Should I let my wife?

Question

I have a beautiful, faithful 30-something year old wife. We are both white. Recently at a wedding, I was having a temporary knee problem so i agreed to allow my wife to dance with anyone she wished at the reception. I'm not the jeolous type. Later, she came to me and whispered, "You're gonna get lucky tonight, mister." She explained that a handsome black guy had pressed against her while dancing and, let's just say she was impressed. He told her, "I'm so embarressed that I'm rock hard. Please don't walk away and allow everyone to see", so she kept dancing, obviously turned on. She was honest. So I wouldn't get upset, she stayed close to me the rest of the night. We had amazing sex that night. A week later, she asked me if she could have a black stripper for her birthday. She said that she just realized at the wedding what a turn on seeing a large black dick would be. She said that she only wanted this one fantasy and would never ask for another. Should I let her have one wish?

Answer 1

Think of your fantasy...would she be okay with you fulfilling it? These things never turn out good.

Answer 2

I agree... these things have a way of snowballing into something no longer pleasant and can come between you. She will ask again. You'll probably want to fulfill one of yours. It's only natural, you'd both tend to think, "It was harmless, nobody got hurt, and it was fun, so why not?" But ask yourself this: what if the next time she wants to touch that black dick? What if she wants, "Just one night" with that big black dick? Or a threesome? Could you handle that? If the answer is yes, then I say more power to you. Go for it. Let her. But if the answer is no, then I wouldn't let her do it.

Answer 3

NO. Fidelity allows fantasy not action. it's not a question of morality, it's a question of slippery slope. One thing will lead to another and it will be normal for both parties to get their needs met outside the relationship. See a counselor together.

Answer 4

She IS going to see a black, undressed. Hopefully, just seeing a stripper MIGHT satisfy her, but I doubt it. Face it, she's thinking about sex with a HUGE black guy. It's common, but death for a relationship. Good luck, I'm afraid you're going to need it.

Answer 5

Personally I would say No. Go to a strip club were there is limitations, when someone comes to you they pretty much can do whatever. If all she wants to do is look then a club should suffice.

Answer 6

Can't believe everyone is saying no!

Okay, it's not like his wife is asking to screw a black guy...she just wants to see a stripper.

This is your golden opportunity bro!!!

Give her this request, and then YOU get a request! ;-) Her wish is harmless...big deal if she sees a naked guy...like we haven't seen naked women before.

I say you strike a deal and ask for something juicy!

Answer 7

I agree with squeeze. She probably wouldn't like your fantasy. Not a good idea.

Answer 8

Wow that was interesting. If you have a fantasy see if she will let you do yours also. Even if you don't mention it and see what she says about yours. But let her have her fantasy if she in return lets you have yours.

Answer 9

I think you already have asking this question again 2 or 3 times already. and seem that everyone giving you answer that you are still not happy with??

Answer 10

nope, if it fairly works for then you definately in spite of you opt for for is high quality and in case you need to be responsive to what shes doing to make optimistic, that looks sensible. i in my opinion might never do it, besides the undeniable fact that I also have a freind who has a open relationship. her and her husband are happy so good for them. Its all approximately what works for you.