Marriage & Divorce - 10 July 2006

I was in emotionally mentally abusive marriage and I decided to get a divorce. I am mentally emotionally tired and feeling angry that I was used and abused. I realized that with my narcissistic personality husband, I have to move out ASAP for my physical and mental health. I am scared and paranoid to see my husband. I am looking for my apartment but it is not easy to find one right away (I have called around and saw places.) and also I am feeling like I don't know what to do from here. My sister has 2 family home which she is looking for a tenant right now. I have asked her briefly if I can move in by paying rent and she and her husband seemed to be reluctant. (they are in honeymoon phase of marriage and I don't think they want another family member living so close.) I just want to get out ASAP to avoid him. Do you I should ask my sister again for period of 6 months explaining my desparation?

2006-07-10 07:38:09 · 8 answers · asked by whattodo898 1

When a woman is on her period do her vaginal muscles contract?

2006-07-10 07:37:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just found out I have stage 3 kidney diease, my husband verbally abuses me and my children, he gives us no money, won't keep my life insurance paid.so that when I pass, he and the kids would have the insurance money, stage 4 is dialysis and transplant. Any serious sugestions? won't give me money for gas , taken me off checkbook. No acess to any money. Please Help!!!

2006-07-10 07:33:31 · 19 answers · asked by Dawn W 1

My boyfriend and I have discussed getting engaged and when we would do it, and we both know we would like to get married, but we've never talked about a ring. I don't want to seem pushy bringing up what I would like, but at the same time I have a good idea of what design I would like to have. I would rather have a ring I'm truly happy with than one he suprised me with but I don't like.

2006-07-10 07:23:55 · 13 answers · asked by MandyT 2

i feel that our marriage is beginning to crumble

2006-07-10 07:18:45 · 30 answers · asked by edgar b 1

How does an inmate in New York file for a divorce?

2006-07-10 07:17:30 · 4 answers · asked by ArieMiguIsa 1

I have been strongly thinking about giving my husband a threesome (adding another female) for his birthday. I am down with it but I don't know how he will respond to it or how our relationship be after this. We have been together for along time (10 years) we have a great relatiionship, we are eachother's bestfriends. If I decide to do this It will be a surprise like until we do the do. If anyone has been there done that and survived please give me some feedback. My husband has never asked for this nor has he hinted. IS THIS A BAD IDEA????

2006-07-10 07:08:34 · 53 answers · asked by krazy-confused 1

my boyfrind wants to get engaged but he dosnt no how to ask can u please help me please

2006-07-10 06:58:32 · 9 answers · asked by Ryann K 1

help me

2006-07-10 06:56:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are both involved in EARTH based spiritual beliefs and some what NON-traditional.

2006-07-10 06:55:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-10 06:48:42 · 15 answers · asked by HUGO P 1

I have been married for 3 years now with a man I thought I knew and loved. Now we have two kids together and I am barely getting to know the real him the ugly him. He does drugs and stays out and parties and night. While I stay home and take care of the kids and have to go to school the next day. Everything was ok until our second child was born. I think I should leave him but I don't know how to be without him. My question is should I bare with it till he changes which he said he will or should I move on with my life and my kids and see what the future holds for me?

2006-07-10 06:42:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-10 06:42:16 · 6 answers · asked by justme 1

such as life insurance, gas money, health insurance, etc.

2006-07-10 06:40:42 · 10 answers · asked by Dawn W 1

2006-07-10 06:33:10 · 6 answers · asked by Julio H 2

Do you regret any relationship or marriage that fell apart due to the fact you didn't want to change or didn't see the problem until after it was to late.... why did you regret it??

2006-07-10 06:31:23 · 7 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5

this is from the online case docket about their divorce...

06-22-2004 JUDGMENT ENTRY: PATRICIA ****** FKA ******** ACKNOWLEDGES THAT D***** ******** IS CURRENT IN HIS CHILD SUPPORT OBLIGATION AND THERE ARE NO ARREARAGES. CSEA TO ADJUST THEIR RECORDS. $2.00

08-08-2003 JUDGMENT ENTRY AS TO DISSOLUTION ALLOWED. $2.00

08-07-2003 DECREE OF DISSOLUTION GRANTED SEPARATION AGREEMENT INCORPORATED

what is this separation agreement that was incorporated?? i dont know much about legal terms so could someone tell me if he is still legally married?

2006-07-10 06:28:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-10 06:25:30 · 17 answers · asked by RinBellaire 2

What if po*rn is involved? (either me or her) she is into her toy, which is fine by me, I know she is faithful. and i am def. faithful too, but sometimes when she doesnt want to do it at night, she sends me in the living room with a dirty mag. i always feel guilty about it, even though she is giving her permission. thoughts?

2006-07-10 06:21:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-10 06:05:01 · 23 answers · asked by whichwayisup 2

2006-07-10 06:00:47 · 14 answers · asked by canibus 2

2006-07-10 05:56:08 · 16 answers · asked by yes, it's me 2

Please before I get judged by anyone in here let me explain. I've been living in hell for 3 years. In january 2003 the love of my life became very illed and although we've been to many doctors his case has never been diagnosed. He became hostile and uncaring. He forgets about my birthday or our wedding anniversary. I do everything around the house, I view myself as a maid, somebody who's there to take care of his needs and his daughter. I need attention and love. He no longer says "I love you" to me. The only thing that we have still intact is our sex life but I feel bad when ever I have sex with him because he doesn't say I love you to me. I want a man to love me and care for me just like I do for him. I don't want to cheat for sex I want to cheat for love. I want to feel like I am 16 again even though I am 28 now. I am fed up of caring for a depressed sick man who is just boring. I am alive and well for now so I want to be able to live life to the fullest before I go underground.

2006-07-10 05:54:30 · 16 answers · asked by me 2

My husband has a tattoo with our wedding date that he got about a year after we got married. He says he wants to get my name underneath it along with a design and something to describe how he feels about me. He wants me to design it for him because I designed both of my tattoos and hes not very creative... Do i design it and let him get the tattoo or tell him no?

2006-07-10 05:49:43 · 8 answers · asked by Trouble 3

2006-07-10 05:41:06 · 29 answers · asked by Scott V 1

I can't have any friends,He thinks that he should be my one and only.I stay at home all day long .I can't go anywhere without him. He checks the computer history to see if i have been anywhere that i shouldn't.My jeans can't be tight.I can't wear shirts that has cute little saying like( like what you see dial 1800-you-wish)He says that is advertising.He said you are not single anymore.Is that what you want?Do you need that kind of attention?If you need that kind of attention then you don't need me. I moved 2 and 1/2 hours away from my family because he wanted to move.I called my kids saturday and me and him got into a fight.He said he don't care if i talk to my kids but he said i should not be talking to my ex husband.I should not have anything to say to him.He also threw away my ex husband phone #.When he saw that i had it in my cell phone(that don't work) WE got into a fight over that.If he thinks i am looking at a guy he says Is he pretty.How do i deal with this? I am going crazy

2006-07-10 05:38:37 · 26 answers · asked by TinkerBell 3

how long was the "adjustment" in your marriage ? (ive been married for 8 months and i want all our fighting and arguing to be over)

2006-07-10 05:38:19 · 30 answers · asked by taylor 2

I mean when you ask your girl whats wrong, they deny it and if I ask why are you mad, they expect us to just know when If i did know i wouldn't ask whats wrong or why you mad. I basically just wanna know how to handle things in this situation so that it won't escalate to something else.

2006-07-10 05:32:30 · 14 answers · asked by 99 ways son 1

If you knew they had no STD's - currently

2006-07-10 05:28:23 · 20 answers · asked by john ? 1

On the grounds of adultary because he found my vibrator that I had hidden from him. He's terribly old fashioned and in his mind this is as good as having an affair. How can I convince him that he's being completely irrational? Thanks.

2006-07-10 05:23:08 · 30 answers · asked by LONDONER © 6