I am going to be 25 of Friday and have been divorced for 2 years.
Men - Would you be less attracted to woman that was married and divorced before she hit 30? Does it make it look like she has an inability to commit or perhaps too much emotional baggage?
If yes, why; if no, same thing (why that is). I
2006-07-11 00:08:35 · 21 answers · asked by Axiomatic.Semantics 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is nothing to be embarrassed about being divorced. It is a really unfortunate ordeal and some divorce can be really unpleasant but it's happening everywhere.
As a guy, the only thing I'd be worry about is emotional baggage. It would be unfair to say that you have an inability to commit because we dint know the who ole story. But emotional baggage can really prevent you from moving on and meeting the real Mr. right.
So I guess that you should let the guys know that you're really OVER your ex-husband.
2006-07-11 00:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
As a guy I would say yes. If a guy knows that you were divorced it makes him think "If she divorced once, who sasy she won't do it again". You make it look like you are using the next guy as a second attempt to try and make a relationship work. Not very tempting. If I were you I would go for a divorced guy. But it probably won't work anyways. And why did you divorce in the first place? Did you cheat? Because then a guy will most definitley NOT want to marry you again. Once a cheater always a cheater. Can't turn a ho into a housewife.
2006-07-11 00:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not necessary that u click with ur husband.its better to say good bye than to suffer and cry.if it goes 4 u then it also goes 4 a guy who's divorced.i would be equally attracted to u and i dont think u r unable to commit.one failure doesnt mean u'll fail again but i feel that after a failuer u r better prepared next time. after every bad phase comes a good phase.dont give up.start afresh.just try 2 4get those sore memories.i wish u good luck darling.god bless u.
2006-07-11 00:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by trustadevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be embarrassed about it, people get divorced every day. Don't worry about what other people think. There are many reasons why people get divorced, and it's really no ones business. You don't even have to go into explicit detail if you ever decide to get married again. Just say irreconcilable differences.
2006-07-11 00:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, we don't like divorced. how i can be sure you will be reliable ? ofcourse you might be, but since marriage is a great important issue in my life, why i should take risk. Well if you want to go for a unmarried guy, you must have some extra ordiranry proof that you are reliable enough, to be better thought as a virgin.
2006-07-11 00:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by joy_csharp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally dont care about it what ever is in the past should stay there. Specially with a person as beautiful I would not be thinking about that. and by the way happy b-day I wanted to be the first one to tell you that. just in case I dont talk to you then. But call me OK bye.
2006-07-11 01:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't see her any differently, unless it came to light that she had slept around on her husband. But I would believe her if she said that she had changed. I would try to help her with her emotional baggage, if she had any.
2006-07-11 00:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by Raistlin H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No , its need lots of courage to take this type of step , and it can not be emotional , it comes out from sufferings , emotional black mail games etc etc . You can not or should not feel guilty , one can not decide , its comes out from mutual agreement , so you are not responsible and can not be branded .
2006-07-11 00:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all for me it would show that you are sure of whta you have done that you dont have anything attached to you as far as an xdude and that you are living life to the fullest,and if you would give the chance to a guy then you would know your not messsing around
2006-07-11 01:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by vito194 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on who divorce who. If you divorced him your ok. if he divorced you then another man will wonder if your worth the time
2006-07-11 00:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋