Marriage & Divorce - 10 July 2006

2006-07-10 05:21:55 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 26, I have a 17 month old daughter and I am very confused about my marriage. In the past I have caught my husband in lies. (About where he has been which is usually sneaking to drink with friends) This weekend when getting into his truck i found an adult movie called 100 couples sex positions hidden behind his seat. He completely freaked out and tried to snatch it from me. It was an instructional pornographic video. Could this signal that he is cheating. When I was pregnant I busted him pay per viewing porn on our satellite and then found DVD porn stashed around the house. I found the receipt to this videa and it was dated over a month ago. He is never home alone to watch it yet it was already unwrapped. Is he watching this with another woman??? Is this grounds for a divorce. His lack of communication with me and his constant lying is tearing me apart. He tried to convince me that he was going to surprise me with it to spice things up. I dont buy it!

2006-07-10 05:18:29 · 24 answers · asked by dumbunny33 2

My ex-wife (well its not final but its close) who found a friend and now is going out with him and have thir own company, as moved on in her life as I have. Im now with someone else and we too are trying to a company stared. Need less to say she fail to say that she has other means of income, but she did say that she only gets 300$ a month in the cort room. She has estated that she only care about the $$ that the kids show get (what she gets) is enough support for them. More like she is just needing the $$.
At anyrate I'm a responsibel father and love my kids what ever she dose with the money i could care less ($$ from my paychek). Now with the business thing that is different. I do want my kids to benifit from it. But I dont want her to live a good life.
So my question is, how can I restric what $$ she get if I have a business that is doing a avg. of 1500 $$ a month. She dose not help with expenses nor she cares what my expenses are. She care about the $$ what can do?

2006-07-10 05:15:05 · 4 answers · asked by marine_arty155 2

How much do you spend on groceries each week? I'm spending about 150.00 for a family of four. My husband thinks this is too much. What do you average?

2006-07-10 05:13:50 · 20 answers · asked by ajaxwashere 2

No STD's or anything, just a promiscuous past.

2006-07-10 05:12:48 · 26 answers · asked by john ? 1

I don't want any judgements, this is my own little scientific experiment.

2006-07-10 05:11:52 · 11 answers · asked by a_red_wine_guy 2

My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years and his ex wife is still in love with him and uses the kids and everything else to keep tabs on him. She is always showing up at his work or when he goes out with his friends. At first I thought my husband was leaking it to her or something but I learned recently that she has been talking with one of his other friends alot lately and he is spilling things about when we fight and when my husband is going out and stuff. Any advice on how to handle the situation?

2006-07-10 05:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by Kell 1

I point out things like how she snickers at bad drivers but occassionally she'll make a bad move behind the wheel and laugh it off. Or how she is not generous to others, but when on the receiving end she will call others cheap or wonder why they aren't more generous. So when I point these things out, she says this is how she's always been and that this is the person that I married. She'll ask me why I wan't to change her and above all why did I even marry her if I'm not happy with the person whe is? I respond by saying that is a cop-out in that we should always strive to be a better person. And also that it's not true - I do love her for who she is but I also want her to know if she's acting wrong or could be a better person. To her, it's just me pointing out her flaws - she becomes defensive and angry. Who's right here? And is there a better way to approach this?

2006-07-10 04:58:04 · 13 answers · asked by SeekingSolace 2

this weekend we had a special weekend planned, we were going away, out of state getting a hotel room for some alone time and to celebrate my b-day, its 2morrow but our work schedules interfere thru the week. well, we get to the other state and he decides to stop and say hi to his relatives, which is fine, but he then decides to stay there on their hidabed instead of the hotel. so i feel cheated. am i being selfish? also i am a heavy smoker and i had to smoke outside and the mosquitos were really bad. am i wrong to be upset? i was looking forward to this, we were also celebrating our anniversary, i know its over and done with but i still feel hurt, i even offered to pay for the room when he mentioned staying with his relatives.

2006-07-10 04:55:18 · 20 answers · asked by char1969 1

Do you think its right for a couple to get married but decide that they don't want kids? I got into an argument with a girl that I know who said there is no point on getting married if you don't have kids. What do you all think?

2006-07-10 04:51:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-10 04:49:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-10 04:45:41 · 6 answers · asked by Scott V 1

When you get off work today and come home, what is the best thing your wife could do for you? Honestly.

Have dinner nicely prepared, have a bath drawn up for you ,etc.

2006-07-10 04:45:34 · 19 answers · asked by kristin22 4

2006-07-10 04:44:33 · 24 answers · asked by Koshari P 2

1 time I walked in and they were having a conversation and all of a sudden she backed away and went upstairs they were very close.
I have seen a couple of calls on his phone bill to and from her.
He has never mentioned to me any conversation.

2006-07-10 04:40:49 · 17 answers · asked by labrownskin 1

He cheated on me a couple of times while he was overseas. Gave chances but still cheated with different women. I chronic liar too. Should I take him seriously?

2006-07-10 04:28:10 · 27 answers · asked by DiL 3

I have been married for 10 years and my husband and I are very good friends! We seem to be developing different interests and we are in our 30's.

2006-07-10 04:26:57 · 13 answers · asked by Rodney 2

I look at those around me, and I honestly don't know of anyone married over ten years to the same person besides myself. This is scarey. So anyone out their that is, please share your secret for happiness.

2006-07-10 04:23:05 · 13 answers · asked by barbaradjt 5

2006-07-10 04:17:48 · 20 answers · asked by patwa v 1

This can be whatever your little heart desires to answer. :-) It can be with your husband/wife, kids, family, or by yourself.

2006-07-10 04:15:18 · 10 answers · asked by kristin22 4

when he ask me to thing like suck him i don't,he me money eveyday,he made part owner of his resturunt and we not even marry,he ask if i want to marry him i said no. i am now try to open up a bussiness he said he will pay for it should keep taken this man money if i am cheating on him not just either.i date 5 men now all of them keep buy me thing i feel bad should keep it going on or not stick with one i am only 19 year old a college grate of bussiness.

2006-07-10 04:13:52 · 28 answers · asked by ceila camelia kingson 1

I've been married to my husband for five years and he's great, but over the past 3 years or so he has stopped brushing his teeth and has gained alot of weight. I've tried everything to get him to take care of himself. I dont know what else to try???

2006-07-10 04:12:19 · 4 answers · asked by texasmommy 1

recently and friend of mind just found out that her husband cheated on her. she has strong faith in christianity and i was just wondering that if in the christian faith, is adultry grounds for divorce???

2006-07-10 04:03:30 · 21 answers · asked by hunny bunny 2

Just wanting to see if any men or women have some nice ideas for a romantic evening out, or in, or just any nice ideas that come to mind for a husband and wife to do together, thank you.

2006-07-10 04:01:26 · 5 answers · asked by kristin22 4

child ve to go father in law coz they want sex? thatchild want stay home cant, why parent do that?

2006-07-10 03:59:08 · 16 answers · asked by ling g 1

He is going to get 5,000.00 per month for the next six months on a deal he made with the owners of our business, as well as they will pay off his debts. I know if I take him to court he will tell the judge he is unemployed. What should I do? Should I start the proceedings anyway and go at it alone?

2006-07-10 03:55:50 · 17 answers · asked by empower100 1

I'm married with a guy but i am starting to look at girl's beauty and sometimes i wonder how does it feel to kiss and hold a girl. I never felt like this it started like a few months ago. I often have dreams of kissing a girl what does this mean?

2006-07-10 03:54:37 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1

this question is kind of embarrassing but I need some input.My husband has been wanting anal sex.I think its disgusting.Im all up for trying new things but thats over the line for me. I let him do it once but told him to stop cuz it hurt to much.Now he keeps pressuring me for it and when i say no he gets upset.I ask him why he wants to do it that way he says its more erotic and tighter. Ok yes I have had two kids so Im sure Im not as tight i was pre kids. Iwant to make him happy but I want to be happy too and that is sooo not going to make me happy.So what do I do about this situation and is there anything I can do to satisfy him if Im not as tight as he would likeor anything i can do to tighten myself back up. sorry if its TMI

2006-07-10 03:53:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some women are into it, crave it, others not.

Anyone having actual experience with it care to talk about what turns you ON or OFF about it.

What does it Do or NOT DO for you?

2006-07-10 03:40:57 · 13 answers · asked by DalDrWill 1

After exploring all the social, spiritual, mental things you have in common and you discover you don't have any of the same likes, tastes, interests, beliefs, etc. is it worth it to stay with each other because you find each other incredibly attractive and sexy?

2006-07-10 03:40:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous