I don't want any judgements, this is my own little scientific experiment.
2006-07-10 05:11:52 · 11 answers · asked by a_red_wine_guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well its not that I haven't I have had a affair it's just never with a total stranger. I have been with co-workers that have been so for years and all of a sudden horrid thigs happen and thank god, knock on wood, my husband has never known about them!
2006-07-10 05:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I am not married as of yet, however, I am getting married Aug. 21st. I have been with my guy for a little over 2 yrs. Sex has been absolutely wonderful! He and I agree to disagree agreeably. He have NEVER argued within the two years that he and I have been together. We have been living together 6 months after we had gotten together. I HAVE had thoughts about having an affair, but they were only thoughts. We all think weird things now and then, but for me to actually have an affair, that is totally out of the question! I would never! I have been married once before (for 6 wks-emotionally abusive marriage). I have 2 children from 2 different fathers. My child from the 2nd relationship I was in prior to my fiance', is now 2 1/2. My fiance' cares deeply for her and treats her as if she is his own. The same stands to reason for my 4 yr old from my first marriage. I am 25 yrs old and my fiance is 42 with a 17yr olf mentality (I mean that in a comical way). I figure, I ask myself or even wonder what it would be like to have an affair with a complete strange, but then I think of how much destruction would occur if he were to find out. The sneaking around and having to cover up your tracks can be more of a headache than an excitement. THERE is where you will get caught!
2006-07-10 05:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Wisconsin Vixen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will being happily divorced for over 5 years now I still want to answer this question.
No matter how bad it was or how long I managed to say in an unhappy marriage never once did i seek out having an affair with anyone I knew or with a complete stranger.
I'm sure there are some out there that would go for the thrill, but not this gal ... not back then and not now either!!
Just my opinion for your little scientific experiment.
2006-07-10 05:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why ruin a perfectly GREAT sex life with a fabulous man that I love and who loves me for an affair?
Wouldn't risk losing everything cause of something selfish like an affair.
2006-07-10 05:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. Thats crazy. I wouldnt want to ruin my marriage!! If i wanted to do something like that, i would just get a divorce.
2006-07-10 05:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Never, I love my husband too much to ever even think about cheating on him.
2006-07-10 05:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have fantasized about sleeping with other men but I have never done it.
2006-07-10 05:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mary W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, never even thought about it.
2006-07-10 05:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by AQHA34 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is a big resounding NO!!!!!
2006-07-10 05:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Silva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it
2006-07-10 05:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by big&rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋