Hes on chat talking to girls but as a girl and looks at there pic (thay have nothing on) but he tells me that he can meet them so its not nothing.But i feel like when we make love he is thinking about them.What do u think?
2006-07-11 01:56:49 · 27 answers · asked by ksam73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
are you saying he pretends to be a girl while chatting with other girls? thats a little odd
why don't you chat online with other guys while pretending to be a guy and see how he likes it :-)
ohhh and if that is your chest i would NEVER be online talking to other girls!
2006-07-11 02:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by murfeezlaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will Ladies and Gents...It would be like saying once you get married you can't do what u use to do when u were single-ex--->watch porn, read porn magazines etc etc.Because all of that is Fantasizing and it can all escalate to something more.So there's no right or wrong answer.?.It all depends on how your relationship is with your husband...Meaning if you two are down with having alil mental fun it's ok because fantasizing is healthy in a marriage!But only you would kno your husband so noone can really give u the right advice.Use this situation for a positive=why don't both of you have fun with this no?Ex...let him do his chatting with certain condition that u have access to all chat msg's and then u guys can fullfill eachothers fantasy's.Because sometimes relationships jus lacks alil FUN and maybe this is his way of asking you to spice up your guys relationship.Good Luck!!:-)
2016-03-27 00:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does'nt sound healthy to me. I'm no expert but that sounds kind of weird. If this bothers you alot perhaps you can try talking about it. Good relationships are built on good communication. As for him thinking about them while making love. Who knows what the other person is thinking during love making. But I would sit down with him and have a serious talk.
2006-07-11 02:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just go on a chat as a men and look at their naked picture. Then judge his reaction. Personally i dont think hes doing anything wrong. Just having fun in some odd way. Either he'll grow tired of it or if you confront him more often about it he might stop since he will see taht it bothers you.
2006-07-11 02:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to understand you. You are a puzzle to him. So he ask other girls or chat with them just to get things clear for himself. He is not going after them. He wants to know what it is being a woman. I'm sounding positive. The negative is, he might be crazy if that chest is yours.
2006-07-11 02:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds pretty normal. Im going to assume he wears ur lipstick and other items of yours as a matter of course.
Get this guy some help!!
2006-07-11 04:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Tim M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy needs some serious help, that's the problem with the internet, it's to easy to deceive people and become addicted to this kind of crap
2006-07-11 02:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by heartless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it just goes with the fantasy of two women being together that most men have.
If they have "cyber sex" this could explain it.
If that's not it... then he has a real problem.
I would have to ask him.... couldn't just let that one go.
2006-07-11 02:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by sweethvn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't he be himself? Is he ashamed of who he is? Does he like lying to people and remember that if he is lying to others he is more then likely lying to you too. Ask him these ?'s. It's not the right thing for him to be doing.
2006-07-11 02:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jim L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him straight to get of it and stop talking to other girls and spend time with his wife, either that i would get rid of the computer if he looking at other girls naked then he obviously doesnt care about u SORT HIM OUT
2006-07-11 02:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋