1 time I walked in and they were having a conversation and all of a sudden she backed away and went upstairs they were very close.
I have seen a couple of calls on his phone bill to and from her.
He has never mentioned to me any conversation.
2006-07-10 04:40:49 · 17 answers · asked by labrownskin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She hasn't worked for is in over 2 months.
2006-07-11 09:48:34 · update #1
Wake up.....they are probably boning each other.
2006-07-10 04:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by BWLJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Innocent people have no reason to drop a conversation when the wife walks in. The fact that it was the girl who walked away (i.e., she felt guilt and embarrassment over your arrival) shows that your husband is probably the one pushing the matter with her.
Perhaps nothing has happened yet. Perhaps something has. It's hard to tell. Do you know how long the phone calls were that were on the bill, and can you tell the location?
You could test him by asking if she called at those times (find a good excuse to ask, in a general sense), and seeing what he says. If he has an immediate story that explains the calls, then maybe they were innocent, maybe not. If he completely covers it up, you're in trouble. Anytime someone covers up an interaction, they are feeling guilt over what they've done... or are trying not to get caught.
You could also suggest letting her go and finding a new girl, and seeing what he says. How attached to her is he? What will he say/do to keep her employed by you? It would be revealing.
You could also ask that she calls you to handle business, rather than him.
In any case, you need to keep an eye on them. You could ask him now about her; but if you force the issue without proof, things could go either way.
2006-07-10 04:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jennywocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a nana? Anyway it sounds as if they are having an affair. Hire a PI to find out for sure.
2006-07-10 04:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like there is something going on there. Check it out. Talk to your man. Honesty is everything in a relationship, or else it is about to be broken. Good luck, and have a nice day..
2006-07-10 04:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Scorpion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? if you are really asking this ....seriously..... here...you already know the answer! If this is an *innocent* relationship...why is he being so sneaky and quiet about it? hmmmm- it's just a hunch, but I'll bet he's hiding more than just a few phone conversations from you.... confront him now and settle your doubting mind.
2006-07-10 04:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by sammy22005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this dosent sound good. I think i would discuss this with my hubby and see whats going on. Or straight up confront this girl. Shes not calling you and there basically hiding there conversations from u if it was innocent why hide it?
2006-07-10 04:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something you need to question b/c if he's sneaking with the conversation who knows what else they are sneaking nd doing so watch yourself ok!
2006-07-10 04:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants to bang the Nana if he isn't doing it alredy. Hell, I'd love to get in ger nicckers too.
2006-07-10 04:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to fire her and hire someone your hubby wont be sleepin with, cause im pretty sure you'd be right in thinkin that somthin goin on, especially if he gives her a ride to or from work
2006-07-10 04:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by transplanted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep a close eye on them try n check his phone for messages from her
2006-07-10 04:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him about it, or call her, and find out what's going on. If they are talking, they should have told you about it.
2006-07-10 04:43:08 · answer #11 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋