Anyone else think that many women "keep score" incorrectly and/or unfairly when living with a man?

Question

When I say living with a man, I mean married or not, with children or not (but especially with children).
I know scorekeeping shouldn't be part of a happy relationship, but we all know it's part of every relationship where a man and woman live together.
Work, money, chores, gifts, where time is spent, chauffeuring kids, home/car repair, etc.
I'm not talking about apples to oranges comparisons here. It's very hard to compare a high-stress job to keeping a home with kids. I'm talking about apples to apples conversations where the only logical, accountable conclusion would be for the woman to say: "You will do more work than me and that's just the way it is."
But.....can these logical, accountable conversations happen with women who percieve things this way?

Answer 1

yup - they don't ever seem to factor in
Working more hours than they do
mowing the lawn
changing oil in cars
washing or waxing cars
painting the house
things like that