my husband says that he never talks to women, but every time we go out,and women that he works with or works around, just stair at him like they want to talk to him, but they don't cause i'm there so they just give him a little smerk.
is he telling me the truth, or is he lying ,cause he thinks i'm going to get mad.
2006-08-01 10:04:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you asked him? Just remember that if he ever cheats on you, it just isn't meant to be. And if you feel that he is not being truthful, you need to let him know how it makes you feel. The key is communication. I learned that the hard way with my husband. Just tell him that you have boundries that you set for yourselves and you feel that he is crossing it and you need to be strong and put your foot down. If he really isn't talking to these other woman, then you will just have to try to trust him. Just pray about it! :)
2006-08-01 10:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by akraft1@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would imagine he is trying not to upset you !! why should he not talk to other women....in work we all have to talk to people, male and female, mm he is married to you,,, so do not think badly, as a man i would probably "lie" to you because i do not see it as important, the fact that i am out with you my wife is what makes me happy !! i know we think differantly to women, come on if we thought like you the world may be a lot better !! maybe, just because he is not wanting to challenge your question does not mean he is bad or unfaithful, i would be more concerned about your insecurity from the question that you have asked, unless you just want a reaction ? ? let it be, so he dos not want to tell you he chat's with women, it is not bad he just mis-understands your direction, i.e he thinks you are trying to accuse him of some bad thing...if you feel that it is wrong for him to lie to you well then you need to realise that us men actually do not have a great capacity for seeing the obvious, i mean what is wrong with chatting to women, yes we think of sex every ,,, mm is it 6 seconds ?? gosh, sorry but it does not mean we do it ! a man does flirt, so do women, catching him in bed ok slap him !!! drop him but please just because he does not tell you the right answer to YOUR insecurity does not make him a bad man,
personal point of view !!
2006-08-01 17:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I have been in a similar situation with my husband. When you go out with ur husband and or even in to his work. Maybe sure that you make ur-self look very nice. I always smile a lot and joke with mine when I go to his work. I would strongly, act like you could careless. That will really show that you are confident and you have no worries about you & him. If he is doing something behind ur back. He is going to mess up sometime or other. Good Luck!
2006-08-01 17:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to talk to people of the opposite sex. By being so controlling, you're gonna run this guy off. There are women everywhere, you need to get over this. Not to be mean, but if someone has it in their character to cheat, they will do it no matter what lengths you go to trying to prevent it. (ie, forbidding him to talk to other women) You can't be with him ALL the time, you have to trust him.
2006-08-01 17:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he talks to women. There is no way he can work with them and not talk. The important thing is what does he talk about? Why are these women giving him a "smirk" when they see him?
2006-08-01 17:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why have you put him in this position? why can't he talk to his co-workers? give him a break. cut him some slack. trust him. he's your husband, for heaven's sake. he's going home with you. why don't you make it pleasant for him instead of harrassing him until he feels uncomfortable around his co-workers? don't you get it? HE CHOSE YOU! THERE WERE ALL THESE OTHER WOMEN AROUND, AND HE CHOSE YOU! Stop trying to make him feel sorry for that decision.
2006-08-01 17:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by slippped 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you will get mad, but yes he's lying! but explain to him that the only reason you'd get mad is because of his lying.... there might be something going on at work that he doesn't want you to know about!
2006-08-01 17:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by ndnyabl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying. He doesn't want u 2 get mad.
2006-08-01 17:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by P K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody talks to either women or men.... give me a break! Talking to co-workers is a normar part of life....Jeez!
2006-08-01 17:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a difference between talking to other women and casually chatting.
2006-08-01 17:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by SavvyGrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋