My wife gets mad at simple things. How can I change that?

Answer 1

i can sympathise with you, i get angry over no reason with my man, just be patient and when shes in a godo mood tell her that ithurts your feelings, and if she can get a messege across without getting angry, thats what my man does to me. it helps alot.

Answer 2

Hey what's up man? Now if you want her to stop getting madd over little things then you just do the little things that you know make her happy. Cause trust me women all get themselves all work up over nothing that's just the way some women are not all but a majority of them will, if they feel they are not getting enough attention sometime that's what it is. she feel's like you are not paying attention to what she wants. don't worry this is something every man goes through with a women just lisen to what she has to say and try to help with the solution. I know as a man you don't want to hear the SH** but you have to in order to let her express her self. One other thing try and ask a simple question like how was your day baby and she will go on and on just nod your head like ok for real so basically don't any men lisen just act like you are and everything should be ok.

Answer 3

You can't change her. She is the only one that can do that. maybe she has an emotional problem. my husband has bipolar. he gets irritated very easy. he needs medication to control it. the only way to tell is by getting her to a doctor. do you think that you could get her to go?
I would also take a look at what the home environment is like. Is she truely happy? is there something going on there that could make her depressed? How well does she deal with the kids? does she feel that you help out enough? Does she feel comfortable enough to talk to you? These are questions that you should ask her before dragging her to the doctor. Try to communicate with her first. Don't be defensive when she gets upset. Be willing to take a look inside of yourself if she says that her problem is in fact you. Then work on it together!

Answer 4

I use to throw a fit over simple annoyances. I finally said enough is enough. I went to the doctor and spoke with him. We did blood work and sure enough, my blood sugar was out of control. Sounds silly doesn't it. Almost as if this shouldn't have been the root of things, but it was.
I also grew up in what some call a picture perfect house. Look in any magazine and you'll see what I mean. People lived there, but you'd never know it.. I was not use to things being so out of place .. then we had sons . :)

Answer 5

If she got mad at little things before you were married...you're stuck pal. If this is new, you two have issues. Sometimes one side of a relationship loses interest and all the "little things" are no longer little. If you can work it out...go for it. Don't confront her though...who wants the drama? And besides, if she is unhappy, its another problem. Ask what has changed...go from there. If you can't figure it out, or she isn't helping to bring it back together...get a good lawyer...and remember that you loved her. be nice.

Answer 6

did you ever stop to think that is not the simple things? Are you around much? Do you tell her she gorgeous? Or do you just sit around doing nothing? Theres big things that led to those little things, and the reason i tell you this is because I'm going through the same thing, its the big things hes NOT doing that makes me explode on the smallest things he does.. just treat her like the queen and he will change but also talk to her and let her know that this is bothering you. you must make her aware of what she is doing too, you are not the only one that needs to make a change because you will eventually get sick of it too. Good luck

Answer 7

Life is too short to get mad at the simple things. Sounds like she's really upset about something else and takes it out this way.

Answer 8

Do you love your wife? I hope you do... men need to realize that it is the simple things in life that are important!
What seems simple to you may be very important to your wife...like saying " I love you", or tell her she is beatiful at random moments, some times even in the most secure relationships, women still need to hear the words! Talk to your wife!

Answer 9

You can never, no matter how hard you try, change another person. Sounds like she has underlying problems/anger that make her unhappy, until she changes herself/her attitude, because she wants to, she will always get mad at little things. Ask her if talking to a professional will help. but when she is in a good mood, never try to talk to her about this when she is upset, it will only make matters worse. GOOD LUCK. Hang in there

Answer 10

Wow, I leave a piece of paper lying on the table or don't fill up the toilet paper shelf and I get reamed for it. I do all the dishes, do all the vacuuming, dusting, and earn over a hundred grand a year. And she still wants a divorce. Anyone want a relationship like this? I'm about to walk out.

Answer 11

I used to be the same way with my hubby, and to be honest your wife will NOT change unless she wants to. I changed for myself and for my hubby but it took a long time, and that is because it took me long to realize that I needed to change. So there is really nothing you can do, your wife has to do it on her own, and trust me when I say it will be hard for her at least for a while. Hang in there and things will hopefully get better.