2006-07-11 03:01:13 · 8 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am already married and needed to know if some things will change.
2006-07-11 03:39:26 · update #1
After married, you will want to have Sex all the time, unless you are on your period, then he wil give you some head. You will always be giving each other company. You will solve problems without acting like babies and leaving each other when a problem come up. Both of you will pay bills together and handle your finances and pay tithes to The Lords Ministry. Nobody can talk down to your soul mate, and you won't let them try. You will cherish every moment together because it is uncertain the day and time that the Lord will call HIM home. So, there is no time for childish attitudes of break ups. Love will carry your marriage through all the good and bad times. ENJOY!
2006-07-12 02:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Everything changes after marriage, the whole dating thing is about romance, the marriage thing is about acceptance. before marriage a guy builds an entire "idealistic world" around how good a provider he is, how good a lover he is, how good an idealist he is. After marriage, guys pretty much expect that the woman already accepts him for what he really is( ? ) and think that the woman is happy with him for what he thinks and says. Guys think a woman will just keep hangin in there even after she finds out that he isnt what he proported to be. Women do the same thing but in a different way. Marriage is just another way to say,..."we have good intentions".......Intentions and actions are two seperate thing though......... life is a real hassle at times,...people shouldnt be taking themselves sooooo seriously, especially when they already know deep down that the ideal situation isnt gonna happen.....a good rule of thumb here is,....."Men marry a woman hoping she will never change, the woman marries a man hoping she can change him"......and if this is true ( and it is ) then people should give their relationships some thought.
2006-07-11 10:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by theoregonartist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't live together now you will soon see a new side of your hubby. Even if you sleep at his place alot there is nothing like living with someone to really see them. I told my friend this before she moved in with her man and she didn't believe me because she slept there every night but sure enough a half of year of living together has changed there relationship and she wants out. If things are great with you then you'll be fine but don't go into it expecting things to get better because it gets worse and now they have papers on you and it's a process to get out. If you have any, I mean any doubts don't do it. Marriage is hard work and even if you love someone that doesn't mean you should get married to them. Just think long and hard before you say i do.
2006-07-11 10:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by nm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think things change after you are married, but then again, they usually do with any kind of relationship. Marriage is work... but just keep working at it. You will find that in the end everything has happend for a reason... and it will be worth all the challenging relationship experiences.
Congratulations!!!
2006-07-12 10:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by LO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joint bank account, learning about how two totally different people live. Like towels on the floor clothes thrown all over there little things that if you tell them what annoys you in the beginning they tend to stop. My biggest adjustment was money learning to be responsible for a car mortgage and other things and not just going shopping. Always do the bills together that way its not on one persons shoulders and you know where you both are .
2006-07-11 10:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quality time spent together, communication, sex, etc. lots of things I hope they dont change for you
2006-07-11 10:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by fungirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spending time with each other, show that peson u love her / him that u want to be with them , alot of sex
2006-07-11 10:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything
2006-07-11 12:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by logisticswizard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋