He decided it was over because my depression kept me from doing a lot of things. I did not know at the time I was depressed. I am now trying to get some help but he already starte into a new relationship. We talk sometimes even though is girl tells him not to talk with me. I want them to break up because I still love him. And I tell him every chance I get, but this frustrates him. I dont want to be with anyone else but him. What should I do?
2006-08-01 05:00:43 · 11 answers · asked by zoe112799 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is hard...well, how long were ya'll together? How long has he been with this other person? I mean, why does he still talk to you unless he still cares about you? Did he know that you were in a depressive state? are you still working through your depression? I don't know if it would be a good idea to get back into a relationship with this person. Work on yourself first. I know this seems like it would be worse for you than better, but think about it. You can;t be selfish. if it's something that should exist, this relationship will survive anything, including this new relationship. Good luck and I hope you are well
2006-08-01 05:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 16:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People get comfuse when they have way too many problems and they dont know what they want or maybe a bad time and a bad desition can make people breake up sometimes even when they love each other .when u mad u r more likely to make a disition to break up over a stupid thing when the bad time is gone and u look what u have done and u still love the other person let him/her know so things can be fix... so u dont have to wait days months or a year suffering. i had the same problem......
2006-08-01 05:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like women they have to work to get. If you keep whining at him about it it will drive him further away. Put your own life back together. Take some classes, find a new hobby, change your style, be unavailable to him but stay very intermittently in contact,talking only about the interesting things you are doing. Then, not only will you be more attractive to him but any other man you want.
2006-08-01 09:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's moved on. Face it. You needn't like it, but that is the way things are. Hounding him, or trying to break them up won't help. As for depression, are you saying that a shrink has diagnosed you as clinically depressed, or did you just come up with depression, as an excuse for neglecting your partner, now that he's gotten fed up with your behavior, and found somebody new?
2006-08-01 06:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He made his choice to be with someone else. Get the help you need for you not for him. When you become better and stronger a great man will find you. Good Luck.
2006-08-01 05:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m in the a similar situation
just be his friends
be there for him maybe he will realize that u r worth going back too
but remember dont tolerate any abuse
and u need to love ur self first before u can love some one
email me if care to chat
peterfl999@yahoo.com
2006-08-01 05:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they or u can just do the rite thing 4 it 2 happen.do somethin u always do thats always caught that person off gaurd and there u have it
2006-08-01 05:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. If it is meant to be it will be. It seems as if you have replaced your depression with an obsession.
2006-08-01 05:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take care of yourself first. if it is meant to be then it will happen. my bf and i got back together after a breakup so it can happen.
2006-08-01 05:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋