Marriage & Divorce - 11 July 2006

I am married. I've know my husband for 3 years. We just got married about 5 weeks ago.
Last night, we were watching TV. He had gas and decided to pull his pants down and try to light the fart with a lighter.
Needless to say, the fart didn't light but he instead farted out some sh*t , all over our couch and on his pants.
I felt like I was taking care of a baby. When he acts like this I feel stupid for marrying him. We're both in our early 20's
This i not a joke. But am I wrong to feel dumb for marrying him?

2006-07-11 09:09:51 · 22 answers · asked by Courtney T 2

a settlement conference? Is custody an issue that comes up in a settlement conference? With her past I suspect she will do nearly anything to avoid the CFI as he has the ability to subpoena her medical records. I am seeking cusody of our son, I would prefer that the CFI make that determination. Any answers?

2006-07-11 09:01:09 · 4 answers · asked by oythebumbler 1

i want to get married and have a kid, but my boyfriend doesnt want to. we love eachother, and he says he wants these things, but wants me to wqait till i am like 30 till we do any of this. i think that having a kid and getting married will bring us closer and help us out. why doesnt he want to walk the walk and all he does is talk the talk. how do i get him to listen to me?

2006-07-11 09:00:33 · 17 answers · asked by luvly_lady3426 1

What I mean is, all men seem to think with their penis and I am sick of it.
Are their even any men who want to do more with life other than ****?
My man is only nice to me when he is going to get some, otherwise he could care less what I say or do.
Your age.

2006-07-11 08:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by GTZEVRYTHNG 1

I am married to a man who is a hard working, smart individual. He says he loves me very much, but he is killing me inside. He is the type person who is always looking ahead...always trying to plan for the future. While this is a great thing to do, I seem to always get the short end of the stick during the transition. I love being able to stay at home with my kids, but I am ready to go back to work and regain some independence. But every time I try to do this, my ideas seem to get shot down. I am losing faith in myself and spiraling further and further into a depression. We fight all the time and have had problems like this since we got married 4 years ago. Although he always says it's temporary, I don't see the light at the end of the tunnel.
So I guess my question is, how long is too long? When do I say it's enough?

2006-07-11 08:46:46 · 36 answers · asked by ferfer 2

Has your parents ever disapproved on the person you were to marry and you got married anyway? Are you still on good terms with your parents?

2006-07-11 08:46:23 · 10 answers · asked by youdontknowme 3

If you are a married woman who is currently having an affair or has had an affair, what was the reason you for having the affair? Since women are the gender that are the more committed and are more family oriented and loyal, why did you have an affair? I'm getting married soon and want to make sure I do that right things and stay away from the wrong things so my future Mrs. will be happy and won't see a relationship outside of ours.

2006-07-11 08:43:34 · 19 answers · asked by tugmuck 1

my spirit cries out for you
But you refuse to listen;
With every beat of my heart
It calls your name;

I gave all of my love
my heart my spirit my soul
You were my one
The only one

When I was with you
You gave me life.
With out you in mine
Life means nothing;

I gave to you a child
you took her away
so how would you react
if you felt this way

2006-07-11 08:42:45 · 14 answers · asked by bigblock_475_hp d 2

My hubbys ex girlfriend who before he meet me he was in love with. She treated him like crap and used him, he has told me. so she owes him like $6000.00. And he has tried to get the money from her for 2 yrs now, and nothing...so he decided one night that he is going to text with her, and she is being obviously flirtuous... she sends him "sexual pictures" and he didnt bother to tell me, I had to find them, then I found that when she sent them he said they where "nice pics" he sys he only said that to get the money from her....what do u think? They talked about everything under the sun EXCEPT me! and he said he did this because he didnt want her to be in our business!

2006-07-11 08:42:17 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4

Have you had, and if you did have your husband perform analingus on you, did you like it, nad what did it mean to you.

I think the spelling is right?

2006-07-11 08:37:08 · 9 answers · asked by Andy S 3

want u to go out alone....I have to make visitaion for my yougest child who is 4 mo, and my hubby doesnt like the fact that i have to travel an hour for this, him and the babys dad dislike eachother..alot! the babsy dad is still intrested in me, and my hubby is insecure about this. Just because he is still intreseted in me doent change the fact that my daughter has visition! So I know he is insecure I feel bad for this but I have to still go along with the visitaion. Oh the babys dad has it set up so my hubby cant be around when I do the drop off! SO it takes an hour for the visitaion both ways, so and she goes for 6 hrs, and I dont want to waste gas..and we dont have the money. So instead of coming back I have visited with family that lives there, and my hubby is unhappy with that. Also on occasion I have stayed longer and talked with the babys dad and his family, which I think isnt terrible, but I realize this upsets him..what should OI do? put his feelings 1st ?

2006-07-11 08:35:45 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4

I have met the love of my life! Things are great between us but there is something that worries me... he is seven years older than me and I am afraid that one day that will end our relationship. I love him so much and we are expecting a baby boy in august. Is it crazy that I fear our age difference will tear us apart?

2006-07-11 08:33:07 · 8 answers · asked by Angela 1

2006-07-11 08:31:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i are set to have a threesome with his best friend on saturday. He picked the guy, i wanted someonewe were not so close to. he talks to his friend all the time and they hang out alot. they are just like brothers. I'm starting to have second thoughts because i don't want this sex thing to come between the two of them. I have asked my husband over and over again if he is still okay with it, but he says he is fine and everything will be cool, but i wonder if that just his ego talking. So should i call it off or go ahead with it and hope for the best?

2006-07-11 08:26:32 · 17 answers · asked by frsttmshy 2

Is it posible to love 2 people. Well the reason I ask is because I am married but I am cheating. I love my husband but I think I also love the other guy. They are total and complete opposite. I love my husband he is cute, hard working, does not drink or smoke, and responsible. The other guy is not that cute, smokes, but super romantic and sweet. I am confused what do I do.

2006-07-11 08:22:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems that more marriages don't last now a days. Why do you think this happens?? Are the couples just getting married to show that there doing the right thing??? Why does it seem they can't seem to work out there issues? Are there getting married because they fall in love with the idea of such a commitment instead of falling in love first?
Has this happen to you??? You think you could of put more effort into making it work??

2006-07-11 08:20:01 · 19 answers · asked by brina27 2

I find it sad that even though there are plenty of places that perverts can go and do whatever they have to choose here also. Maybe some of us really want serious Q's & A's. Anyone agree???

2006-07-11 08:18:15 · 17 answers · asked by Doll 2

i have found atleast 4 pairs of womens underwear in my house in the last 3 months and i know its not cause he is cheating because i know whose underwear they are i have also found pictures of my female friends and family made into collages right along with the panties....how common is it for a married man to steal other womens underwear...im not bad looking i am 25 years old and 110 lbs we have a fairly active sex life and he has never asked anything odd or freakish of me he is not the player type and is fairly shy but we have been together for 11 years and married for 3 years..he says it has nothing to do with me but he cant seem to tell me why?? He has also developed a methamphetamine habit in the last year that i am dealing with as well and dont know if this type of behavior could be related to drug use or not ?? please help before i file for divorce i am extremely hurt by all of this!!!

2006-07-11 08:15:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you've been told that a child is yours, and then you've been told that weather it's yours or not, the mother is going to sign a document stating that she has no clue who the father is (not that i've ever heard of such a document) then turns around after finding out that you're pulling 2 jobs to support your [now] wife and other 2 kids, then she states that it is your child, then what is the best form of action to take and in the event she does sign such a document, how can you fix that in terms of in the event it is my husband's? Any help would be most appreciated.

2006-07-11 08:15:19 · 9 answers · asked by Young mom of 4 2

I admit to making mistakes in the past in my marriage, I used to watch porn when my wife had stated she was against it but lied about it. I don't have a gambling problem but a zest for the thrill of the straight on the river. I have lied about whether I had a certain amount of money on my Visa when I really did because of online gambling. I have 2 kids that I want to be with till their gone and married themselves and see my grandchildren. My wife has since shut me out completely and seems to have given up on us, I want to fix what's wrong, I want to work on me to make her happy again but she is not responsive to any request to seek counseling or a mediator. I just want my family back, I am not living in my house right now, I am staying with friends from work and I feel more and more empty inside everyday. I just wish someone has some positive input for me and my wife to work on this and make us a family again!

2006-07-11 08:05:47 · 13 answers · asked by dlbonhomme 1

He is for sure my best friend, I love spending time with him, and our everyday lives together are really great The problem is that I find myself daydreaming about other people, and I have actually cheated on him. The worst part of that is that i don't feel all that guilty about the cheating. I do'nt want to leave him, because we do have a great life together... but is it fair to him to stay even though i think of him as more of a friend than anything else?

2006-07-11 08:03:58 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-11 08:00:54 · 49 answers · asked by hotdesersand 2

My husband is 30 years old. He was diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes, a few years ago. Recently, he has completely lost his sex drive. Is this normal with Diabetes AND is there a Specialist that could help him?

2006-07-11 07:59:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not for gay marrige becasue a line has to be drawn or why have rules at all. So I used the example of Cousins, pets and people desire to marry them. Sure enough Gay people and gay supporters tell me Thats morally wrong, Cousins should never be allowed to get married and its not the same thing. But same sex relationships thats totally ok. So it' ok for you to think some relationships are morally wrong but if My Hetero opinion doens't agree with yours I'm wrong . Not even close. All I'm saying is if we Lets gays marry why discriminate on anyone else. Your not that special, Cousins and sh** like that has been going on as long as Your relationships so why not give them rights to. Thats terrible that Gay supporters and Gay people would even look down that, arent you being what you tell Heteros not to be. My point is , don't tell me what I should accept and what I shouldn't cause you don't like it when when it happens to you.

2006-07-11 07:53:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi my husband birthday is coming up he will be 22 we don't drink or smoke, and i don't now what to do i whant to make something really special for him have any ideas thank you for your help. It will be the 28th of this month so i need to start planning. Thanks

2006-07-11 07:49:48 · 15 answers · asked by SunFlower 2

2006-07-11 07:47:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

keep in mind that we are all human beings!

2006-07-11 07:46:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-11 07:42:32 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-11 07:36:13 · 4 answers · asked by skurgan1976 1

2006-07-11 07:36:13 · 6 answers · asked by mocherie32 1