Have you guys EVER sat down and determined who is
responsible for what?

If he can't do even that, you need to do something to shake him
up, like go on strike or start talking about divorce (people get
divorced over less).

It may be that you have already decided who does what but
he never keeps up to his end of the bargain. If so, is there
a compelling reason?

If not, then again, you mean need to shake things up. Going
on "strike" many include not performing your share of the
chores, but it may be just giving him the silent treatment until
he gets some perspective.

I guess you can start the conversation with "We're married.
It is supposed to be an equal partnership. I feel used and
this is why: ..."

A therapist can facilitate and make it much less threatening,
but ultimately you will have to talk about it.

Answer 4

Girl every man thinks women talk to much and you know what we do but at least we get our feelings out there unlike them and when we don't do what they want they complain . I just do what i need to do around the house and or outside and if he doesnt like it i tell him well i tried talking to you about it but you wouldn't listen. Try that if he tells you ill listen next time then good if he over reacts tell him well if you really want it the way it was before then move it your self.

Answer 5

Talk to him when he's rested and in a good mood - don't bring things up after he's off work or cranky. Just be straight with him and tell him what the problem is and how you want to fix it.

Answer 6

#1 - Talk to him like an adult, not an idiot.
#2 - If he doesn't want to take responsibility around the house,
kick his *** to the curb.
#3 - Or shut your mouth and do it all, OR grow some balls.

Answer 7

Why are you splitting up house hold items? Getting a divorce?

Answer 8

First start by ingnoring is bitchness and talk about it. It that doesn't work get bitchy right back

Answer 9

i dont have a hubby, but i can tell you this: if he wont listen to you you need to get his attention. start with something you know he will pay attention to and slowly change the subject. dont let him interrupt and make him pay attention.

Answer 10

you need a new man if he is that unreasonable, he sounds like a real horses rear