i met her through the internet....and i am madly in love with her...how long should i wait before i propose to her
2006-08-01 05:50:03 · 34 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to propose to her when you feel like you are ready. No one else knows when you are ready but you. Go with your heart. If you think you are ready now for the ups and downs of marriage then go for it, if you really love her and want to wake up to her everyday no matter what then go for it. Go with your heart.
~Rickeisha
2006-08-01 05:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Okay you met her on the internet, but have you actually met her in person? It is perfectly normal to feel very "in love" with someone in the beginning of the relationship. It is new, different, and fun. But you should wait for at least 6 months to propose. Make sure that you know everything about her first.
2006-08-01 05:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, first you better meet her...and then see if you still feel the same. As for how long to wait to propose? A long time...marriage isn't something that you want to rush into...be careful on the internet...Meet her friends, family, etc. Find out something about her and wait for awhile before you ever marry...or you will be sorry!
2006-08-01 05:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by irishME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you wait until you actually know her. Dating for 2 weeks is nothing. If you still feel the same after 2 years, then go ahead and propose to her.
2006-08-01 05:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would def not propose right away!
but.. i fell madly in love with someone from internet... and things can change in a minute. so try waiting...but if shes into it, or hints things, follow your heart. I know its a tuff choice, but thats love, whats the worse that can happen, she rejects the proposal, and you have to wait sometime??
good luck
2006-08-01 05:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by xxxbabygmelxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Propose in haste - regret at your leisure.
You must be mad, especially someone who has the charm to use the beautiful word 'lass'. Alas, if you think that cyber love is anything useful, you are in for a shock. You are probably talking to some dirty old man who is only after your bum......
2006-08-01 06:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure it is right before you do it!!!! Get to know her, live together for a bit because not getting married to the wrong person in the first place is a hell of a lot easier than getting rid of them when you have made the mistake! Trust me...
But, you should definitely tell her how you feel, meet up with her (in a safe place, providing you are not a psycho-killer and nor is she) and have fun getting to know each other!
Bless....
2006-08-01 05:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)dont be so desperate its a real turn off
2)you should know someone inside and out if you are even thinking of getting married to them
3)you sure you dont just need a shag?
4)or are you getting a shag and having such a good time you think you love her. if so wait a few years it will wear off!
5)have you met her parents? if not do so!
6)wait a lot, lot, lot longer than 2 weeks!!
2006-08-01 05:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by duncan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a lot longer than 2 weeks. Maybe date for two to three months before you even consider marriage. You don't really know someone in two weeks.
2006-08-01 05:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two weeks? Have you met her? I say you met and then move in together. If yall can live together for 6 months without any serious problems, then propose.
2006-08-01 05:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Jeni~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait at LEAST a year AFTER meeting her and being with her as a day to day relationship. Marriage is not something that is disposable, it is meant to be permanent. If you meet and like each other after dating for awhile, then try living together. No rush for marriage !!!!!
2006-08-01 05:58:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋