Marriage & Divorce - 1 August 2006

How do you know that she isn't just looking for a good father for her child? It seems selfish but I would like to be a husband and a father instead of just being someone who's pegged as a "good father"

2006-08-01 06:42:27 · 8 answers · asked by graffeng 1

2006-08-01 06:40:55 · 2 answers · asked by russel v 1

2006-08-01 06:30:22 · 8 answers · asked by onemeeg 1

My fiance & I have been together for 7 years...over the past year he has been on alot of business trips...we don't see each other alot (haven't seen him in 7 months) He was deeply in love with me just a year ago ..I felt so loved and care for ..but now he completely changed we no longer talk about our love life and If I am hurt he never try to cheer me up like before...I just feel there is no love in his heart for me anymore (he doesn't even care to come home) I asked him if he think we should separate but he said he's deeply in love with me but I don't think it's that way...I asked him to come home but he said he has alot of work to do (he will probably return home October)..I love him so much but I don't think he feel the same way about me.

What do you suggest I should do?

2006-08-01 06:30:08 · 42 answers · asked by Blondie 3

Why do alot of people want kids? What is the benefit of having them? Why do people pressure those that don't want kids to have them?

2006-08-01 06:27:48 · 13 answers · asked by thewonderer 1

Does anybody have any mother-in-law horror stories to make me feel better? lol

2006-08-01 06:24:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-01 06:22:47 · 3 answers · asked by russel v 1

my mom caught my dad cheating early this morning. this isnt the first time she caught him but she wont leave him. he lies and she knows it but she stands by him they have been married 19 yrs and she is very dependent on him not with money but emotionally so what do i tell her when she wont leave.

2006-08-01 06:22:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out yesterday that my wife is cheating on me. (I am 100% Positive and have proof.)
We just got married on June 17th 2006...
I really care for her and her two girls (Hers from a previous marriage...)
Ya, I'm DEEPLY hurt by her actions, but most of all, I feel sorry for her girls who are supposed to come back to our house in just a few weeks. My wife just must not care about those girls at all.
I am planning on calling her ex-husband later today and telling him to enrole the kids in school where he lives. I then plan on kicking her butt out to the curb.
I don't care what happens to her. All I know is that she really hurt me, her kids, and herself by making some seriously stupid decisions recently.
I am not perfect but I work hard and every penny I earn goes to bills to provide for her and her kids.
If there is a way I can hurt her as much as she has hurt everybody else (without breaking the law) please let me know. How do I get back at her for doing this to all of us???!!!

2006-08-01 06:09:08 · 32 answers · asked by sandblast_dude 2

You know reading all this stuff and hearing about all these sour relationships...really makes me appreciate what I have with my husband! It makes me realize just how lucky I am to have a husband who loves me, for who I am...and whom I love right back!

Does anyone else feel that way too?

2006-08-01 06:08:43 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki B 2

seeing photos of her with other guys. It's just a company photo, why does it bother me so?

2006-08-01 06:02:46 · 9 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-08-01 06:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do I need a lawyer to get a divorce?

2006-08-01 05:57:53 · 12 answers · asked by ATLCHI 1

me and my boyfriend wants to get married when he turns 18. my family says he has to be legal, but his family has gotten married in the united states and they say that you do not have to be legal to get married in the united states. so my question is, do you have to be legal to get married in the united states?

2006-08-01 05:53:15 · 5 answers · asked by saraluvsedgar 1

i met her through the internet....and i am madly in love with her...how long should i wait before i propose to her

2006-08-01 05:50:03 · 34 answers · asked by ? 2

OK, so I am married to this guy who has a really bad temper. I have been with him for a long long time. When things get really bad he pushes me around, pins me up against the wall, hurts me and stuff, although he has never actually beaten me up. Afterwards he always tries to convince me that he has done nothing wrong.

Things have been better for the last month to six weeks and he hasn't laid a finger on me (at all! not violently but then nor does he want to have sex with me or touch me in any way!). I still can't forget what he has done in the past, I can't relax around him and I just don't feel safe.

There is this guy, a friend of his. I have known him for about 3 years and have always had a huuuuge crush on him (he is a God!!!). He is single. He is everything I want in a man, sweet, sensitive, just lovely. We get on well and whenever I bump into him we chat for about 20 minutes. He is single and has told me he wants a girlfriend.

What should I do? Please help!

2006-08-01 05:42:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-01 05:41:58 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ Nance ♥ 2

I was just reading the description of the movie "Pumpkin" http://movies.yahoo.com/movie/1807566980/details and I was just wondering if this ever happens in real life. Do "normal" people ever fall in love with mentally challeged people? And does it ever result in marriage or romantic partnership?

And no I'm not looking :P I'm already happily married.

2006-08-01 05:39:30 · 7 answers · asked by my brain hurts 5

2006-08-01 05:38:19 · 7 answers · asked by Dana W 1

Thats what I would do, what about you?

2006-08-01 05:26:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife is a good singer but spends hrs on the computer somtimes to 1:00 even 3:00 in the mourning claims she's networking online its cool with me but the comments that i've read
just seemed to be personal and flirting comments between her & an up coming producer she doesn't know that i have read them and i really want to be cool about it because its just online and im not an insucure person but i really don't know if i should be concerned or not becuase i care about her and i want her to suceed in pursuing her goals

2006-08-01 05:13:50 · 18 answers · asked by j j 1

2006-08-01 05:10:03 · 37 answers · asked by michael m 2

There are 3 married former coworkers flirting with me to different degrees

#1 - She used to come to my desk everyday and sit around and chat for hours. Sometimes she would massage my shoulders or sit inappropriately to give me a "view". I asked her out to lunch several times but she would never go unless someone else was going.

#2 - We didn't talk much while I was working there but after I left we went out to lunch a couple of times. Since then she's been calling me or emailing me to get together for drinks after work but every time we firm something up, she cancels at the last minute. This has been going on for over two months now. She's trying to set up another date now after cancelling 3 times.

#3 - We used to work very closely together, but never did anything outside of work. When I was leaving she offered to take me out to lunch to say farewell. Since then, we've been having lunch together almost every month (5 times). Talk is platonic, but is she expecting me to escalate

2006-08-01 05:07:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

couple of months ago my husband bumped into a girl he new a few years ago that used to date one of his friends. since then he has been going round there doing odd jobs for her. i recently found out he has been going round there without me knowing, and also lying about where he has been . he has said it is all innocent and thinks i am now some kind of weirdo for thinking otherwise. help.

2006-08-01 05:03:48 · 23 answers · asked by kayfromcov 3

He decided it was over because my depression kept me from doing a lot of things. I did not know at the time I was depressed. I am now trying to get some help but he already starte into a new relationship. We talk sometimes even though is girl tells him not to talk with me. I want them to break up because I still love him. And I tell him every chance I get, but this frustrates him. I dont want to be with anyone else but him. What should I do?

2006-08-01 05:00:43 · 11 answers · asked by zoe112799 2

We have been talking about divorce. He agreed on a separation, he even packed his bags and was going to leave today, but last night, it happened. I was sitting on the couch, and he came out to me with his gun, put the barrel up to his chest, stuck the other end in my face and was screaming "Pull the trigger! Do it! You want me gone, do it!"
I was screaming for him to stop, and crying so hard. I told him put the gun down, we can stay together. I didn't want him to do this, I got no sleep last night. He is at work now, all I can do is cry about what happened. I am not happy. But in no way shape or form do I want him to die. What do I do now?

2006-08-01 04:57:57 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have known each other since we were kids and married 1year ago Aug.6th. We are on a tight budget and i need some romantic ideas on things i could do for him.

2006-08-01 04:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by leanna0263 2

I mean wow!! What happened… he’s picking up his socks, picking up his own dry cleaning..ha? Even doing the dishes!!! and all of a sudden he even started putting up more shelves in the closet and giving me more space for shoes..What the heck is going on???

2006-08-01 04:54:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-01 04:47:40 · 15 answers · asked by butchdalton 4

I have a beautiful, faithful 30-something year old wife. We are both white. Recently at a wedding, I was having a temporary knee problem so i agreed to allow my wife to dance with anyone she wished at the reception. I'm not the jeolous type. Later, she came to me and whispered, "You're gonna get lucky tonight, mister." She explained that a handsome black guy had pressed against her while dancing and, let's just say she was impressed. He told her, "I'm so embarressed that I'm rock hard. Please don't walk away and allow everyone to see", so she kept dancing, obviously turned on. She was honest. So I wouldn't get upset, she stayed close to me the rest of the night. We had amazing sex that night. A week later, she asked me if she could have a black stripper for her birthday. She said that she just realized at the wedding what a turn on seeing a large black dick would be. She said that she only wanted this one fantasy and would never ask for another. Should I let her have one wish?

2006-08-01 04:47:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous