If men can walk around an cheat, why cant the wife an still not get the crap if we do get caught? We women are too dang nice sometimes. "although if men were real men we wouldnt have to cheat"
2006-07-11 03:43:35 · 29 answers · asked by cafemochamamma@yahoo.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not all men cheat the same as not all women are faithful. It sounds as if you are bitter right now over a situation. That is understandable. However, try not to stereotype people. I know plenty of women with cheating husbands. However, I know just as many faithful husbands with cheating wives. It is the person not the gender that makes this decision. If you are with someone who can not be faithful than for your sake I hope you can get away from the person. Good luck to you.
2006-07-11 03:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by geni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The standards for men and women cheating on their spouses is about the same. Most people are understanding of it if the spouse that is being cheated on is emotionally, verbally, or physically abusive, but that still doesn't make it right. You should always try counseling, and if the relationship can't be saved, get divorced before going on to be intimate with someone else. On the other hand, one would hope that in this day and age that people can also be forgiving of the accidents that occur once or twice while being married for decades that are usually caused by too much alcohol, or some other judgment-impairing situation.
2006-07-11 03:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by TailKinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men cheat. The only difference is that when a wife cheats her husband files for divorce...as is his right...a lot of times when a husband cheats the wife takes him back. It's not the men's fault there are women who are willing to be door mats out there.
2006-07-18 20:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is based on morals and values and beliefs. Personally I think cheating is UNFORGIVABLE by either sex yet society has a way of excepting a mans betrayal over a woman's. Most men that cheat have a reason : some say it is the wife, some say self esteem, and ego. Either way when you break a contract or agreement it shows the person you truly are to me.
2006-07-11 03:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by M T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says that men who cheat don't "get the crap"? Just because some women choose to stay with their husbands after affairs, doesn't mean women should cheat just to level some imaginary playing field. People need to dump cheating spouses, it would put an end to it. Scum is scum no matter what you spray on it.
2006-07-11 03:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman cheat only because their husbands has become complaisant and are not giving them the emotional attention they need. Cheating is wrong, deceitful and will hurt the entire family...but chances are she is cheating because she doesn't want to loose her family but has an emotional need the husband's not meeting. He touches her..listens..takes her places...but one day he will be just like the husband!!! Chances are we will have a deeper affair than a man...We (woman) feel differently and some men are unable to tap into the emotional part of woman. I am all about cheating.
2006-07-16 16:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men shouldn't cheat either it's a blatent disrespect to the vows you took in front of God and a church and if your man is cheating and you know he is then that means it's time to let that go and move on. Just b/c they do something we don't have too if he jumped off a bridge would you no you'd be like ok dumb azz and move on right well there it is!
2006-07-11 03:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all women decided not to be involved in any form of a cheating relationship (ex. woman cheating on husband or single woman cheating with a husband) men could only cheat on us with other men and animals. I
2006-07-11 03:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by heartbroken4now2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what, if men get caught they dont get crap, get real. People of both sexes cheat for various reasons. Women who dont get what they need at home and men who dont get what they need, if you want a real man, be a real women.
2006-07-11 03:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime Women feel that if they want to Cheat will not solve any plm. If her Husband Cheat, she will win why? she can go to court and tell them what she want and He will pay the price for what he done to his wife. Wife have alot of trust in husband not to do that and he did it anyway. So there for Women knows and Smart not to do that Cheating thing. smiling
2006-07-11 03:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋