Am I gay now?

Question

My fiances brother gave me oral sex one drunk night and now we meet almost everyday. I really love my fiance and women but not I can't get enough of him. Am I gay now?

Answer 1

that is a question you need to answer yourself

Answer 2

If you love women, then I would think you are more along the lines of bi-sexual. Or just confused and excited by this new experience. A good question to ask yourself is how do you feel about men in general? Do you find yourself attracted to other men or is it just this individual? I don't think you need to stick a label on this. I know straight men that have dabbled in sexual activity with men, but it was an isolated situation and didn't make them gay or bi-sexual. What you should really be concerned about is what your fiance would think if she found out and if it's worth losing her over.

Answer 3

You might not be gay, but you are very confussed. I am going to pass judgement on, and I hope no one gives the smarta-- remarks, but honey, you got yourself in one big mess. What I mean is you and your fiance need to talk! You have got to break it off with her, because you are cheating on her, and then with not a man-but her brother..Gosh, you are a Jerry Springer show all by yourself...Please break it off with both the fiance and the brother. Figure what you want before you hurt anybody else. You could be just going thru a phase, but you could be bi-sexual. That's something only you can decide, but you shouldn't be messing around with a brother and sister...Don't be worried about be gay-worry how you are effecting this people's lives. Then figure it out...I don't what to say, you have me speakless, which says alot! Being gay isn't the end of world, but going around cheating on your fiance with a close family member could be....God bless us all.....

Answer 4

I would say you are gay. Even if you stopped right now, I dont see how your fiance could get past it. You obviously have stepped through a threshold which when that becomes boring, you will find another one to try. Just tell her and let her go.

Answer 5

Well, you might be "Bi-sexual" (that is, like both sexes), or
perhaps even "Curious".

Its not the end of the world - just be careful.

I am more concerned that your fiance will find out about the
sex than whom the sex was with.

Regardless of whether you are gay or bi-, you are still
certainly cheating on her.

Answer 6

I would have to say yes you just might be. But thats ok if you dont like this guy then maybe you should just put all that behind and marry your fiance. do the right thing boy

Answer 7

Is not really a question of crossing over in a heartbeat..you need to kind of talk to yourself..soul search about which sex you like more or you might now know the answer right away..give it time and you will find out!

Answer 8

If u enjoyed the way your fiances brother gave you oral sex, you are bisexual, but don't tell anyobody, keep it as an adventure, that's funnier!! Good luck (and tell ur fiance's brother that he's my idol!!)

Answer 9

You are for sure bi-sexual. Id hold off on the whole marriage/committment thing. You are cheating on your fiance with her brother. Which is pretty close to incest. Might want to get some counseling too.

Answer 10

Just tell ur fiance what you did and if she breaks up with u then you always have her brother. Ur not gay unlass u want to be.

Answer 11

No, that don't mean you're gay. You probably are just curious now since you had the drunkin night with him. If you keep doing it and finding yourself looking at men and even in your past BEFORE you had that experience being drunk, you maybe bisexual since you also love women. I think you're just curious is all...I don't think you're gay...