I have a 9-5 and so does he, but why do i feel I need to continuously call him through out the day? At the moment I am holding myself not to call him. I enjoy speaking with him every second but the problem is...I call him first all the time. Rarely he calls me first because he knows I will call. We come into work together daily but even after I have settled in for a couple of hours I call him even if it's just to say HI!
2006-07-11 04:26:11 · 17 answers · asked by Lady C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think its ******* awesome. i do the same thing, and ive been married two years, been together for 7. i love my man. and i know how u feel. i love hearing his voice. if he doesnt have a problem with it, then why not
2006-07-11 06:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, give the man some space,..... you will eventually start suffocating him with your non-stop calls.
If you feel the impulse of calling ghim all the time because you are needy and you love the attention and the reassurance. This is not healthy , you know, as you will see each other at home later and you might want have something to talk about.
My bf calls me all the time and I rarely call first. Not because I don't love him, but because I don't want to interrupt him at work, that would be rude and I try to be as considetrate as possible. I also don't like talking on the phone and I using sparingly as is just my personality. I gladly answer his phonecalls when he is ready to talk on his breaks and after work and even so, I just rather talk to him in person so I can hold him and kiss him.
Good luck
2006-07-11 05:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a newlywed or just obsessive. The reason why he doesn't call you first is because you don't give him the chance to. Besides why call him every second, don't you have work to do? Cut back on your calling slowly and then eventually you will only call maybe twice. After all, you will see him at home later.
2006-07-11 04:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don' t do the calling, but my husband calls me every chance he gets. I know it can be annoying to the other spouse sometimes, but if it is just for a quick hello, its probably just because you want to hear his voice. I know on days that my husband doesn't get a chance to call me I miss it. I don't think it is a matter of trust issues, unless you are calling because you are "checking up" on him. If he says it is bugging him cut back on the calls, if it is trust then you may need to think on that further, but if it is just cause you love him and want to hear his voice its all good.
2006-07-11 04:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Rita J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,You must stop that. It would drive anyone crazy after some time. Once or twice is plenty. My wife did what you do and i had to ask her to stop. Work is just that sometimes you are very busy and the interruption is really upsetting unless it is for a good reason. Once or twice a day is enough. Don't be so insecure.
2006-07-11 04:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a minute. you two work together in the same building?
dont freak out. its okay. i do the same thing. well, i dont call him just to say HI. i call him like 2 times a day on my breaks. i like to check in on him and see what he is doing. he works out of the field and travels a lot. so i like to find out if he is okay and nothing bad happened to him. he calls me more then 3 times a day and leaves me messages letting me know he is okay.
so you dont have to think you are weird for doing that. im sure your husband loves to hear your voice, right? so im sure he is okay with you calling him. ask him to call you too sometimes when he can. if not then you can continue to call him. its something normal and sweet. it hold your relationship together. so good for you.
but if you call him like 10 times a day just to find out where he is at and what he is doing and if he ate and just to say hi or bye, then you are starting to lose it. calm down by then. okay?
2006-07-11 04:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably just want to hear his voice. Most of us have been there. I still call my husband a couple times a day. He's probably used to you calling first so he's relying on you to do the calling.
2006-07-11 05:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to get busy on something i called my husband to but if i don't called him he calls me and we call each other every day when we are at work just to say hi and how is his day going i think is okay don't worry about just remember to try to control your self okay.
2006-07-11 05:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by SunFlower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby likes to call me several times/day. Do you miss him that much or is it more of a trust issue? I guess I don't have enough info to actually answer the question...
2006-07-11 04:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like his mum - making sure he does this and that.. leave the guy alone.. he might find it sweet right now, but go on like this and he's gonna get really reallllllly bored/irritated of u. do something else - play games online, call ur friends instead, or actually WORK at ur office!!!
2006-07-11 04:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋