I dont personally know his boss. I dont trust my partner because of previous experiences. And when he returns from his trip out of town he acts funny when his back home. I cannot do anything, I cant have friends or my own space yet he can come and go when ever he wants. He treats me like I am his kid. I dont know, theres something about him I feel that he may have done something, he lies alot too. I dont know what I should do. I need to seriously think about going out on my own. Only thing is we have to school aged children to think of. He wont leave home and wont let me have the kids. I cant comprise with him on things. Its all his way or nothing.
2006-07-11 02:24:13 · 4 answers · asked by Kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please find yourself a really good counsellor and make an appointment soon. You have lots of issues to find your way through and some help for you while you make your way through it all is a good idea.
Best of Luck
2006-07-17 22:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing u do not deserve to get treated this way. Why are u allowing him to do this to you? I know you are probably saying that you don't allow him to do this, but when he does things like this and you just sit around and not stand up to him, then no wonder he is controlling you. The best thing for you and your children is to leave. Your children are seeing how he treats you and are going to probably grow up and treat their spouse the same way. That is no kind of environment for you or your children to be living in. And I hate to say this but if your husband is accusing you of sleeping with his boss, then i think he is the guilty one. If you don't trust him and you are unhappy with the way you are forced to live your life, then move on and get out before things get worse.
2006-07-11 03:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo sounds a hella lot like a control issue, and u need to get out while u can. i know from experience. u may say, well its ok now, i mean he isnt that bad. but trust me, get out while u cant. dont trap urself or ur children
2006-07-11 02:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM SORRY BUT I THINK THERE IS PROBABLY SOME DETAILS MISSING BUT
U NEED COUNSELING
2006-07-11 02:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋