Is it posible to love 2 people. Well the reason I ask is because I am married but I am cheating. I love my husband but I think I also love the other guy. They are total and complete opposite. I love my husband he is cute, hard working, does not drink or smoke, and responsible. The other guy is not that cute, smokes, but super romantic and sweet. I am confused what do I do.
2006-07-11 08:22:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Grow up... and get some counseling. Good luck.
2006-07-11 08:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and face that fact that your a cheater!!! and would hate to be your husband. If you loved him you would not be cheating on him. You need to face the fact you cant have your cake and eat it to and don't use love as your excuse to see another man. You need to tell your husband and if he will still have you leave the other man alone and save your marriage. If not get a divorce and keep seeing the other man.. But you better pray that you don't end up with someone doing the same thing to you someday.
2006-07-11 08:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by nclonewolf1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK hon....no matter how good the *other* guy is...you need to stop your affair with him and concentrate on your husband! C'mon girl...you know this. I think you need to stop and put yourself in your husbands shoes..how would you feel if the role was reversed and he was saying these things? I mean, do you really want to hurt him this way? I really doubt you do, you probably just got carried away and found yourself here....
So stop.
2006-07-11 08:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your husband that you are cheating and he will make the decision for you, its not that great to admit to cheating but you should tell your husband before telling the world. It is possible to love 2 men if you are willing to hurt both of them at some point.
2006-07-11 08:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by T agent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you stupid for doing that becasue why didn't you though about it before you married that guy... now you putting your husband feel like he not good enough for you... and If I were you tell your husband that you have cheated on him bleieve me and he will want divorce and you will soon found out that second guy you think he good for you is not becasue you are dumb ***. If you were my wife I make sure I destroy your life make sure good deep pay back. Grow up.... you married him becasue you love him and now you don't you confused?????????
2006-07-11 08:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that. be sure before you leave cant be positive he'll be there in the future. it might just be the excitement of the new guy, makes you feel good says what he wants you to here but when you the ex with another girl thats when you will know your true feeling. be the way me and the ex the one i left are now engaged. think it through and good luck
2016-03-15 22:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been married?? You may love your husband, but you don't sound like you respect him, or yourself....You are going to be hurt no matter what you do. I wish you luck....Maybe you aren't ready for marriage, too bad you found out too late.
2006-07-11 08:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in the same situation .. you need to stay with your husband and pray that he never finds out about the other guy... you probably only see the other guy once in awhile how much do u really know about him? i think you are in love with the idea of him. only you can make the choice but i ended up staying with my husband and even though it was hard to let go of the other guy i am happier with my husband than we have ever been.
2006-07-11 08:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is and I have the same problem and I don't even know what to do but if having both of them makes you happy then go for it!!
2006-07-11 08:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by ~Ms Eli~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop cheating and be true to the promises YOU made to you and your husband in your wedding vows.
2006-07-11 08:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋