If the man wants a break up, woman have to let go!
If the man needs something, woman has to give.
If the man fails, woman most is to blame..
Why let us feel the pain?
2006-07-11 00:41:31 · 24 answers · asked by zamora_maricel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Interesting observation that one; however, certain points that can add another dimension to the entire subject: inherently it is a known fact that most women sacrifice their well being or state of happiness. But thats not the case always, its most of the times as i indicated.
How much ever you may dispute its got a lot to do with human nature; as per Men are from Mars Women are from Venus, it is written that "Men prove their superiority over women by claiming to be experts" - which to my mind is horrocks! Offering solutions without even getting a background of the situation is viewing the glass half empty.
Suggest you go through Steven Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective people wherein you can relate to your subject of interest as posed in the question. Being interdependent is a higher virtue than independence. Consider public victory as you pass through private victory.
Most of the questions posed from you are quite clever though there cant be one straight response: do this and you will get this. As per Bhagvad Gita - Always Do your Act but never expect any fruits orresults!
Go Ahead..indulge!
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2006-07-11 00:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by ][[[V i B e $]]][ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a history of poor relationships. What you're talking about is individual attitude. If you feel you are sacrificing to maintain a relationship, then get out of the relationship. Relationships should be fun and mutually enjoyable. Sacrifice shouldn't be a word in the vocabulary of a good relationship. What an outsider may view as "sacrifice" may be viewed by the person doing it as an act of love. But it is how you feel that is important, and if you feel you are "sacrificing" , I'm not suggesting there is anything wrong with that feeling, only that such feelings are not helpful to a relationship and should be dealt with or the relationship should be abandoned.
2016-03-15 22:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are walked on only if you want to be walked on. Life is as you make it. There's no point in being the fall guy everytime you enter a relationship. Be ready to let go when the time comes, don't hold on to another person as tho your life depended on that person.
If you enter a relationship with an open mind, knowing that this other person is human and as such could change their ways at any given point, then you will be more prepared to handle them properly when the time comes.
Women aren't the only ones making sacrifices, men do too. Its all left with the individual.
2006-07-11 00:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by b1ackeyze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have this thing about pain. Specifically about handling pain. Somehow it is inbuilt in them that they should be the carer at whatever cost. They are the saftey net. Whether it be in a relationshipmor as a mother. Maybe there is a mothe rin every girl. They rather take the pain. And mind you they can take the pain better than guys. Having said that though sometimes it is a vicious cycle and the women becomes not only thye victim but adopts the victim mentality.
2006-07-13 21:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the relationship. I know from experience that this can go the other way too. My wife doesn't sacrifice anything, I am the one that always has to give in, let go, be to blame. She got busted and went to jail and I was to blame and has to be there to support her.
Usually there is a weaker person and stronger person in the relationship (woman or man it doesn't matter) and the weaker person will always feel like you do.
2006-07-11 10:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by wn_all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's our own fault, my dear. Women let the men walk all over them....or lets say, weak women do that; immature women do that. When you get older you will know better. OR if you're smart, you will find yourself a wise mentor - a strong woman who can tell you and show you how to be your own person and not let ANYONE including any man, walk on your back. Straighten up and respect yourself cause men don't respect a woman who will let him do those things. Fact of life.
2006-07-11 00:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men and women both feel the pain and that it's not fair to say women sacrifice more than men. Get a grip. Sh*t happens and you deal with it.
2006-07-11 00:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its harder for women, and men dont understand that. We are gentle, soft, and we seem to be the only ones to try to keep things together. And i know it goes further then the relationships. look what we have to sacrifice when it comes down to getting dressed. my responce is if he wants to break up let his as$ go. if he needs something let him get it hisself. and if he isn't the love of your life, let him fail. We should not be to blame for any of their mistakes. We go through enough every month " and thats just our cycles" Let me see men bleed for a week straight and not die. We were created very strong maybe not on the outside but in our hearts, in our minds and in our souls. but you only sacrifice what you want , that is what you choose but you are able to say " NO" you only sacrifice what you want to sacrifice. JUST REMEMBER YOU HAVE A CHOICE!
2006-07-11 01:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dam man hater only if you knew what we go through, women say I like this show on TV but what she is really saying why didn't you take out the trash, or my favorite flower is a Lilly, what she means is why didn't you buy me that ring...
just cause you got stumped, doesn't mean all men are that way. I am sick of of that kind of crap stop stereo typing all males......
2006-07-11 00:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by ( ((G-Force)) ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women sacrifices what?
2006-07-11 00:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋