Marriage & Divorce - 10 July 2006

Well me and my wife have been seperated for the last month. Its the most difficult thing Ive been through and i regret all the pain I caused my wife. She has been keeping in touch, gets jealous when i talk about girls just in general. Ive never touched or been out with another girl, besides a friend date. Weve met twice since the seperation. The first time she ask me if ive been hanging out with buddies or girls. I said buddies and ask her the same. She said just friends. It was really awkward and business like. Last Friday we met again, and it was much different. We laughed, told jokes and she gave away all the signs that someone is in to u. She played with her bracelets nervously, played with her hair, was googling over me, and leaning towards me. She said though that if we get back together i MAY have to accept the fact she has been seeing other people. We said it was nice seeing u and we smiled at eachother like when we first went out. Why would she say the guy thing who does that?

2006-07-10 17:40:54 · 8 answers · asked by abyss5069 1

i thot it was once awhile.now its being everyday chatting.her ex would said hello to her,talk for 1 hr.she seems happy to talk to him.sharing alot of things.but felt lazy to talk to me.when i told her i want to meet him,she seems defend him saying no need of it.i said i need to talk to her ex to stop chat with her.if need,then meet me and her together.

2006-07-10 17:37:51 · 20 answers · asked by idrisjack 1

how many of you would marry someone because of sex.

2006-07-10 17:35:31 · 25 answers · asked by Sara B 1

I believe we love many but husband believes we have that one special person.

2006-07-10 17:35:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-10 17:30:22 · 22 answers · asked by ruerue 1

I've been married for over 8 years and my spouse and I seem to no longer have anything in common. I want to move out of state. He doesn't. I would love to adopt. He won't. I would like to own my own business...(and he discourages me every chance he gets.) In fact, he knew since the day he met me that I wanted to start my own business one day. What makes it so bad is that there is never any compromise on the big things? It is his way or no way. I feel so stiffled in my marriage. I want to move on , but I it all seems so overwhelming. How does go about the process of moving on?

Where I live, we would need to be separated for at least a year before I file for divorce if the reason is irreconcilable differences. I knew it depends on the person and the circumstance, but how painful is the whole separation/divorce process?

2006-07-10 17:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by hrmom02 2

2006-07-10 17:17:52 · 18 answers · asked by ruerue 1

i need someone to give me advice

2006-07-10 17:16:53 · 21 answers · asked by littlenandez 2

During hurricane katrina my family was scattered everywhere and my cell phone was my only connection to them..(bill was high) for 2 months....and my husband cut it off for good with no intentions on getting me another.....do you think it's unfair and controling? Never done this before!! but he has :(.....@ home mom.

2006-07-10 17:15:13 · 16 answers · asked by Cookie48 3

okay sum guys think it is wrong for guys 2 kiss guys,and it is okay 4 girls 2 kiss girls!!!!1where is ''okay''for girls 2 kiss girls come from???homosexuality is all the same.same gender wit same gender...if u r a homophobic then y is it okay for girls 2 kiss and not guys???

2006-07-10 17:14:02 · 11 answers · asked by whitetrash666 2

2006-07-10 17:09:54 · 8 answers · asked by X P 3

July 18 is my six year anniversary what should we do? we have a 5 yr old daughter that would be with us, we just moved to the city and dont know anyone to babysit, so what would there be to do with a child? what would be a nice gift to get him as well. nice comments. thanks

2006-07-10 17:04:43 · 16 answers · asked by ~*Jenny*~ 4

when do most husbands and wifes usually meet? high school? college? after college?

2006-07-10 17:04:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

July 18 is my six year anniversary what should we do? we have a 5 yr old daughter that would be with us, we just moved to the city and dont know anyone to babysit, so what would there be to do with a child? nice comments. thanks

2006-07-10 17:04:02 · 2 answers · asked by ~*Jenny*~ 4

Suddenly he is miserable. I don't have a problem with divorce. Kids are grown, I have a career. He is a retired marine. He started getting verbally abusive in the end.

2006-07-10 16:41:49 · 20 answers · asked by raquel6037 1

2006-07-10 16:39:30 · 16 answers · asked by allsagoodnight 1

I have a good friend who has been in a relationship with her boo for sometime...
When they first got together He would tell her he loved her all the time, they would kiss in public, hold hands, suggle on the couch.
They were acording to her having sex three or four times a day..
She is now confused and alone..
She tells me that they no longer do any of the above...
That he comes home from work and sitts on the couch, eats dinner and goes to bed, there is nothing between them..
She tells me she is not getting any help around the house, and only gets attention when he needs something.
She feels she is being used, and that he only cares that the house is clean and his needs are taken care of.
When i asked if she has talked to him she said yes and he told her that he loves her very much, that she is the love of his life, and would die if he was to loss her, and that he doesnt have any disire to have sex , and that even going to the strippers is not apealing

WHAT SHOULD SHE DO

2006-07-10 16:35:43 · 9 answers · asked by passonfruits 1

2006-07-10 16:33:33 · 14 answers · asked by LARCO 4

Songs like Chris Issac - Wicked Games, Tracy Chapman - Give Me One Reason, Bruce Springstein - I'm on Fire, etc
Thanks!

2006-07-10 16:31:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Honestly, if you were relatively happily married and you found another love..... would you be willing to accept that the married love would stop loving you if they found of your new love.... even though the new love has no intentions of providing for you. How would you react really. I don't need any marriage is a lifetime commitment.... I have enough of that, I need honest answers. If you found love that was stronger than the love you had, would you want it more knowing you would lose the love you know?

2006-07-10 16:29:58 · 20 answers · asked by colorist 6

His father thinks when I ground him he should still be able to have friends over. Best of all when he didn't come home I grounded him for 4 days and he took off when I wasn't looking. When he came back I told him he has now lost his computer and the phone for a week. He took off to his fathers because he NEVER DISIPLINES him or ever backs my disiple. My son doesn't want to be told what to do...wants no rules. He has failed the 9th grade...lied.. and is now staying out all night. His father told me no wonder our son gets mad at me ..you give him things(computer) then take them away. My thought is...isn't that how it works...take it away and they earn it back. No matter what the issue is..it is never our sons fault always reasons why he is doing this...but none of them our our sons fault. he feels there doesn't need to be conseqeunses for his actions. I tell our son he needs to take ownership for the things he does.. Please help very upset by all this.

2006-07-10 16:28:51 · 49 answers · asked by presteen619 2

we have only been married for 5 months. i recently found out that i'm pregnant. after i told him he start acting really weird, not talking showing voilent behavior, he almost hit me saturday night. i found out today that last girl he was with was pregnant, he ended up beating her. she lost the baby. i have a 5 year old and a 3 year old we are all very scared. i need some advice.

2006-07-10 16:25:13 · 16 answers · asked by Heather D 1

2006-07-10 16:24:27 · 21 answers · asked by Conleys10 1

These days, most marriages end, is it possible for one person in the couple to save the relationship just by having faith, or is it hopeless?

2006-07-10 16:24:11 · 13 answers · asked by TarasBoutiqueAtEtsy 4

The only thing I have to go by is an email address and first name.

2006-07-10 16:15:14 · 8 answers · asked by pt 1

I'm pretty traditional. I would like to be married and have children...raise a family and live a productive family life. Divorce has raise to 60% in the U.S. Does this scare you into getting married? Is your family still in that traditional lifestyle where they expect you to be married a certain age and do you feel pressured sometimes? Do you think rushing into marriage is one reason why the divorce rate is so high now? What do you think the reasons are for this high rate? Is it over-rated or is it possible that just "living with someone" is a healthier relationship that forcing marriage? Is marriage thought more of as a tax break or is the traditional "love and matrimony" no longer exist?

2006-07-10 16:02:57 · 7 answers · asked by Sean I.T ? 7

2006-07-10 16:00:58 · 37 answers · asked by Maitri* 2

I always thought of marriage as just a piece of paper,but lately its been weighing on my mind. Arent I worth being more than just "the girlfriend"..or "the mom". I wont give an ultimatum for this , if Im not what hes looking for in a wife then we can move on. But Im beginnning to think Im wasting my time

2006-07-10 15:54:12 · 8 answers · asked by thisreallymylife? 1

2006-07-10 15:51:53 · 44 answers · asked by jdnmsedsacrasac1 4

2006-07-10 15:50:21 · 34 answers · asked by ? 2