My hubbys ex girlfriend who before he meet me he was in love with. She treated him like crap and used him, he has told me. so she owes him like $6000.00. And he has tried to get the money from her for 2 yrs now, and nothing...so he decided one night that he is going to text with her, and she is being obviously flirtuous... she sends him "sexual pictures" and he didnt bother to tell me, I had to find them, then I found that when she sent them he said they where "nice pics" he sys he only said that to get the money from her....what do u think? They talked about everything under the sun EXCEPT me! and he said he did this because he didnt want her to be in our business!
2006-07-11 08:42:17 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my hubby said cause we where two states away this makes a difference! I dont think it does!
2006-07-11 08:55:08 · update #1
Your husband has to want to get rid of her. Because if he doesn't it doesn't matter how many times you complain he will find a way to communicate with her. You can only appeal to his sensitive side and ask him politely to do it for your relationship. If you give him an order he will be sure to disobey it. And don't try telling her what to do because she doesn't care anything about you. He's her interest, not you. Get him to handle his business. Try asking him why he hasn't ended his relationship with her. Their relationship could be strickly platonic until you leave him!
2006-07-12 02:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore about her. do not imagine of it and it will be fantastic. purely keep your suggestions and heart on your hubby no longer that ex. cope including your hubby properly, no shouting or nagging at him. you're at his aspect no longer that ex. My husband ex always deliver sweet sms to my husband in spite of the indisputable fact that she's married, i informed my husband few circumstances yet no longer some thing have replaced. So i purely keep myself close up, each and everything is settled.
2016-12-01 02:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are a lot better ways of getting money that is owed to you than this. If he has not been honest with you about this, than maybe there are some old flames trying to rekindle. And to leave you out of the conversation, that's bad. He should have a lot more respect for you than that.
2006-07-11 08:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by blondie7795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to jump at this situation.. This is BAD. Tell him to forget about the money and you will take care of it. Get her #'s from him and you be the one she communicates with about the money. YOU are his wife.. My God.. get the 6000 yourself if you have to by cleaning houses or something.. to get this ho out of the picture. Seriously, tell your hubby that he should have no more communication with this girl.. it is all in your hands now.
2006-07-11 08:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by LJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's full of it. He knew she wasn't going to all of a sudden decide to pay him back after 2 years. What he should of sent her was a law suit if what he says is even true.
2006-07-11 08:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forbide him to talk to her. Don't worry about the money. She cleary wants to lure him away as a power move.
2006-07-11 08:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by AleJunkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOSE HIM!
HE WANTS HIS EX BACK AND HE WANTS TO **** HER.
If my man did this I would let them have eah other, you dont deserve this disrespect.
I would be SOOOO PISSSED!
I hate my mans ex with a passsion and cant wait till she dies!
2006-07-11 08:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by GTZEVRYTHNG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋