Marriage & Divorce - 11 July 2006

2006-07-11 04:30:48 · 45 answers · asked by a_poor_misguided_soul 5

I'm just curious, is it natural for men to love a woman and get turned on by her, but still imagine other things while having sex with her such as being in a different environment, with a different woman(one who is not real to you), saying different things, kinkier things? Also if she is giving you oral, do you fantasize about somebody else giving it to you? One guy told me that when he watches porn, he does not fantasize about what he would do with the girls, he doesn't see himself with them, but instead just watching the act is enought to make him organsm...is this true for most men? I'm sorry, I know these are sinsitive issues, but I really do want to know, thanks.

2006-07-11 04:28:15 · 7 answers · asked by candy0813 3

I have been married for almost 5 years. My wife and I were both in the army, she got stationed in Germany, while I got stuck in Texas. We have been separated our entire marriage. During that time, my wife cheated on me NUMEROUS times, and as a result, now has a 2 year old daughter. Now, mind you, after the first time we "officially" separated, I was dating quite frequently as well. I just want some advice on how I should act towards her daughter. Her father is a real scumbag, and was abusive to my wife, quite recently I might add. So he's pretty much out of the picture. What should I do?

2006-07-11 04:26:16 · 10 answers · asked by Wanting to do the right thing 1

I have a 9-5 and so does he, but why do i feel I need to continuously call him through out the day? At the moment I am holding myself not to call him. I enjoy speaking with him every second but the problem is...I call him first all the time. Rarely he calls me first because he knows I will call. We come into work together daily but even after I have settled in for a couple of hours I call him even if it's just to say HI!

2006-07-11 04:26:11 · 17 answers · asked by Lady C 2

If the person is sorry,stopped,regrets it...why do people hate you so much? are they so perfect?especially if you tried to avoid it...I worked with the person,everyday...after being ignored so long(say 10years)was I supposed to just play dead in my marriage?
that's it? don't you feel the other partner has SOME RESPONSABILITY EVEN A LITTLE? he could have remembered my freakin birthday after 13years...but the ones I love best is the woman who says"OH MY HUSBAND DON'T CHEAT ON ME"
HE'S PROBABLY THE WORST ONE !
IT'S NOT LIKE HE'S GOING TO PARADE IT AROUND...

2006-07-11 04:25:34 · 19 answers · asked by NONE 1

This is a sex question. I just wanna know when I put it in, but pull out when I am about to you know what....is this the part when people say its an accident because you don't take it out on time and your stuff gets out on its own with out you knowing?? Would the birth control pill still work. We've only done this like two or three times and I am getting a little nervous. And yes we are both non-disease. This is a really personal question but I just wanna know is there a higher chance of her getting pregnant obviously when I am not protected but is that only when I leave it in her right?? weird and really personal question but really nervous about this. Need some help.

2006-07-11 04:20:56 · 23 answers · asked by 99 ways son 1

2006-07-11 04:19:28 · 19 answers · asked by mom2abigsis 2

I have been married so long,i don't even know what I enjoy anymore...
I'm 28 with 2 kids married over 12 years...someone suggested I take some me time...I'm always wife and mommy...any suggestions?

2006-07-11 04:17:44 · 10 answers · asked by NONE 1

and can you answer anything wrong?

2006-07-11 04:09:17 · 3 answers · asked by Sharp Marble 6

what is the best way to get my wife and my mom to stop using me as a scraching post my wife hate my mom and my mom think she need to see a shrink. both of them are driving me nuts how do you deal with this? anyone have a answer..

2006-07-11 03:59:32 · 22 answers · asked by celticdragon 6

When it come to the children, does she tell you who the kids can be around and where they can go, and EXACTLY what time to pick them up and drop the moff? do you share that responisibilty, or do you always pick up and drop off? do you ever pay her bills even after you pay child support. When she pisses you off do you take it put on your new lady? do you have a say in important decision such as the school the kids go to or how they dress?

How long does it take for a grown man to stop taking orders from his EX WIFE?

2006-07-11 03:57:42 · 13 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4

I have been married for almost 2 years and have been together for almost 5. If i'm not ever wanting sex or anything, do you think that he cheats? Im not suspecting he is or anything because he's always where he says he is and hes usually never away from me, but i just wanted to know what everyone else thinks!

2006-07-11 03:57:03 · 26 answers · asked by Amanda J 2

2006-07-11 03:54:44 · 10 answers · asked by hotdesersand 2

2006-07-11 03:54:13 · 10 answers · asked by Crystal K 2

Currently my husband and I live in a decent 2 bedroom apt w/ heat and hot water inc. We have some noisy neighbors and no yard, but the rent is affordable. And, the apt. nice We were offered a 4 bedroom house by a family friend for the same rent w/o heat hot water inc. We would also have to cut the grass and the house is a little older, we have moved a lot in the last 5 years, but my husand says it's a deal of a lifetime, what do think we should do?
We should be able to swing the heat and h/water

2006-07-11 03:53:22 · 12 answers · asked by GD-Fan 6

My soon to be X is ill, and that's why she is my soon to be X, but it is extemely difficult to co-parent with her cause she doesn't do what's in the best interest of the child and only looks for her own interest. I will soon have joint custody (next month) and I'm afraid that the sh@t will hit the fan cause she absolutley hates me and I honestly don't think she can handle it. It's hard to prove her insanity in court cause she hides it well, plus we already had a psych eval and that didn't do much excetpt mention a little blurb about how she might have a personality disorder. So now what? What is my next step after 50/50?

2006-07-11 03:45:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had an affair 2 years ago but ended it out of guilt.
I have been with my husband over 12 years.
Yes,I've tried talking till I'm blue in the face,cried to him,warned,threatned too...
divorce is not an option,I have children,and I won't take their daddy away for me being selfish.
He's a good man,just not an attentive one,I'm the comfy old recliner to him.
how do I make this feeling go away?
I don't want to feel so lonely and miss the person I had the affair with...(it lasted a year and 3mos)
it ended 2 years ago,but if I wanted I could go "today" and be with this person,but my marriage is more important,my kids.
I just feel like I'm drowning...

2006-07-11 03:45:26 · 9 answers · asked by NONE 1

If men can walk around an cheat, why cant the wife an still not get the crap if we do get caught? We women are too dang nice sometimes. "although if men were real men we wouldnt have to cheat"

2006-07-11 03:43:35 · 29 answers · asked by cafemochamamma@yahoo.com 1

2006-07-11 03:38:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She needs it every day at least 5 times a day. She is insatiable and we have entertained the idea of bringing some more men in to keep up with her. I love the thought of showing off my sexy slutty wife to my buddies. Our latest fantasy is dp. We have been together for 20 yrs and have been completely faithful to eachother. We have a fantastic sex life but are always looking for ways to spice it up? Has anyone else ever had this experience? Have any advice ? Will this ruin marriage. Are there any married couples that have dp'd or where the husband and his buddy did his wife at the same time..how was it >

2006-07-11 03:27:55 · 22 answers · asked by mitchsgirl 2

I met a guy 12 yrs ago. We both are married now. I am separated though. Anyway, we managed to keep in touch off and on moving from different states and when we found each other again 2months ago, we kissed for the first time and made love secretly for 2wks straight off and on. We are still in different states now but he calls me just about everyday. It's just that due to careers and marriage issues (divorce can be dirty finance wise) it's like we dont know what the hell to do but constantly tell each other i love you etc he even asked me why is he so inlove with me. and that he always compared other women to me and none could touch me. he only married his wife because of pregnancy. i dont want my husband and we have our secret little love affair going on. i guess we should wait another 12 yrs????

2006-07-11 03:27:23 · 9 answers · asked by renosgirl2006 4

2006-07-11 03:15:39 · 22 answers · asked by justmetoo 2

My fiance and I have been dating for about three months and we are so much in love. Should we get married this quick or wait a year?

2006-07-11 03:14:39 · 6 answers · asked by bubbles26 4

my husband has been gone for 3 days on a 2 week trip i miss him so much and this is the 1st time we have been away from eachother, i cant keep my mind f him!!help

2006-07-11 03:12:58 · 8 answers · asked by Hillary S 1

I am a married man, I am finding it increasingly diffucult to communicate with my wife, because she is very emotional and I am extremely rational. She says that I am cold-hearted and I tell her that she is too thin skinned. Is there any medium ground for us


Please serious answers only.

2006-07-11 03:11:54 · 13 answers · asked by Michael H 2

I've been single now for about 5 months after a 2 year relationship. Baring in mind she ended it. Till this very day I still think about my ex on the odd occassion and just makes me think if I will ever find love again. I've kept busy etc and have no contact with my ex. I miss having a best friend and the usual things that come into a loving relationship. Just I am so scared it is un-true, I don't know how I can give my heart or trust again. Also will I ever find another girl/f or will I always be comparing with my ex. These little things worry me, but yet I am having a good life at the present. I do have alot of girls who are friend's now who I hang out with. Has anyone been in a similar situation where they don't want to be in love ever again and is to afriad of what is going to happen??

2006-07-11 03:06:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does every problem have to end in divorce, I know sometimes it does but every answer have to be divorce every question I read on here is leave him or her maybe some of the answers might be why don't you seek cousiling or have you sat down and talk things out. We are human people make mistakes. If we were all perfect we wouldn't have the problems we have know. Some people are unforgiving people why? When you mess up would you like someone to forgive you?

2006-07-11 03:04:49 · 13 answers · asked by unlucky 1

2006-07-11 03:01:13 · 8 answers · asked by **What??** 4

for assignment!!! pls reply as fast as posibble!! thank!!

2006-07-11 03:00:45 · 9 answers · asked by alex k 1

2006-07-11 02:56:54 · 33 answers · asked by hotdesersand 2