my wife is a good singer but spends hrs on the computer somtimes to 1:00 even 3:00 in the mourning claims she's networking online its cool with me but the comments that i've read
just seemed to be personal and flirting comments between her & an up coming producer she doesn't know that i have read them and i really want to be cool about it because its just online and im not an insucure person but i really don't know if i should be concerned or not becuase i care about her and i want her to suceed in pursuing her goals
2006-08-01 05:13:50 · 18 answers · asked by j j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
talk to her about it, ask her what her intentions are. she may just be acting flirty to get a contract. good luck!
2006-08-01 05:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by smileyfaceinspace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Yous hould be concerned as she is fulfilling her emotional needs elsewhere. A married woman should not be flrting with anyone and if someone else is flirting with her she should put them in their place as she is not available to accept romantic advances.
her career is important, so is your marriage. Set the boundries straigh, and tell her that you are supportive of her but some comments just are disrecfectful to you. The music industry is plaged with wanna-be managers and sleezy people that would say anything to get someone in- the sack in lieu of bussiness favors. Be aware and don't let her get lured into something that she may regret later.
Good luck
2006-08-01 05:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it looks like a duck, and walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck. You know the rest. My ex-husband tried that same line on me. We've been divorced for 10 years. There is no reason to be up until 3 am networking. Furthermore, networking and flirting are two entirely different things.
2006-08-01 05:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Incongruous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trip just keep an eye out on the situation. It will unfold if there is any foul play. Best thing you can do is shun the situation so if indeed she is sailing in that boat, she will eventually get over cautious or sloppy..
2006-08-01 05:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by skawp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married and I'm always online reconnecting with old friends (guys included). Honestly, I think that if someone's gonna cheat... it doesn't matter how many precautions you take, they'll find a way to do it. You should trust her until you have more reason to believe otherwise.
2006-08-01 05:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is playing with fire, and looking for something online that may be missing from your own relationship. You need to talk frankly with her or this pattern is going to go on and possibly lead to something more destructive to your marriage.
2006-08-01 05:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have met on line and formed relationships and even married. I'd suggest to her she stop if it bothers you and tell her how you feel about it.Focus on how your not accepting of this and you just do not like it.
2006-08-01 05:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by jackru02dogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and discuss your feelings, getting somewhere by getting"personal" with some one who could help you is not prefessional, and can actually hurt a career.
2006-08-01 05:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Selena D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conserned? Duh. She flirts online until 1,2,or 3 am? She's shopping for fun. You can wait until cheats, if she hasn't, or you can file for divorce now, and avoid the possibility that she'll bring you home a nice std. Unless her profession is hooker, online flirting IS wrong.
2006-08-01 06:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that if you payed more attention to your wife....that maybe she wouldn't be spending so much time on the computer. Think about it!
2006-08-01 05:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋