Marriage & Divorce - 11 July 2006

2006-07-11 02:54:29 · 28 answers · asked by ~ ! BabyGirl ! ~ 1

We share every thought openly and honestly.
One more thing, i was going through a bad phase,a kind of depression, when we met 3yrs back.
Today i am strong and self confident.
Sometimes I think his love and guidance had brought me back from a hopeless state.
Whenever he tried to FADE away-I kind of slid back into depression and destructive behavior.
I keep telling him that my marriage will be tough for him.
last week, i offered to remain unmarried for life-to keep our relationship going,to avoid hurting him...But on many occasions i have a very strong urge to get married...get beautiful status of happily married woman in the society. If i ask him to marry me-he will readily agree after providing good money for his family.
Q:What should we do?should i quit this relationship?when and how?

2006-07-11 02:51:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-11 02:31:51 · 27 answers · asked by samantha s 1

if a man is well off and worked hard all his life to get what he has, then gets married and things don't work out by no fault of either the husband or wife do you think its right that she gets half of their assets? or even alimony?

2006-07-11 02:30:03 · 10 answers · asked by murfeezlaw 4

I have told her several times to leave and she refuses, I am ready to get on with my life

2006-07-11 02:29:41 · 32 answers · asked by Scott Y 1

We had an argument and he punched me on the nose.Does it happen in a marriage.Its only been 2 weeks since we've been married.What can i do to make him love me more.Iam from ohio.Thank you.

2006-07-11 02:25:25 · 28 answers · asked by cute chick 2

I dont personally know his boss. I dont trust my partner because of previous experiences. And when he returns from his trip out of town he acts funny when his back home. I cannot do anything, I cant have friends or my own space yet he can come and go when ever he wants. He treats me like I am his kid. I dont know, theres something about him I feel that he may have done something, he lies alot too. I dont know what I should do. I need to seriously think about going out on my own. Only thing is we have to school aged children to think of. He wont leave home and wont let me have the kids. I cant comprise with him on things. Its all his way or nothing.

2006-07-11 02:24:13 · 4 answers · asked by Kiki 1

I have been married for 4 years now and I am constantly cleaning up after her. We live in a 2 bedroom apt. She leaves her stuff every where. I am always telling her to clean up her own stuff. When there is a load of wash that is done in the dryer she will take out her clothes and fold them and leave mine there. When there are dishes in the dishwasher, she will take out our son's cups and leave the rest of the stuff in there for me to put away. She doest vacuum or clean around the house. Then when I goto do it I have attitude because she doesnt help me and she then will ask why am I so crabby. I tell her because you dont help me to try and keep our place neat and I am tired of cleaning up after you all of the time. She leaves bags on the table that she brought from a store for weeks til I have to put it on her side of the bed so she gets the picture to put it away. She will take the tags off of her clothes and leave them around. I find them every where. Any suggestions....

2006-07-11 02:22:20 · 19 answers · asked by Shocker3:16 3

i think not true love here . this is just Attraction.

2006-07-11 01:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by javed cool147 1

Hes on chat talking to girls but as a girl and looks at there pic (thay have nothing on) but he tells me that he can meet them so its not nothing.But i feel like when we make love he is thinking about them.What do u think?

2006-07-11 01:56:49 · 27 answers · asked by ksam73 1

Have you ever called out the wrong name while making love? How did you recover from this, did your partner notice and what did he/she say or do?

2006-07-11 01:45:37 · 21 answers · asked by BigTyme 2

I feel we just co-exist, I tried to explain how I feel calmly, and lovingly. All he does is after work turns on the TV. he just doesn't get it. I was told ,he has emotionaly divorced me, but loves me dearly. I.m comfussed and heartbroken. WE have been married for 13 years. have always gotten along. For a year now, he hasn't spend time with me or talk. I love him and, and I've never have been a nagging wife., he just doesn't understand what it is with all woman. I'm at a lose here. He told me he doesn't know how to seperate his feelings. Am I expecting to much? He say's theres no problem, it's me. Help me to understand this. IS this normal in a marriage at some point.after being together so long. Iv'e been sick a while now and I sometimes feel it gets to him. What to do? Im not insecure at all. and never have been. How do you handle this? Plus he tells me i'm the perfect house wife. But still the distance hurts. Theres no childern in the home either. Will it pass? Any advice please?

2006-07-11 01:45:28 · 6 answers · asked by RAINBOW 3

I left a man high in the media who treated me like a princess and wanted a future with me because of my children and the distance between us when my most recent bf proposed marriage. My sons are happy, we are struggling emotionally and I know that a large part of this is my inability to get over him and possibly having regrets. How on earth do I move forward...

2006-07-11 01:39:25 · 3 answers · asked by christine p 1

I asked my gf to marry me but at the time we were having some problems that led to her leaving. She came back and wants t work things out. I was drinking at the time I asked her the first time but am in a recovery program now. I love this girl with every part of my being and want to spend the rest of her life (she was recently diagnosed with a terminal illness) doing whatever I can to make her feel as special as she is. She is a very unique woman. she will do anything in her power to help someone and give selflessly of herself everyday. She can't have children because she had cancer a very young age. I am a single dad and this woman has made a tremendous difference in both our lives. I have never met anyone with that much loving kindness.
I WANT TO MARRY HER! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-07-11 01:37:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I was an idiot. not just in my behavior, but this girl is so special/ perfect I cannot believe she is willing to give me another chance. I screwed up in a big way and am making changes t rectify that. I have been going to AA every night and counseling with the pastor of our church. she says she is willing to give our relationship another chance but she seems so distant. like she's not even hearing me when we talk. i am afraid that she may be having second thoughts and doesn't feel she can follow through with this. what else can I do to prove my love and devtion to her? help me.
I already feel like hell because of how I mistreated her and disresected her. she is going through so much right now and when she needed me all i did was make her feel like crap. See, she just got diagnosed with a terminal illness and I couldn't bear to deal with the idea of her going through this and went on a drinking binge. the whole while she continued/ continues to put everyones need before her ow

2006-07-11 01:27:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am wanting to move on with my life and I was wondering if I will be single the rest of my life or do men date women that have children? Even a male friend would be nice.

2006-07-11 01:25:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband who i have been married to for 10 yrs recently went for a course and there was this lady there who became close and since then have been msging and emailing each other... i have met her before during the graduation ... she is quite attractive so i feel very insecured now... i questioned my hubby abt this but he just said im paranoid and need to change my mind set....shoul i trust and just leave it alone... i dont know what to do...

2006-07-11 01:23:03 · 8 answers · asked by sexy 1

wondering

2006-07-11 01:13:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-11 00:58:39 · 16 answers · asked by Rodney 2

If the man wants a break up, woman have to let go!
If the man needs something, woman has to give.
If the man fails, woman most is to blame..
Why let us feel the pain?

2006-07-11 00:41:31 · 24 answers · asked by zamora_maricel 1

Me and my husband know each other for 10years, married for 3 and divorce for 6 months. We have a little girl (2) together. I divorced him after having another relationship. He got full custody of our girl because I was in a "bad place" at that time. I went back to him and we are living togehter for 4 months again. I struggle to warm up to him and wants to spent all my time with my daugter. He is fed up and is putting a lot of pressure on me to be more warm towards him. After I recovered from my drug addiction 4 months ago I am having trouble in this relationship. Somethimes I just feel like leaving and starting my own life. But then i will not see my girl so mush. We are very close. Any advise??

2006-07-11 00:39:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I planned to dump her yesterday anyways!!! But then we ended up shagging because the looming break-up made me somehow really horny. Whilst she was on top I accidentally called her the name of the other bird I've been boning. She went absolutely berserk - Why?
Slip of my tongue.... She's now convinced I'm seeing somebody else. But that's not true !!!!! I'm just having meaning less sex with the other girl, which unfortunately is her brothers teenage daughter. Luckily she didn't make that connection, yet.... WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW????

2006-07-11 00:34:19 · 17 answers · asked by DodgyDave 1

2006-07-11 00:21:05 · 12 answers · asked by Richo Fev 5

2006-07-11 00:16:11 · 13 answers · asked by chaku 1

I am 26 years old and my husband is 32. I have tried everything that I can think of to make this work. We have an eight year old daughter and a baby on the way. Our relationship has been complicated for a couple years now. He works offshore in the oil field and is gone all of the time. When he is home all he wants to do is call his friends on the phone and get on the computer. The last time he was home out of 2 weeks we only spent 3 hrs total together. I am on complete bed rest due to a complicated pregnancy. I need him more than ever now but he just isn't having it. He would rather be out spending money. (or even online). I am getting to that point in my life that I am getting really lonely and don't know what to do. I have brought the issue up but he doesn't care. I just don't know if I can start over now on my own with 2 children. I wouldn't even know how to go about starting a new relationship. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2006-07-11 00:13:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to be 25 of Friday and have been divorced for 2 years.
Men - Would you be less attracted to woman that was married and divorced before she hit 30? Does it make it look like she has an inability to commit or perhaps too much emotional baggage?
If yes, why; if no, same thing (why that is). I

2006-07-11 00:08:35 · 21 answers · asked by Axiomatic.Semantics 2

2006-07-11 00:03:14 · 5 answers · asked by usha r 1